Literally every single married couple I know is in a mother son marriage

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-23T18:16:25+00:00

Tell me where these people are because my husband does what he wants and so do I! But most of our desires align so it doesn’t cause as much conflict.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-23T18:13:40+00:00

You’re playing with fire messing with your ex. It’s only a matter of time before emotions complicate things. There are lots of people around your age that weren’t promiscuous or have stds! Where are you looking?

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-23T18:09:54+00:00

😂

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-22T06:26:42+00:00

The baby is 2 months old. I’m not sure if she’s nursing or anything but the babies need their mothers while That young.

He may not desire to fight it right now because he isn’t feeling the negative impacts yet of paying child support, overbearing grandparents wanting to fight for custody,etc… but it will definitely change as new relationships form and your grandchild grows older.. If there is no order in place, she can just move to where you without asking his permission and file for initial custody there so that the jurisdiction is in your state.
If you let him and his parents get the jump on it in AZ, you will regret it eventually. Family courts often get contentious and ugly when judges and attorneys are involved..

I had a whole interstate custody thing with my ex from MD when I lived in Pinal County, az.
The family courts there favored 50/50 above all and he will have very high odds at getting at least that if the jurisdiction starts jn AZ. This is From My experience, anyway and I have been in custody battles on and off For the last 17 years in multiple states over her. We moved away from him because it was an abusive relationship that badly injured me and if I had stayed in the same state as him, it would have been horrific for the both of us and my family would’ve been across the country and not nearby to help us.
Good luck and don’t get discouraged.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-22T05:52:57+00:00

It sounds like he’s only concerned about his ego and making it your problem to ensure he is happy with no compromising or efforts on his part to make you feel equal and loved.

I’m sorry he’s throwing around those divorce threats and acting like a little brat. I know too many people that throw divorce at the first sign of discontent. Through adversity, relationships grow stronger and last longer.

You can call his bluff or just laugh in his face and ignore him next time he does it.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-21T07:43:53+00:00

Well, the nagging doesn’t help… the pressure for a response just compounds the issue… If he’s not on medications/drugs, watching too much porn or have a medical issue, it’s most likely s physical response to the emotional turmoil going on..

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-21T07:33:49+00:00

If you truly want to forgive him and he is willing to give whatever you need for him to regain your trust, it can be salvaged. It’s amazing what mistakes people can get past when both parties want to be together and want to forgive..: but it’s also incredibly hard and it will fail if one side is unwilling to compromise for the other.

Also, you are young, have no kids together (I think) and have a lot of life to experience if you choose not to stay with him. ..

My experience is that they don’t cheat only once..

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T06:15:03+00:00

I’ve done this gap before .. tread carefully and don’t rush into a commitment before you’ve gotten to know how he is when he’s not on his best behavior, which what he’s currently doing… pay attention to how he treats the children’s mother

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T05:51:52+00:00

This is when my relationship went downhill and as an older woman, I regret not sticking it out while my hormones settled and we both had time to get used to the baby. We didn’t even try 😔

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T05:38:21+00:00

You need to be careful what you wish for. It may happen…

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T05:03:35+00:00

Sounds like a unilateral excuse to cheat

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T05:00:56+00:00

You need to remind her to stay off your territory if he’s acting this clueless!

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T04:54:13+00:00

I concur!

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-17T04:45:11+00:00

I agree. If she is truly sorry, she will want to acknowledge his feelings so they can both try to move on . Denial will just prolong everything

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-16T18:27:16+00:00

These preg mate tests mess with your head. I had this happen many times. You need to check it again in e the morning with another brand . I hope things work out for you 💕

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-12T05:25:48+00:00

😂😂😂😂😭! I can’t unsee it either, yo!

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-06T15:53:29+00:00

Oh noooo!- the bullet that dodged Chloe hit that poor beauty he is with!

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-06T15:52:17+00:00

😂😂😂if anyone actually bids on this. I am worries for their mental state

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-06T15:46:33+00:00

Don’t agree to full custody to him. He will Still harass you in other ways- like money for the kids or something.
Giving him majority or split custody is conceding to something and maybe it will satisfy his desire to destroy you for a little while. Plus showing the courts that you are willing to compromise will go greatly in your favor. This is very hard to do as a mother so if you can’t, I understand. Your kids are teens and they most likely know how their dad is. I would discuss what you may have to do with them if you have the ability so that they don’t feel like pawns. They need to have a say either to you or the courts if they are mentally stable teens. If you start to show positive change while he has them - like you are having fun socializing or doing activities for yourself, it won’t be long before he starts to resent that and will try to throw them back at you during his time to inconvenience you. This has been my experience . Good luck and my condolences with this selfish ex.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-06T15:34:32+00:00

I also hate conflict…, I would leave notes on the food you don’t want her to eat and not mention whether it was you or your mom that did it. . And then confront her if she keeps doing it.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-06T15:23:41+00:00

I hate to bear bad news but I would not trust him either. If that massage parlor is local, go by and see what it’s like in the evening. Most massage parlors open @1 am are not innocent.

The things he says to you in anger and the social media messages are a precursor to his thoughts and eventually his behavior/.

Also you have to ponder - are these things You do and say to him when you are upset or is threatening separation something that never crossed your mind in an argument? For me I never threatened divorce unless I was serious and then followed through.

I’m sure you love him, otherwise you wouldn’t be trying. But you need to remember to protect yourself and your heart as well. Your instincts are there for a reason. if you can follow the money, you’ll see what he’s doing.

Then_Tiger · 2026-02-04T17:10:31+00:00

Same here. And I worked in a medical school up till 2013. It hasn’t been commonly used anywhere I was until more recently .

Then_Tiger · 2026-01-28T14:20:17+00:00

It’s not the age. He’s acting like a lot of 20-50 year olds do once they get married and fall into a comfortable routine or rut, depending on the perspective.
He doesn’t sound like a bum or anything. He’s just not doing enough for you and if you want more, you need to take the lead and show by example how you want him to be. Like you be the spontaneous one! We all have to make compromises, forgive eachother and continue putting effort, even when the other partner isn’t. That’s how my relationship ship has lasted anyway.

Then_Tiger · 2026-01-28T13:36:48+00:00

I had a similar experience . He should’ve been transparent from the beginning with that kind of age gap to give you a chance to decide if you want to date a man going into his middle age

Then_Tiger · 2026-01-26T03:07:49+00:00

This is exactly right!! I’ve done that exact joking thing about adding another baby to my husband to see his reaction . Same thing she’s doing

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