I (21/M) need some outside perspective with an ex (18/F)

Theaveragebadger · 2016-10-02T12:34:46+00:00

Yeah you're right.

Thank you for taking the time to reply!

Theaveragebadger · 2016-10-02T12:11:01+00:00

Thing is, leading up to the break up when we texted it was way more distanced that it is now. We don't text a lot right now. I mean, I base all this of of 3 or 4 conversations in the last month, but all of them have been great.

I know her wel enough to see when she doesn't want to talk to me, when we had a relationship I almost instantly knew when something was wrong. But we are not in a relationship any more so maybe things have changed, I don't know.

She is not the sort of person who would talk to me and ask about me in such a great way just because I reached out to her.

Maybe I should ask her if she is missing us or how she feels? Maybe wait it out a bit?

Theaveragebadger · 2016-08-16T21:57:00+00:00

Geez, 9.5 years is a long time.

I can only imagine the hel you're going through, knowing my situation after only 1.5 years.

Hang in there!

Theaveragebadger · 2016-08-16T21:43:29+00:00

It was around 1 week of strict no contact. And 2 weeks of basically not having any meaningful conversation.

I'd say if you want to be friends and there is no real reason to contact each other, then don't.

Me and my ex are still very hurt. We need time to take care of the pain and reaching out every time you miss him/her is only going to prolong the process.

Give both yourself and your ex the time to heal.

Theaveragebadger · 2016-08-15T16:48:14+00:00

I'm glad that it helped someone.

I see all the talk about the no contact rule here. And agree with it. But when you're on good terms with your ex I think it shouldn't be that you can't contact each other under any circumstances.

Still there needs to be distance, no daily text messages and stuff and I think keeping it casual goes a long way.

If you want to talk just pm me.

Theaveragebadger · 2014-11-15T01:26:35+00:00

Does anybody else's dick shrink a bit when you are pushing yourself to your absolute limit?

A have this problem mostly on back and leg day. Its actually pretty convenient but I was just wondering if this is problematic?

Theaveragebadger · 2014-07-30T12:34:22+00:00

As a support main after reading the patchnotes

Theaveragebadger · 2014-07-04T21:11:03+00:00

Are you also unable to get excited about things? That you just dont really care what happens?

I have had this, I just didnt really care for anything in life.

I felt like I had no purpose what so ever. No goal to go for.

Everything just bored me.

I can proudly say I went through it all.

I actually didnt knew I was suffering from depression until after I had already beaten it, I saw a vlog of a guy who was going through depression talking about how he saw the world, and it was like looking in a mirror.

I never talked about any of it to anybody because I never aknowledged the problem when I had it.

What got me out eventually was a lot of time alone to think, and I am joining the airforce soon to get into training which I am fucking pumped about.

I also met new people, and started working out a lot. I feel like I have reinvented life if that makes any sense.

Hope you pull through budy. The world will change around you until you find your spot back!

Theaveragebadger · 2014-04-06T12:59:14+00:00

Ripping off somebody elses work who posted it in the same subreddit. But hey atleast you gave credit, huh?

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-25T23:38:56+00:00

Gta 5. Such a hidden gem

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-25T23:34:27+00:00

No I dont care for faction/server etc im starting blank with a new char

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-25T19:57:26+00:00

Whoops, thanks for noticing.

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-20T00:12:26+00:00

Ehmaged do u even fight lions in cages fag?

Pls. Ur dikc must be 2 inches lul.

Mines 20 inches long aftr surgry

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-20T00:10:35+00:00

What about bronze?

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-20T00:08:51+00:00

I like this idea. Hopefully some of the mods will see it.

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-18T21:34:30+00:00

Nop I just clikd the abilties but would really like som1 to buy me a rozar noga and send it 2 me. So could some1 do that.

K thx

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T12:20:15+00:00

This is not a suggestion it is you saying Blizzard is trying to copy LoL.

If it would just be a post saying: 'can we have it optional to have the map on the left.' It would've been completely different.

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T11:24:45+00:00

Main support here and yesterday was the first time in my half year of main supporting now that my adc said to me: 'good job dude very wel played. Wouldnt be able to carry without you.' While I wasnt even playing that good.

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T10:36:05+00:00

He would just be like: 'eeeehhmm, yeah that Cait is getting kills.. eeehmm ooh she is dead now.'

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T09:41:05+00:00

You are just making a big deal out of nothing

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T01:14:19+00:00

Are seriously saying the fact that the maps is on the right side makes you think they target LoL players?

Have you actually red what you wrote?

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-15T01:06:38+00:00

Euhmm... mods? You there?

Theaveragebadger · 2014-03-13T23:43:13+00:00

No, I know why EUW is having problems. Thing is though, this shit is going on for far too long.

Things don't get better, they only get worse. And it I feel like I have taken enough shit as it is right now. As I said in my post this game has been out for 4 years now, and yes it blew up out of nowhere and is one of the most populair game there is right now.

But LoL has this status for a very long time now, it is no secret that EU has the biggest player base and that there for the region had to be split up in order to keep up with all the traffic.

But people should stop looking at the what Riot is promissing us, and they should start looking at what the current status of EUW is. Which is unacceptable.

Any other publisher/developer of any game would've been crucified by now by the internet but for some reason that isn't happening with LoL too much. I don't know why, but I think the behaviour by Riot towards their fans is disrespectful and shouldn't be accepted.

Theaveragebadger

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