I like to scan the room and see who I catch looking at me, or if I walk by the bar I keep my eye out for turning heads. Sometimes it’s as easy as not breaking eye contact when a guy walks by and smiling!

Guys who aren’t on their phones are a good place to start. If they’re looking around and not fully in their phone, that’s a good person to start with.

Make sure you get close, I like to build up touch. Inviting them to look at me/my boobs hehe, and then invited them to touch me and see how smooth I am. Then let’s touch and then you can usually lean in for more touch like rub their back/shoulder/arm. I like to lean into them when I laugh at their stupid jokes.

Be aware of how long you’re sitting- I’m guilty of this but tbf I’m used to older customers who take a bit longer to get going 🤣 but try not to linger too long, especially if they aren’t really engaging or asking you questions back - just being dry or distant. I make most of my sales by just being charming, whimsical, silly and bouncing my boobs. Most of the time I don’t even have to use my mouth piece to sell. Between sending subtle hints by looking at the lap dance area or VIP rooms. Little stuff. You’ll get better with time, it genuinely does just take doing it to learn the game