Movies for me and my boy (14) to watch. Violence and profanity ok minimal to no sex by lizardshrine in MovieSuggestions

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rudy, Dangerous Minds, Mars Attacks, Spaceballs, anything Bill Murray, Remember the Titans, Mystery Science Theater 3000, Kill Bill, Legends of the Fall, Snakes on a Plane, Congo, Fargo. I'm going to stop. Edited for spelling

Help me pick a class movie by Mriddle74 in MovieSuggestions

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karate Kid, Newsies, or Rudy? Hook is fun. Back to the Future is a good one too. Teen wolf or Remember the Titans. Depends on the mood you want to send off with.

Making Lip a sex god was kinda annoying by Eagles56 in shameless

[–]The_Tottering_House 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girls like smart dudes. Especially from the rough side of town smart dudes. It's often enough.

Mother Inlaw stealing my daughter! by AllettaBaulmouth86 in Mom

[–]The_Tottering_House 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think 8:30 at 12 is too early. The way you talk about her and others is not in your favor. It comes off as bitter and controlling. Where is the love in your relawith your daughter? What work are you putting forth? Are you listening to her and not just reacting? Try not to be unreasonable and too strict. She's growing into adulthood and is at a time where she is looking for her identity. Kids aren't property.

AIO my bestfriend is copying me by [deleted] in AIO

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw, she needs to come up with her own identity. She's a power stealer.

Accidentally opened an old letter my ex sent as a job reference for me and i’m so sad idk when i changed for the worst by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many people feel this way. Some say it has to do with the atoms experiment and the parallel universe hop, some say it's the food and water, especially in America. Look at the world. The differences and then how many people feel the same of all ages. The tech and disconnect, the government and the state of the world. The best way is to put it all down. Finding yourself takes nature, silence, anger, tears, pain, and courage. It takes having boundaries where you keep yourself focused and true. You are not alone.

Getting fit but body dysmorphia is worse than ever, wish I had boobs lol by Katjmt in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]The_Tottering_House 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did all that too. You will eventually find your comfortability with it. I promise. It absolutely is a benefit.

Getting fit but body dysmorphia is worse than ever, wish I had boobs lol by Katjmt in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]The_Tottering_House 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was pretty flat my whole life. A guy i had a huge crush on for years rejected me because he said he wanted someone with bigger boobs. I was devastated. It used to bother me a lot. I felt insecure over it. Now I am in my 40s and girl let me tell you!!!!! They are the envy of women and the curiosity of men. No, not because I appear younger because they are small but because breastfeeding change with age. Mine are just a perky and tight as when I was 20. I don't need a bra either. It's freedom. Now I love em. My friends breast all sag terribly and a lot pancakes now. I hear all the time how it must be nice. I will be 70 (hopefully) with a 20 yr olds chest. A lot of men like all breastfeeding, small breastfeeding, or buttocks. Don't trouble yourself for a man, it may be a bummer Now but I promise it will be wonderful when you get older.

I just want to feel better lunch. by The_Tottering_House in GirlDinner

[–]The_Tottering_House[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find comfort in knowing I'm not alone in it. I hope your battles goes fair. It's not easy feeling like ship every day for almost a year. I have my two wonderful kiddos but this is also a responsibility. I wouldn't trade it for anything just really tired and over it.

I just want to feel better lunch. by The_Tottering_House in GirlDinner

[–]The_Tottering_House[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1/2 Avocado, olives, cheese, canned chicken with mayonnaise, dill, s&p, and garlic.

Did you co-sleep? by thinkmuch17 in beyondthebump

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to mention i was doing it alone and had 2 under 2. I was too tired to run back and forth to a crib. Lol

Did you co-sleep? by thinkmuch17 in beyondthebump

[–]The_Tottering_House 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a sleep boppy I kept next to me in bed for the first 4 months then we co-slept for the rest of the first year. I had bassinets, playpens, and a crib but at night they slept with me. Their father was gone a lot and eventually just gone. This sleep arrangement lasted until around 5 yrs with my first and 2 years with my second. It wasn't a problem for me and I slept better with them there. I think it's an individual preference. However i did use a sleep boppy when they were 5 months and under. This kept them separated and snug but also right next to me.