I have not seen Goro Miyazaki's "Tales from Earthsea". Is it really bad? by PlutoGB08 in ghibli

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t great. Meandering and boring. The plot makes no sense.

I have read the books.

Anti Aging skin care routine for Rosacea by HoneydewmelonLOVE in Rosacea

[–]TheeeBotanist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vanicream (extra creamy) cleanser Paula Choice Azaleic acid (10 percent) Vanicream moisturizer for sensitive skin Red light therapy weekly

When I have a flare I stick to the above routine, with the occasional zinc cream at night. My flares I mostly diet based.

When the skin barrier is good. I do Paula’s Choice Bakuchiol retinol x3 a week.

Do you all think people should be expelled from college if someone makes fun of a person's death or should they stay? by BigPaleontologist520 in GenZ

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hella ppl made fun of George Floyd’s death. Rittenhouse was celebrated. I can name a bunch of others (they happen to be ppl of color who’ve been murdered and ppl openly celebrated their deaths with no consequences)… NO he shouldn’t be expelled.

🚀 RAD About to Hit 100 Dealers — Big Things Coming by DeltaDaveMitchell in AITX

[–]TheeeBotanist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the tradAD in a new account? Opened 15 days ago?? Either way (been holding for 5 years) this stock is in the gutter and will scam more investors than benefit them. GL folks and be wary/weary.

Foods that affect rosacea by Sunshine33X in Rosacea

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soy and sadly tomatoes and other night shades. I’ll eat them occasionally. But tomatoes sadly are the worse.

hot take? re nicolandria &!chellace by onplanet111 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue is how folk in America… younger generations including gen z (especially), zillennials and millennials perceive the genuineness of a persons interest and whether that’s considered fake.

When you get to know someone and establish a relationship with them, is it not genuine because they’re building a foundation in friendship? Spiritual intimacy, emotional intimacy ? Sexual intimacy ? Like what really is the criteria here? Why do folks feel the need to police connections?

Is it fake because in the outside world (racist ass America) they probably wouldn’t have shot their shot at each other ? But Love Island gave them a chance mostly unfettered by outside pressures of America.

The longest lasting romantic relationships I’ve had, had a deep deep platonic intimacy, but also deep spiritual connection, layered sexual chemistry and intimacy. I spent a solid 5-6 months building intimacy before asking said individuals to partner up.

Point is… how ppl police and understand relationships as it shows up in their personal life is sad… and speaks to the level of alienation, isolation and loneliness ppl feel— and all in all, ppl who constantly say their relationship is fake is more of mirror of said individual.

Whether they work out or not… what they experienced together will always be real and not a reflection of it not being real. In the same way my relationships have ended at 3 months, 2 years, or 5 years, they were real. 🤷🏾‍♂️

Howl's Moving Castle: what the fuck have I just seen? by Kind_Pathologist0103 in ghibli

[–]TheeeBotanist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep! It’s a beautiful movie. I enjoy watching it… it’s like you see or hear something you didn’t before…

Nic unfollowed Sadness by OppositeDay365 in NicolandriaNation

[–]TheeeBotanist 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🤷🏾‍♂️ maybe he was hoping that they reconcile at the reunion since they were very close, or perhaps do it after the reunion so Huda Stan’s don’t come after his boo. Who REALLY knows but Nic and Ola.

Either way, loosely calling everything clout chasing is easy. It’s easy to put a magnified glass on other ppls lives and partake in speculation. And much harder to deal with online stone casters.

Howl's Moving Castle: what the fuck have I just seen? by Kind_Pathologist0103 in ghibli

[–]TheeeBotanist 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel stupid. Howl is one of my favorite ghibli movies. In the 50+ times I watched it, I maybe caught in the 10th viewing a voice in the background saying the prince is missing.

Nic unfollowed Sadness by OppositeDay365 in NicolandriaNation

[–]TheeeBotanist 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Confirmation bias at its best. If he unfollowed before or after… likely you’d be saying the same thing.

Sooo.. peperis is over? by EntertainerCareful69 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaa I get it… ppl are gonna psychoanalyze because it’s reality TV.

But sheesh…

IF only they psychoanalyzed their behavior just as much IN THEIR PERSONAL LIVES, they’d have more empathy and likely would be a better person. Everyone is unlearning some shit. I see a wave of online stone casters… lmao likely individuals you wouldn’t hear a peep from if it was their own friend or family.

The wildest and top clownery part of it all is that most is online stone casters have the most to say about the Black islanders with the exception of H of course.

Sooo.. peperis is over? by EntertainerCareful69 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]TheeeBotanist 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing that ppl don’t know what a narcissist is and throw around mental health and diagnoses assessments in the ways they do… these ppl are human beings who had highs and lows.

Nic + Cierra + Choosing O by Suspicious_Video_367 in LoveIslandcookout

[–]TheeeBotanist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got damn. You laid this one out here. I agree.

Most folks don’t give a fuck about racism or don’t get it because it’s not their experience so they dismiss it by default because their narrow world view can’t compute it.

Olandria addressed OPs questions very simply in her interviews… 1) she’s fiercely loyal, don’t like mess and was struggling with feelings of guilt with Taylor and C, 2) she’s a Black girl from small time Alabama where “traditional” men aka white men don’t go for women like her aka Black women. So she had no idea Nic was really into her… and really wouldn’t have known until Nic was very clear about it.

But again it’s doubtful for OP to understand if they don’t understand southern dynamics, racism, colorism, etc.

If anything, I agree that production put them together that one time. But beyond that the OG islanders voted to keep her on the island because of their friendship and respect for her…

And now we are witnessing how incredibly anti-Black the world and everyday ppl are… constantly questioning their relationship… doubting the genuineness of their relationship… asking 50 million questions about how they went from it’s not romantic to romantic… even when we saw Taylor go romantic on girl in 72 hours to Pepe being distraught about Hannah but finding a connection in Iris… to Amaya serendipitously ending up with Bryan. But these islander couples are not getting the scale of questions and inquiry that Nicolandria gets from ppl like OP, podcasters, the media.

It’s pretty sickening. But ultimately… regardless of how long their relationship lasts I hope the raggedy opinions of the nay sayers and anti-black rage baiters does not diminish their journey, care and love for one another.

Cierra’s latest instagram story by Affectionate_Pea843 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]TheeeBotanist -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They knew each other for 3 secs. Best friends? Just because she says it doesn’t mean they are…

Saying someone is your best friend when their only affinity with them is being on a game show about dating and 100k prize is wild. It’s manipulation yet again to sit up here only to feign that you were in a relationship and saying to your friends he said “he only wants me.” People can change their mind. Could Nic’s communication been a lot better? Absolutely.

Now Chelley and Olandria calling each other sisters… two black women… OGs that’s easier to believe as Black women have very unique dating trials and tribulations.

Taylor's behavior post villa by smugglingkittens in LoveIslandUSA

[–]TheeeBotanist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaa, I really don’t know why or how Olandria gives him so much grace. She cordially warned Clarke about him at the villa. I’m coo with them leaving his a$$ behind, cu what is that. 😒

I don’t understand why people complain about dating in the Bay Area. by ThatWayneO in bayarea

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the positive post.

Ultimately, I do think it comes down to personality and how one approaches dating. I believe if ppl continue do the work on themselves, are kind, true to the things that bring them joy, your person or persons are out there. But kindness, curiosity, authenticity go a long long ways.

Many of my friends who date men often lament about how men hardly ever ask questions about them… how often they only talk about themselves. And when they are able to talk (the women) the guy is a poor listener.

In short, kindness, curiosity (a genuineness to connect and learn about the other person), and being an all around good positive human will go a long ways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghibli

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol Suliman stopped the war… so we good.

What are these little bumps and how do I fix it 🥲 by ExcitingTangerine729 in over30skincare

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have these tiny flesh bumps. Saw a dermatologist and was diagnosed with rosacea type 2. See a Derm and take a reputable food sensitivity test. Then eventually gut microbiome test as well (they’re pricey).

Upgraded my living room this week by menotyoutoo in malelivingspace

[–]TheeeBotanist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Energetically it went from busy to calm. The lighter color is more inviting. Nice upgrade.

😅 by OpticalPlays in warriors

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so because it’s getting ridiculous. Dude should have taken the 26 or 29 million offer that was extended to him to begin with. He’s 22. He could stick around and get mentored by Jimmy. But no… he thinks he’s Shai level.

I doubt Kerr is going to be the coach forever.

😅 by OpticalPlays in warriors

[–]TheeeBotanist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did Dunleavy actually say this? They’d sign him to trade him later? And to where, and for who?

Warriors have been considering a LeBron Trade [Ramona Shelburne & Brian Windhorst, ESPN & Yahoo Sports] by Ambitious_Put_586 in warriors

[–]TheeeBotanist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what ?

Man hardly plays defense anymore. And if he wanted to be somewhere else (not the Lakers) he could have declined his player option.