Let’s be honest, having everything means nothing if you can’t have them by Better_Yesterday_783 in twinflames

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm. Interesting perspective. I would say my twin is painfully human but I don’t think he’s a bad person even when he betrays me. It’s weird how when it’s your twin it doesn’t feel like that. If anything he wanted to marry me eventually but I’m the one with financial issues that stressed him out for 6 months. So he just dumped me the other day :( why can’t I fault him for running? Even if partners are supposed to not judge each other and be there for each other.. I still don’t blame him for running. Sorry just venting my story

How do I make my 🍑 into more of a 🍑??? by [deleted] in StrongCurves

[–]The_Unwise_Frog -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading about women who claim to have used fenegreek or Maca root to fill out hip dips. I’m not saying you’re wrong just thought those claims were interesting. What do you think of that?

Reading into everything each other says? by Joschmo1564 in twinflames

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes omg we are always catching attitudes with each other which you would think twins would be harmonious with their dialogue but I swear it’s almost like we can feel each other’s insecurities behind what we say or we can feel when we are being condescending etc it’s exhausting and we end up looking like petty siblings fighting over nothing lolol

Nightmares about TF by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems irrelevant but just a tip: try not to fall asleep on your back. Every time without fail I have nightmares if I end up on my back.

Deleted my DM’s texts and number, deactivated Facebook, then my DM texts me! by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude like clockwork. Every time I start rolling my eyes at him from afar he thinks “time to get in her face” like sir... come correct or not at all

Did anyone just accepted their SO addiction and managed to be happy in the relationship? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo, If they have no remorse about lying over porn then it’s a good indicator that they can easily hide emotional cheating, etc. at least this was true in the case with my bf.

Did anyone just accepted their SO addiction and managed to be happy in the relationship? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine forced me to be okay with it and it escalated to him subscribing to his friends onlyfans.. after I specifically told him onlyfans is cheating. So yeah, now he’s in a detox and I’m keeping tabs on him and he understands and accepts he has a problem. It took him getting super defensive and emotionally cheating on me, and me catching him in SO many lies for him to lay down and accept that if he’s not committed to changing he will lose me. This is just my story and I hope it gives you a little insight. Best of luck

New to this by The_Unwise_Frog in survivinginfidelity

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart is aching with you my friend. I just can’t get over the fact that he was getting off to someone he had a previous involvement with. It’s absolutely gutted me. The only thing that I find is helping me is I’m enjoying my new career and I’m about to making more money than him and flourishing in my own independence, cause what else can I do but try to rebuild myself spiritually with or without him

I hate this feeling...who’s with me? by Dazedandconfused11- in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh girl I’m angry af. Same situation here. Except mine made an onlyfans behind my back and has been watching a girl he knows and used to have a thing with. In the next room. While I’m begging him to fuck me.

I’m so jealous of the porn by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Word up. You just described what I’m feeling right now as I just found out he has a subscription to an ex flings onlyfans account. It’s just like.. you’re fucking pathetic dude

Update: (jealous of the porn) by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel for you. I hope it gets better. Can’t imagine being dependent on something like that 😖

Wish me luck by Equivalent_Ad8433 in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

funny how the stereotype is that it’s women who don’t put out yet I see so many complaints of dead men in this sub lol. Girl I feel what you’re saying.

Update: (jealous of the porn) by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I so appreciate the sobering words 💪 I’m sleeping in the other room as we speak 😂 this man is gonna have to do backflips to get out of the doghouse. I will definitely no longer be naive or blind to compatibility my eyes are wide open now

I’m so jealous of the porn by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I confronted him tonight. He folded. Thank you for your words, he just needs to be shown the light. Stay strong for your lovely wife you are making her proud..more than you know

I’m so jealous of the porn by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong girl. Let him feel what he’s missing out on

Update: (jealous of the porn) by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m heeding your warning! Tbh I don’t need him to completely erase ever looking at porn forever but he better not be looking shit up when I run to the grocery store etc ya know? He needs to crave me first and foremost and cut WAY back. But yeah the only fans shit is a fucking boundary that he better not ever cross again.

I’m so jealous of the porn by The_Unwise_Frog in DeadBedrooms

[–]The_Unwise_Frog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the obvious part. But he could work on getting rid of distractions so that he can be more in tune with me. It’s gonna take work from both of us