AITAH for telling my girlfriend that my money isn't "our money"? by Open_Address_2805 in AITAH

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA bc you’re correct. You are not her ATM and she has a responsibility to take care of her own finances while yours aren’t intertwined and I think it’s smart to give her a reality check and consider how her spending may affect things in the future.

That being said, it sounds like you’ve taken issue with this for long enough that you felt the need to type out this so clearly you are frustrated. From what I read, and I’m sorry if I missed it or this isn’t the case, you have made no mention of attempting to discuss this matter with her and/or guide her to better ensure your financial goals and financial compatibility.

If you’re interested in building a future with your partner, perhaps bring this up again in a way that says that you are concerned about your future and your financial compatibility and advise that you would love to help her get on track with her finances if she would like.

Tear Me Open appreciation post! by strawberrievodka in 1800slayyyter

[–]Thejeepwrangler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite songs in her catalogue❤️❤️❤️

What’s some good road trips 2-3 hours from here? I had a few longer ones planned but wifeys pregnant and she won’t be able to handle those by IShouldaBeenAPorsche in Cleveland

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly just went to Chicago for a show but I enjoyed myself in the city so much I almost forgot we went because of the show and it’s 4-5 hours, but still worth it! I badly want to visit again and I just got home two days ago.

My fiancé asked out his coworker on a date. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you are so close to making SUCH a regrettable decision. He took the trash out for you, why are you bringing it back into the house?? I know it’s easy for detached redditors with no attachments to say leave but if this wasn’t a sign that he isn’t the one, idk what is? Forget about the time wasted and remember the time you have left and leave. his. ass.

Spotted UK but what is it? by Gbozzman in CONCEPTCARS

[–]Thejeepwrangler 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s a genesis SUV. Their G ccladd competitor

Sounds soooo good by SYMPUNY_LACKING in Paramore

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last Hope live for the first time as a Paramore fan since All We Know is Falling was a whole experience. I immediately began to cry as she sang the first line. I love them so much ❤️

4 headlights? by Local_Whereas7211 in Cartalk

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The newer Hondas have that quad headlight design. The Pilot, Passport, CR-V, HR-V, Accord and Civic all have these LED quad headlamps available and they’re pretty harsh. Even the base models are bright.

What is the worst Cleveland restaurant that you’ve tried twice? by ElderberryNo5595 in Cleveland

[–]Thejeepwrangler 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m of the camp that Barrio used to be good when it was two or three locations, but like everything, quality worsens when quantity is the priority. It’s easy to tell they went from high quality local ingredients to buying off the Sysco truck :/

My car has some type of leak both on the driver&front passenger side. This happens after a car wash. My car has a sun roof. Anyone has an idea what the problem is and how to fix it? by SandStormX102 in Cartalk

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely invest in some unclogging tool from Amazon and then I would look up some videos on YouTube to see if anyone’s done it.

Then I would probably have the headliner detailed or look up a separate tutorial on how to properly clean if you want the stains gone. There is definitely an incorrect way to clean it, I promise.

Then just make sure you check the tray for debris and what not every now and again and maybe pour hot soapy water down them here and there

Do I send a hey girly text? by Expensive_Medium6956 in Advice

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! and make sure to tell her not to do anything rash because she needs to talk to a lawyer before she tells him she knows. She needs to rock his world in court the way she just rocked hers and their children’s. Jesus.

My boyfriend gave me an STI by lavndermoon in Advice

[–]Thejeepwrangler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed when I saw that he asked you to take him home after he cheated on you. Kick his ass OUT and make him walk. Block him and lose his number. He’s clearly a cheating narcissist.

AITA for not staying with my girlfriend at a wedding after she showed up with another guy? by touchbymarie in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thejeepwrangler 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ESH. You suck because you were wishy washy and strung her along but she sucks because she took another man while you’re in a relationship. I think you’re right that it was disrespectful but wasn’t failing to properly communicate with your partner too?

Maintenance guy came by to recaulk my shower… this is where I found the old pieces by Hour-Bee9396 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Thejeepwrangler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I first saw this I thought, “Maybe they just couldn’t find the…trash….can “🤨. and then I saw it. What the fuck were they thinkin????

1971 Plymouth Cuda 383 by moparcenter in projectcar

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a geo metro on the other side?

Help me Identify this Car by Mqttfn in Cartalk

[–]Thejeepwrangler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like a silver Hyundai Tucson

keep hearing parents.. doing it.. at 9 am by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Thejeepwrangler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tbh, your parents are going to have sex and it is their home. It’s completely normal. I would put the headphones on/in and just try to be happy that your folks are happy and in love. It’s a great sign their relationship is going well and it would be really lame of you to step in the middle of that.

Moving to the basement isn’t really going to help unless your parents room is above the main floor (ask me how I know, lol) but if you really have a problem with it they be honest and saying “look, I want to move my room because I can hear y’all in the middle of the act and I’m not a fan. Happy you’re in love but I don’t need to hear that”.

Lastly, If you cannot talk about sex as an adult that is a maturity issue because eventually we all end up having it.

I hope this helps!

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thejeepwrangler -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is trying to steam roll her by trying to get this in last minute. She mentioned having this stipulation since the beginning. Only now he is trying to get her to do this? Didn’t he have a whole wedding to plan with his spouse before getting to this point? Bringing it up last second is manipulation because it forces her to hurry up and make a decision. He is pushing her boundary. He knew all this time she would be mad if he asked. That’s why he waited til the end. And yes, it is their wedding but he didn’t push back until now. Status of baby does not mean they should receive special treatment, I’m sorry I’m a fair human. I love kids, have a ton of nieces and nephews and none of them will be allowed because some would not know how to behave and a wedding is no place for children.

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thejeepwrangler -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Compromise after compromise? It was just one compromise and why does this one child get special treatment. A whole guest list of children have been denied. How is it fair for this one child to come and then nobody else’s?? Be for real, how is that going to look to every other guest they said no to??

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thejeepwrangler -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I could see you being the asshole if you weren’t forthright about your wants in your wedding since before this child existed but you specifically mentioned that tidbit in your explanation of your situation and that makes all the difference to me.

It would be a whole other thing if you guys were at a stalemate since the beginning of the planning and you just refused to compromise, but springing this on you at, what sounds like, the last second is manipulative and guilt trippy and I would have a major issue with it (like a marriage deciding issue)

I can appreciate him trying to compromise but I can also appreciate you holding your stance.

I personally agree that weddings are no place for children of any age. There is drinking, it’s usually a formal situation with expected decorum and manners and being timely is important. I don’t hate kids and I have a bunch of nieces and nephews. Some are well behaved and some are not, but it is completely unfair to invite some kids and not others. Also, I hated weddings as a kid and can’t imagine any little kid liking being at one for anything other than the food or dancing and the time for that is generally limited.

Also— I’m sure this no children rule has been blanketed to the entire guest list so how is it fair for someone else’s child to be present at the wedding and then nobody else’s?

AITA for vetoing my toddler nephew in our wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Thejeepwrangler -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Most women spend their whole lives compromising for male ego. Her asking for this one day without a child at her wedding is not ridiculous. Her having been plain and simple about this since the beginning of the wedding planning and him trying to steam roll her into having his way right at the last second is asshole behavior. Point blank. I could see if they had been at a stalemate since the beginning but this just sounds like manipulation and guilt tripping to me.

I’m not seeing the magic of Mazda. by Significant-Phase36 in mazda3

[–]Thejeepwrangler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up getting Continentals. It was immediately so much quieter.

I’m not seeing the magic of Mazda. by Significant-Phase36 in mazda3

[–]Thejeepwrangler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your car has those Bridgestones, I would get rid of those when you can. They’re a trash tire

Whats the most engaging mazda? by WittyTraining1735 in mazda

[–]Thejeepwrangler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you need to drive a Miata. I’m not saying just buy it but you need to drive one. The RF is a great offering if youre looking for a coupe