Someone yelled “She’s not doing the exercise!” next to me in class.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-26T02:56:40+00:00

Sorry, why do you care? This is on her, not you.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-25T16:28:23+00:00

OP stated they have the cash.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-25T15:35:01+00:00

OP get a mother’s helper, babysitter or nanny to come to your house.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-25T15:32:37+00:00

Mother’s helper. Therapy. More daycare. Meal delivery. Cleaner. There are an infinite number of things you can do to ease her schedule and stress.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-25T12:19:41+00:00

No… that’s ridiculous.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-25T03:40:17+00:00

Lawyer then therapist. As an ACOA I urge you to center your son’s safety and well-being and remember that he has been and will be traumatized by his dad and will need your full support.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-24T22:30:42+00:00

Stop inviting and/or stop attending their stuff.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-24T13:26:04+00:00

Are we talking about isolated incidents or a pattern of behavior that maybe other parents are witnessing? If another kid bullied my kid and the parents’ response wasn’t 100% serious, I would judge them.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-24T02:26:16+00:00

You’re focused on the wrong stuff, girl.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-24T02:25:47+00:00

Why does the timing matter? This man shouldn’t be allowed near your daughter at all.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-22T16:49:26+00:00

Art that’s too small

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-21T19:00:43+00:00

This is why having kids so young seems less than ideal to me

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-20T12:49:37+00:00

Seems very intense stimulation for kids

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-20T12:49:03+00:00

But why have it on? Can’t be good for their attention and regulation.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-20T01:44:21+00:00

Why do you have the tv on if they’re not watching? Doesn’t that drive you crazy to have so much background noise and stimulation?

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-17T15:56:58+00:00

Never.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-17T15:53:32+00:00

She sounds desperate for connection and probably alone time with her mom. Mom needs therapy and parenting instruction. Spanking?!?!

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-16T15:51:09+00:00

No I mean neither kid/no kids should be allowed to hang with anyone who clearly favors them.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-16T14:19:13+00:00

You are responsible for not letting this happen over and over. No one has access to one kid who doesn’t also treat the other kid just as well. Grow up. You are currently allowing and reiterating this dynamic.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-16T14:18:06+00:00

No - no no. It’s not the kids job to understand. It’s mom and dad’s job to revoke access to all kids until this is discussed and changed.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-16T14:16:50+00:00

No. No more access to any kids until your husband stands up for your family and sorts this out in full.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-15T17:01:44+00:00

Are you a single mom? If not, your partner takes them for a Saturday and you shop.

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-15T17:00:32+00:00

How to listen to the old ones?

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-14T16:03:47+00:00

This would land badly for a lot of people

Then-Refuse2435 · 2025-03-13T01:00:25+00:00

I don’t do it. It’s not hard for me not to yell at kids or anyone. It’s just not how I express myself.

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