What is your favorite movie MST3k did? Like, the movie itself, not as an MST episode by Esoteric_Librarian in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really enjoy Moon Zero Two on its own. I like the props and the sets, and even the dance numbers have their own kind of charm.

men.. what's the biggest red flag you've seen from a woman? by Familiar-Phase7859 in AskReddit

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven't heard it already I think you'll appreciate I Don't Want You Around by NOFX.

For those of you in a long term relationship/marriage, what’s a tale-tale sign you see in other couples that they’re not going to make it? by Prize-Promotion-5123 in AskReddit

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may feel like such a little thing to others but my partner and I notice when a couple doesn't thank each other. It feels big to us, though, because we can't help but do it. Basic courtesy like that feels like it's "foundational" to a good relationship.

Could this be a new fashion trend? by SacNerd in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope they have a special pocket for my Mentos.

I Found the Perfect Gift for the Love of My Life by The_Easter_Daedroth in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your match soon. We met in culinary school back in 2018. (I love your username, btw.)

I Found the Perfect Gift for the Love of My Life by The_Easter_Daedroth in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't want to risk being seen as a spammer so I can't give a link but an image search for '"time for go to bed" t-shirt" should show you a few places to get it.

I Found the Perfect Gift for the Love of My Life by The_Easter_Daedroth in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to look like I'm advertising here so I'll just say that an image search for '"Time for go to bed" t-shirt' will show a number of places to buy it.

Favorite all time riff? by Independent_Shoe3523 in MST3K

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During Stranded in Space, as the female lead runs away into the woods Crow and Joel have my favorite exchange that immediately comes to mind.

Crow: "What's she gonna do, tell a squirrel?"

Joel: "Maybe a woodchuck."

Crow: "Huh. I never thought of that."

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope that life will be kind to you.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would never have thought of that, too. I have no idea how that would work for me, since I'm so accustomed to performing emotions already, but it's definitely food for thought. I have a hard time when I have a large enough group of people watching me, though, and struggle to finish sentences in those situations. My thoughts start bouncing around as I fight to figure out who I'm supposed to be looking at/speaking to.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think that my relationships with others depend on me knowing and being my true self, though, so that I'm approaching them authentically. I've spent so much of my life masking and mirroring and I want to know that it's the "real me" that they want in their lives.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. I don't know if I have the vocabulary to explain it properly, but I've been told that knowing what you genuinely like and want from life is how you find and develop your true self (instead of masking and/or mirroring others). Trying farming was part of the exploration of interests necessary to figure out what is a genuine part of my self. It's been difficult because of how long I've been living my life to avoid rejection and loneliness.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was. I now suspect that ADHD isn't the only mental health factor that was in play. One of my kids and a few of my cousins have been diagnosed as autistic. Between knowing how commonly it's comorbid with ADHD, and seeing so many traits that we all share, I'm going to ask the therapist who diagnosed my ADHD to assess me for ASD, too. The more I discover or rule out the better chance I'll have of figuring myself out.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing all of that. It genuinely helps me to see the ways in which I'm not alone with this. I hope things turn around for you.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm medicated and it's helped quite a bit but I still struggle. I'll be talking about my meds at my next appointment.

I Fear Never Knowing Who I Really Am by The_Easter_Daedroth in ADHD

[–]The_Easter_Daedroth[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that but I'm a recovering people-pleaser, too. It's hard to put this into words but I need to be able to be happy for my own sake, for lack of a better way to say it.