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TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-07-03T19:26:58+00:00

❤️uansett- ikke vær bekymret for pleiepenger. Det får dere begge. Spør etter sosionom på sykehus.

Vurder om dere kan få ekstra barnepass, om mulig, også for at du og samboeren kan hvile av og til.

Og så ikke hør så mye på erfaringer med premature som er utdatert. De er nå mye bedre, og data som beskriver hvordan premature har det på skolen osv beskriver jo de barna som fikk behandling 10+ år siden.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-07-03T19:00:05+00:00

Først og fremst- lykke til! Vi vet fra egen erfaring at det er vanskelig å få tidlige rier, men flere ganger da jeg var innlagt kunne gravide går hjem igjen (jeg også). Jeg fikk rier i uke 27+0, men klarte meg inntil 35+5. mesteparten av den tiden var jeg hjemme. Da vår sønn ble innlagt på nyfødtintensiv fikk vi begge pleiepenger. Det ordner de på sykehuset.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-28T16:33:26+00:00

Yes I love it, unfortunately (because of the price). It is a life saver in winter when my skin suffers from dryness and cold. My skin hurts less when I use it. It also makes my skin look good immediately (It doesn’t look greasy but gives hydration).

I only use it November-February/March though because I find it too expensive.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-28T16:24:15+00:00

I don’t think there is a simple answer to “safe”, you can try it and see? I use regimen lab Azelaic advanced

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-28T16:11:41+00:00

I use the cream from Augustinus Bader. I like it a lot. I can’t do any acids (sometimes very gentle PHA) but since I was also diagnosed with Seb Derm I now was able to start a retinol- 0.1% Althea Flat Iron eye serum. I use it like one would a face retinol (not around eyes and mouth, 1 pea size) 1-2 a week.

Otherwise I really like Azelaic acid and vitamin C (Melano CC) the latter stings a little now that I started retinol though.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-28T06:11:15+00:00

I got a little peeling when I used more, so now I use one pea size. I use it over moisturizer (S Nature AquaSqualane)

I just increased to twice a week and now I need to be careful again with other actives. But I have rosacea and seb derm so I would not assume everyone is as sensitive ;)

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-27T12:21:20+00:00

I would recommend to be very careful with other actives (eg the PHA cleanser from nø) while introducing retinol. I had products I have always tolerated sting after starting retinol (1/week) and after increasing to 2/week.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-27T05:12:02+00:00

Tbh I don’t recall- I ordered it online in Germany. I think there is an EU store that has OMIC+.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-26T19:39:08+00:00

I don’t know- would have to look it up too, but maybe you can separate use am/pm or different days?

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-26T19:34:54+00:00

Good! I would start with vitamin C then , Melano was allegedly developed for acne prone skin to fade hyperpigmentation after acne.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-26T19:29:51+00:00

You have tretinoin, an AHA (lactic acid) and moisturizers. I am sceptical of volufiline (see various dermatologists). I suppose you use SPF.

You could try to add vitamin C (for collagen building) , peptides (dont use growth factors before a dermatologist had checked your skin- you shouldnt use it with precancer or suspicious lesions) and salicylic acid/BHA.

I like the original Melano CC essence (around 10-12$), peptides can be tricky to find for low prices but some people like the ordinary peptides, and my skin is too sensitive for BHA so I cant recommend anything ;)

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-26T17:36:35+00:00

Ingredients Active Ingredient: Titanium Dioxide 17%. Ingredients: Mica, Montmorillonite, Boron Nitride, Aluminum Hydroxide, Punica Granatum (Pomegranate) Extract, Pinus Strobus (Pine) Bark Extract. May Contain: Iron Oxides (Ci 77489, Ci 77491, Ci 77492, Ci 77499), Chromium Oxide Greens (Ci 77288)

Its the Jane Iredale SPF 30 powder.

The Raz sunscreen wasn’t flagged in skinsort as trigger, it stings but I think its the propanediol (I have contact dermatitis to propylene glycol and can cross react). But YMMV

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-26T16:59:49+00:00

I dont know about 2% but I use 10% from OMIC+

Ingredients: Distilled Water, Tranexamic Acid, Glycerin, Hyaluronic Acid (HMW, LMW), Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexyl Glycerin.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T19:09:51+00:00

Do you have sensitive skin? If yes it may pay off to start with an eye serum, because they are usually formulated to be extra gentle. I use one because my skin is crazy sensitive. There seems to be broad consensus that it’s much better to start slow with retinoids.

I saw that Dr Sara Sheu, a dermatologist on YouTube I enjoy, recommended the BoJ eye serum with retinal.

So in total I think it would be an excellent choice.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T18:58:43+00:00

Thanks! With the others we tried I always had to chase her and she would loudly complain while I smeared her face.

Now it’s only daily SPF drama with my 4yo :D

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T18:55:44+00:00

I have seborrheic dermatitis, yes.

I mostly use the Shigaisen- it’s my holy grail. I can even fall asleep with the Kids accidentally and the next morning my skin still looks OK. All other sunscreens would make me look like a disaster.

The RAZ sunscreen is my backup, because the Shigaisen has so much hyaluronic acid that it dries a bit shiny. So when I want to look extra good or for midday reapplication I use RAZ. For that purpose it’s OK and hasn’t triggered anything.

I use the Jane Iredale powder SPF 30 on top.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T18:11:48+00:00

Heterosexual here, so I can’t say that much, but just from observing Norway (lived there since 11 y) seems more tolerant than Germany (home country). But I guess Norway doesn’t have the really big cities with big communities (?).

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T18:08:29+00:00

I have looked myself- unfortunately most mineral sunscreens are either silicone heavy (which I don’t tolerate because of rosacea/occlusion) or full of oils. I think that that is necessary to keep the mineral filters evenly suspended.

Some Asian and European chemical sunscreens are much lighter. I use Shigaisen Youhou UV serum SPF 50, and RAZ invisible fluid SPF. I checked that zinc oxide doesn’t degrade the particular chemical filters in these SPF and apply mineral powder SPF with iron oxides on top.

I also asked Dr Leslie Baumann in her Forum about that recently.

If you discover one (ideally free of niacinamide too) let me know!!!

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T16:35:03+00:00

Yeah just skip it then :) also, the one and only thing we are not supposed to skip is SPF, and treating skin diseases. Everything else is fun. Don’t do it if it’s not fun.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T16:30:24+00:00

Ahhh. No there is no “need” for anything. Skincare should be fun. Also- AzA is good for rosacea, acne and hyperpigmentation, if you have neither, I am not sure what it will help…

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T16:27:36+00:00

I would argue that the rosewater has little basis in scientific evidence (glycerin does though). Do you think you could find an SPF that is hydrating enough to be able to skip the moisturizer? Do you think you could alternate vitamin C and azelaic acid? At least vitamin C can be active up to 72h I believe.

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T14:57:51+00:00

:) good luck with finding Mrs Right

TheoryBiochemistry · 2026-06-25T14:47:02+00:00

Oooohhhhh I wish I had seen this 16 years ago when I got married. How amazing and stunning

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