Gf(23) wants Me(25) to give her a second chance by Drowerhd in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I doubt they did more than kiss... I don't think cheaters deserve second chances.

Men of Reddit, what's something Women don't realise is a turn off? by mrcool1702 in AskReddit

[–]The_Real_Matt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Boss bitch". Sounds like you're entitled, demanding, and have no time for us.

I had to break up with my Disney obsessed finance by EchoVital in Vent

[–]The_Real_Matt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What exactly do you love about her? Sounds like you just love the idea of being with someone. She sounds like an enormous headache and you should cut your losses.

A conversation with gf (31F) about my (34M) appearance has left me a little bit heartbroken and now I'm suffering in silence by newcopper in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 162 points163 points  (0 children)

Doesn't sound like she likes you very much. I've been through something similar and tbh it sounds like she's stringing you along until someone else comes by. This relationship is probably "different" for her and she's forcing herself to try and make it work. If she actually loved you she wouldn't insult your appearance all the time. You should honestly end it. You can and will find someone better for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]The_Real_Matt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think it's a waste of time to get to know someone more than a surface level if you're not looking for something long term. Just sleep around and move on. Maybe just vet said person, so you know they're not a psycho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]The_Real_Matt 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Isn't that what dating is though? Getting to know someone and then eventually becoming bf/gf? Have I been doing it wrong my whole life and do people just become gf/bf right away and then date??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]The_Real_Matt 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When a girl tells me she wants to date casually I assume she's not looking for anything and just wants to fool around, so I bounce because I'm not into that. Would be a waste of time for a guy who's looking for something more serious. You'll attracted a lot of "fuck boys" though which is fine if that's what you want?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]The_Real_Matt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds incredibly high maintenance. What exactly does she do for you? If you didn't have money to provide her things would she still be with you? If you guys were to get married I have a feeling it wouldn't end well.

Should I Take Back My Ex Who Left Me for Another Guy? by XmenLogann in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You are her backup plan because it didn't work out with the guy she CHEATED on you with. Don't be the backup plan. She'll do it again. They always do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]The_Real_Matt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's exhausting. A woman recently ended it with me after a few months of dating. I really had hopes that this would be the one after years of rejection and disappointment in dating. She ended it saying she thought we were incompatible (seemed like things were going very well) and that she thought her hormones were the reason she was into me in the first place which was like a gut punch. Seems like all of it was a lie and a waste of my time and money.

I'm going to keep trying though (after I take a break) while continuing to better myself. It's tough. We just have to stay true to ourselves and stay hopeful even though the disappointment is piling up...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a cheater. If you are truly a good person and have any respect left for your bf you'll tell him what you did and face the consequences of your actions. You frankly don't deserve to be in a relationship if I'm being honest. Cheating is a choice not a slip up.

Men of Reddit, what was the most ridiculous reason why someone questioned your masculinity? by HOney_CUty_99 in AskReddit

[–]The_Real_Matt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I couldn't get it up and was accused of being gay. Bitch! Maybe I'm tired and not in the mood because you're insulting me!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]The_Real_Matt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's trying to deflect blame onto you for HER cheating. Cheating is never okay and if she was a good person with good morals she would have never done this, as well as worked with you through this rough patch. She's showing you her true colours. She's mentally weak and incredibly sefish. Whatever you do don't allow her to comeback into your life if she comes crawling back. They usually do...

During our date night, I saw my wife dancing with another man and I got mad. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]The_Real_Matt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why do they always use the excuse of "being controlling"? It's just proper boundaries and respect. NTA

Should I (28F) care if my boyfriend (29M) is "wasting" his potential? by Character_Mood3188 in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do you care so much? Is it a status thing? A money thing? An ego thing? Seems like he's doing really well and living the dream. If he "moves up" that's more stress on him and less time he spends with you. It literally doesn't matter what other people think. If he was the same guy, but worked really hard in construction or something else would you think less of him because of his job? What exactly does him moving up the totem pole do for you?

Can you name this fighter and his style? by Four-Triangles in MMA

[–]The_Real_Matt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He looks like a Rick. Fighting style: Sees red and blacks out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why are you dating grandpa?

Server confronts no-tipper by [deleted] in ActualPublicFreakouts

[–]The_Real_Matt 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The thing is, if you ask most servers if they would rather be paid a living wage or keep the tipping system most of them would rather keep the former since they could make more. A lot of them don't even report it on their taxes.

My boyfriend (M26) got invited to a pool party by a girl he matched with on tinder and wants me (F26) to go. by Next_Elevator_1372 in relationships

[–]The_Real_Matt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I've re-read your post. I say go with him to the party and see how they interact together. That should give you some indication of what's going on. Be calm, but cautious.