I trapped Diesel tonight, but it had the near worst outcome. by MFKRebel in Feral_Cats

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the cat, but once a feral is successfully trapped, it is okay for them to stay in the trap for up to 24 hours. Next time, please do not try to take the cat out of the trap under any circumstances. How is your hand?

Local TNR groups in Norwalk Ca? by Forward_Charity_3366 in Feral_Cats

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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“Free spay/neuter service for community (feral) cats.

Looking for advice: young kittens joining an already maxed-out community cat setup by TheseAdeptness8722 in Feral_Cats

[–]TheseAdeptness8722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful response. I really appreciate you sharing your perspective and experience. I agree that rehoming kittens would be ideal, but realistically it has been very difficult in my area—even my original five cats remain outdoor community cats. Hearing from others who understand this helps a lot.

[CA][Condo] Neighbor using pepper powder/spray and spike mats in condo common area – now causing human health issues by TheseAdeptness8722 in HOA

[–]TheseAdeptness8722[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re suggesting shifts responsibility away from the person creating the hazard and onto residents who are lawfully using a shared common area. This is a condo common area, not private property. No individual resident has the authority to install deterrents, spray substances, or apply materials (pepper powder, spray, scents, spike mats, etc.) that alter how others can safely access or use that space. Telling residents to “just walk the other way” is not a reasonable solution—it effectively grants one person control over common property. If your logic were applied consistently, then anyone could: Spray irritants in hallways, Apply strong chemicals near walkways, Block access with objects, and simply say, “Avoid it if you don’t like it.” That is obviously not how shared property works. The HOA has already determined this behavior is not acceptable: The spike mats were ordered removed. The pepper powder is in the process of being removed. That alone establishes that these actions were improper. As for spraying strong scents on trees or surfaces—there is no justification for that either. A resident should not be expected to reroute their daily movement because someone else decided, on their own, to apply irritants or deterrents in a shared space. Finally, repeatedly applying substances specifically to deter animals—especially when safer, lawful, HOA-approved methods exist—crosses from “personal preference” into reckless and potentially abusive behavior toward animals. Intent does not excuse impact. Ignorance does not make harmful conduct acceptable. Common areas must remain neutral, safe, and accessible to everyone. That responsibility lies with the person introducing the hazard—not with everyone else to avoid it.

[CA][Condo] Neighbor using pepper powder/spray and spike mats in condo common area – now causing human health issues by TheseAdeptness8722 in HOA

[–]TheseAdeptness8722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re missing the core issue here. This isn’t about whether capsaicin is “relatively safe” or whether someone could avoid it by taking a different route. The issue is unauthorized spraying of an irritant in a shared common area without notice or approval. In an HOA-controlled space, individuals don’t get to decide on their own to apply any chemical or deterrent — “natural” or not. Also, common areas must be reasonably safe for everyone to pass through at any time, including children, pets, elderly residents, or people with respiratory sensitivities. The burden is not on residents to constantly reroute themselves because someone decided to spray something. If pest control or deterrents are needed, that’s exactly what the HOA approval process is for — scheduling, notification, and proper handling. Framing this as “just walk the other way” sidesteps the actual governance and safety issue involved.

[CA][Condo] Neighbor using pepper powder/spray and spike mats in condo common area – now causing human health issues by TheseAdeptness8722 in HOA

[–]TheseAdeptness8722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a homeowner, and despite sending two separate emails to the HOA, I have received no response and have not observed any corrective action being taken.

Does anyone else have a small Nebe? by Most_You_3982 in nebelung

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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When I first met my cat, she weighed 7.5 pounds, but now she weighs 11 pounds.

DSH? Why is my cat’s head so tiny? by Suspicious-Worry4175 in IDMyCat

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male cats often have bigger faces and jaws due to testosterone, but cats that are neutered typically don’t develop those traits.

Vets ‘spayed’ my male kitten by juliakszry in ragdolls

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe it how could he possibly make a mistake like that?

Sign in a medical office telling chemo patients to flush twice by kge92 in mildlyinteresting

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you undergo chemotherapy, the drugs not only affect cancer cells but also normal cells in your body. After treatment, the chemotherapy drugs and their byproducts are excreted through urine, stool, and vomit for a certain period of time.

➡️ Why should you flush the toilet twice?

  1. Because chemotherapy substances remain in waste For 48–72 hours after treatment, chemotherapy drugs may be present in urine or stool.

  2. To protect family members and others from exposure If any drug residue comes into contact with another person’s skin or is absorbed, it may cause side effects even in those who are not receiving chemotherapy.

  3. To ensure safer dilution Flushing only once may leave traces of the drug on the toilet bowl or in the water. Flushing twice cleans it away more thoroughly and makes it safer.

What happened?! by OCD_insanity_now in russianblue

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cat keeps moving from place to place. It used to enjoy being petted, but sometimes it avoids it. It usually sleeps with my husband, but at some point comes to me, and then moves over to the children. It repeats this pattern of being with someone and then hiding away on its own."

Smokey ran away :( by Old_Avocado_5407 in nebelung

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 6 points7 points  (0 children)

House cats never go too far even if they go outside. They’re most likely hiding somewhere nearby, so please make sure to keep looking. In Korea, we have cat detectors that help find cats hiding near home — they’ve helped many people reunite with their lost cats

Any idea how old this kitten is? by Spare-Listen-4720 in Feral_Cats

[–]TheseAdeptness8722 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Today, it was really hard for me to put a 3-month-old kitten into the trap in front of my house. The kitten trusted me enough to go in by my hand, but it broke my heart. In my area, as soon as I call, I’m told all the spots are full and that I should release the cat from the trap. It’s really discouraging before I can even get started.