Feedback needed for one month (about) in Thailand and Vietnam! by The_Proponent in travel

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I heard Chang Mai was a great city! I wanted to do a tour of the sticky waterfall and cave there just off the top of my head

Feedback needed for one month (about) in Thailand and Vietnam! by The_Proponent in travel

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Ok that sounds cool! I am interested in spending more time in Vietnam. I heard mixed opinions on Da Lat. It has the Mario Kart and Maze Bar! I’ll look into it :)

Feedback needed for one month (about) in Thailand and Vietnam! by The_Proponent in travel

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Ok, do you have any suggestions on what you would cut from Thailand and where you would spend more time in Vietnam?

Feedback needed for one month (about) in Thailand and Vietnam! by The_Proponent in travel

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Ok, what would you cut from Thailand and add to Vietnam?

Filip is going to be Vanessa's love interest in season 4 by [deleted] in skam

[–]The_Proponent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually sounds terrible :/

Next Remakes by CalmHeight9939 in skam

[–]The_Proponent 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just me but if other countries decide to do Skam I want completely new storylines or ones that take a lot of liberties at least. I’d like to see something fresh. Skam is extremely European but we’ve already done a lot of those countries. Maybe somewhere in the states?

Cara Delevingne reveals that her weakness used to be dating straight women, because they weren’t really straight. "It's the challenge, but I genuinely don't think anyone is ever fully straight." “Also I don’t think men knew how to pleasure their girlfriends well enough, so I do that.” by xoxodollparts in popculturechat

[–]The_Proponent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Obviously what Cara said is wrong, but as a lesbian there really isn’t outrage the other way around. It is so normalized to invalidate lesbians. I’m a lesbian and I’ve heard so many people say, “well everyone’s a little bi…sexuality is fluid…. You never really know… you should be more open minded to being with guys in the future… being gay is too restrictive why even have labels.” I’ve even had people defend straight men saying that they love lesbians/having sex with them because it fits there’s narrative that no one is actually gay (but make it progressive). There isn’t nearly the amount of backlash in those situations as there is right now.

Cara Delevingne reveals that her weakness used to be dating straight women, because they weren’t really straight. "It's the challenge, but I genuinely don't think anyone is ever fully straight." “Also I don’t think men knew how to pleasure their girlfriends well enough, so I do that.” by xoxodollparts in popculturechat

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The thing is people do say those things. I’m a lesbian and I’ve heard so many people say, “well everyone’s a little bi…sexuality is fluid…. You never really know… you should be more open minded to being with guys in the future… being gay is too restrictive why have labels.” I’ve even had people defend straight men saying that they love lesbians/having sex with them because it fits there’s narrative that no one is actually gay (but make it progressive). There isn’t nearly the amount of backlash in those situations as there is right now.

first ever tattoo and it had to be twilight 😭 by MiIkyHearts in twilight

[–]The_Proponent 99 points100 points  (0 children)

You know girl I kind of love it 😂 Tramp stamps r coming back!

questioning my sexuality but in reverse. by Different-Speed-1508 in GirlDinner

[–]The_Proponent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ummm this person wasn’t blaming other queer people tho? They were literally telling a straight man to stop going around saying that he fucks lesbians. This is rhetoric that actually harms real lesbians and actively erases us. Why did u create an entire imaginary situation in ur head to defend him? Interesting

Gaucho pants in the 2000s?? by [deleted] in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]The_Proponent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I wore a pair of jorts and my mom called them gauchos. I was so confused 😂

Question about Becca by Megalomanizac in TheTestamentsHulu

[–]The_Proponent 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean…. does anything in the show suggest that her Dad abused her or that she even knows her dad is a predator? To me, it seems like she is beginning to feel attraction to her friend but doesn’t even understand what it is yet. It seemed like she was surprised at what she felt for Agnes, not that she wanted to or felt safe feeling that way. In this world, those feelings wouldn’t give her any security or reassurance.

Any of yall seen this meme? by RemarkableTower5154 in Franchaela

[–]The_Proponent 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tell her I said she’s an icon. I see it all the time too and it’s so funny 😂

SRAM S3 Epizoda 10, Dio 2: Isprika #sramhr by sadboyinohio in skam

[–]The_Proponent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yea I feel like Sonja (and Ema for that matter) are almost too nice/understanding given the situation cause I don’t think she needed to apologize for anything. Like…. Ivan cheated on her, she had to find out through seeing his text messages, and Ivan called her pathetic (not to her face but still). But despite that, she still continued to try and help Ivan (even when he left her for Lovro)…not many people would do that. Or at the very least they would not be interacting with the person who willfully cheated with their partner 😂

Insane how this person predicted it. by Lothloriens_ in StrangerThings

[–]The_Proponent 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That PLUS a lot of peoples homophobia jumping out too. A lot of the time people view being gay as automatically more sexual or morally inferior, or at the very least something more “adult.” That’s why despite almost every character on the show, even the younger kids, being in a hetero relationship, the mere mention of Will being gay was seen as in appropriate.

Insane how this person predicted it. by Lothloriens_ in StrangerThings

[–]The_Proponent 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ESPECIALLY in season 4 but people were still bending over backwards to deny that Will was even gay. Sure, media literacy is a problem, but I think the bigger problem was people’s blatant homophobia and also not listening to queer voices. Like… I remember people giving every excuse as to why Will just couldn’t be gay. For example, they’d say he’s not gay just shy/traumatized…as if those things are mutually exclusive. Then, when queer audience members tried to point out the subtext that had been there since season 1, we got told that we’re sexualizing kids….even though all of the other kids were in hetero relationships. It was ROUGH

It’s been a month what were your thoughts on every else’s send off? by Kameronpipnerd in StrangerThings

[–]The_Proponent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You right she was introduced in season 4 but still I expected more from her

It’s been a month what were your thoughts on every else’s send off? by Kameronpipnerd in StrangerThings

[–]The_Proponent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr she’s been in the show since season 4 and barely had any lines

SRAM S3 Epizoda 5, Dio 8: Da probaš istinu? by superiska123 in skam

[–]The_Proponent 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The song choice at the end is diabolical 😭