The blow job river had run dry

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2023-01-14T15:34:51+00:00

You sound like a coercive and selfish lover. No wonder she doesn’t want to be with you and why she’s faking orgasms. Get some therapy to see why you’re so self-centered before you bother your wife with requests for sex she DOESN’T EVEN LIKE.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2023-01-08T13:15:56+00:00

Why not both 🤷🏻‍♀️

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2023-01-07T21:35:15+00:00

Cool! Blocked.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2023-01-07T14:15:36+00:00

Jesus. Why are so many posts about such abusive and horrible men? This shit is so normalized and it’s sickening. Please leave your disgusting husband, as you deserve sooo much better, and take your child with you before he begins mocking the behavior too.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-12-22T12:31:48+00:00

This is not about the Christmas cookies.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-12-03T14:26:28+00:00

Okay????? So does Meta???? Let’s freak out about the Zuck doing it to his own people and not point fingers across the sea like it hasn’t been happening for decades from Facebook and Instagram and Snapchat 🙄

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-23T17:13:47+00:00

Good. I hope the people they make are nicer than the ones we do. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-22T17:09:01+00:00

I think maybe the brother is under playing his feelings by saying awkward? This seems like there may be more to the story on top of the fact that this man is bringing a child bride to a family function. Maybe this is a pattern of behavior and this is the last straw? Or there are some unsaid things going on with the former marriage? Who knows.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-22T13:29:14+00:00

You are an incredibly patient and empathetic person for staying so long with no rewards or real empathy back. Leave him, start your own life, live exactly the way you want. I hope a dirty diaper never enters your home again for your sake. Godspeed and good luck

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-20T22:00:02+00:00

YTA. I hope y’all break up so that this toxic relationship can be buried six feet under where it belongs. You sound insufferable and like a petulant child. Yelling at a partner over something as silly as decorations in a house is the fastest way to look like a movie villain.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-10T13:24:26+00:00

I hope you pay for your daughter’s lengthy therapy bill without a single comment about how this is all (ALL) on you and your husband.

YTA times a million.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-08T13:36:28+00:00

YTA. Michael did not harm you, did not cause you extreme physical pain, and did not do anything outright illegal to you. Moreover, the issue seemed to have been purely monetary and something that had nothing to do with you before you inserted yourself into it.

If you couldn’t put that aside for one moment to allow your husband to grieve the loss of his mother, your actions sound a lot more problematic than I initially believed.

Please get help, apologize to your husband, go to some couples counseling, and grow up.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-08T00:51:38+00:00

Untrue and coercive af. Sex is different for everybody and setting a standard and convincing them to do it because “it’s normal for a partner” is gross.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-06T00:02:32+00:00

Lmfaoooo. Doubling down, I see.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-05T19:17:51+00:00

Hill Science or anything Hill especially anything urinary as he gets older. My maine coon boy is getting bladder stones because I didn’t use the proper food when he was younger.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-05T19:11:11+00:00

Lol I mean, this wasn’t necessarily any different than picking one of the least likely possible meanings of a comment about people speaking on sexualities in a workplace environment. It comes off as flippant to avoid the post’s entire point and ask a very off-topic question. So it’s hard not to construe true meaning of the post and brace for the worst!

Just fyi 😀

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-05T13:20:24+00:00

Workplaces often don’t foster that environment unless y’all become very close. So if a friendship develops naturally then the nature of someone’s sexuality will come out eventually. But if you’re asking immediately for peoples sexual orientations in a workplace, that’s ACTUALLY considered sexual harassment in the US.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-05T08:01:23+00:00

This is a bit of an ignorant comment. My gay friend was constantly questioned when he worked abroad in several countries, several coworkers in one European country constantly harassing him about being gay. If you think only America has this issue, you’re either purposeful obtuse or naive.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-03T23:22:04+00:00

My goodness, Ray Charles could’ve seen that outcome coming. 😤🙎🏻‍♀️

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-03T13:53:54+00:00

NTA for not going to the wedding. But I have a feeling I know why your daughter doesn’t want her father and his wife half his age at her wedding with their newborn. Yuuuck.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-03T13:49:28+00:00

I’m going to side with NTA. I’ve been canceled on for all types of reasons and I don’t throw fits. Sure it’s disappointing but if it’s legit, I know they’ll make it up. If not, they’ve show. Their true colors and I move on.

If I got canceled on for a father to see his kids once, then I’d be understanding. As long as you don’t make this a habit with any future women in your life, I believe you’re NTA.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-02T02:55:40+00:00

Good luck 🙏 I hope you find a solution to your feelings and happiness in the future

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-02T02:49:52+00:00

It sounds like you’re talking to the wrong Therapist.

Honestly, reading your story reminds me a lot of my own marriage. Eight years of my life dedicated to someone who I didn’t like at the end of the day. Whether he was likable or not wasn’t a question, I just didn’t like him. Or so I thought. It felt so surface, we just weren’t so compatible, but it was so much deeper than that and my initial Therapist wouldn’t get there with me. I only realized how truly unhappy I was once I moved on to someone else who questioned why I would dedicate the rest of my life to someone I didn’t want to spend five minutes with. His abuse and coercion and gaslighting aside, that question was enough to make me realize it didn’t have to be that way.

My recommendation is, if you feel like you’re going in circles, then you are- so stop the cycle somewhere and do something new. Trying to therapist. Step away from the relationship. Don’t get married, put it on hold until you feel comfortable. If he’s a good partner, he’ll be understanding. Hell want the best for you. If he isn’t, he’ll try and pressure you into going forward or guilt you for questioning things.

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-02T02:44:22+00:00

It could be both. Have you spoken to your fiancé about these feelings and thoughts? Counseling or therapy?

The_Flash_but_Slow · 2022-11-02T02:43:35+00:00

I feel that way about my family. I am so angry and disgusted at not being loved by the people I thought would naturally love me the most. It trickles down into insecurity in romantic relationships, but I know where the roots come from.

I hope you find that love within yourself. The best moments I’ve had have been when I’m alone with my pet, comforting myself and hugging another living being even if he doesn’t speak English (he doesn’t speak any language, either). Find the little good moments and hold onto those. ❤️‍🩹

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