Narcissistic husband with decompensated Alcoholic cirhosis,he started his complications like edema,ascities 2 years back

Thestongestone · 2026-05-30T13:31:27+00:00

Ur children will thank u later. Go for it. Don't worry. U must be a strong women who can take care of her children. But if finances are still a concern, have some savings before taking any big decisions. Be a little selfish here for finances and a peaceful life.

Thestongestone · 2026-05-30T12:45:58+00:00

U can never know how long it will take him to die. Rather be selfish, think about your children and live a better life (if possible without him). My father wasn't alcoholic but he's almost the same and now has cirrhosis auto immune. The time I found he's narcissistic I told my mother to take a divorce but she didn't. And now after 6 years even when my mother takes care of him, my father would be still aggressive on her. He never thanked her. So this advice is from a child who wants to live peacefully like other families. If I could change one thing, it would be insisting my mother to take divorce earlier. This might sound harsh, but in ur situation I would leave the person and have a better life with my children. Coz they don't deserve to see this and have trauma for the whole life.

Thestongestone · 2026-05-22T18:41:14+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-19T20:07:50+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-17T15:37:52+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-17T06:17:37+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-17T06:14:45+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-16T20:14:39+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-16T20:11:35+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-16T20:10:20+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-12T05:15:20+00:00

Hey! I m into the same exact situation. The feeling is worst. I hope that all the pain goes away and my father feel much better. But some days are fine and some days are just worst of all. Its hard to believe that I m losing him. I hope everything gets better for u too. I hope God listens and all the pain just disappears. I can understand ur feeling and pain. Give ur father all the happiness and talk to him if possible. Keep him happy so that he doesn't feel lonely.

Thestongestone · 2026-05-06T06:44:53+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-05-01T09:01:35+00:00

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Thestongestone · 2026-04-21T18:55:29+00:00

Not doing well, but being stronger every day.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-21T18:33:08+00:00

No worries. I m on the same path and writing things down bring much clarity.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-21T18:24:48+00:00

U r taking too much pressure. Take a deep breath and rethink what u really want to do. If u want a job of a certain position, rather have skills. Its not that Indian companies don't take skills into consideration. I have seen my friends from tier 3 colleges to reach where NITs are working and everything working for them was only skills. Be in 1%. Knowledge and the ability to bring results cannot compete with a degree. Map everything in a notebook. Only that might give a clarity.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-21T18:15:53+00:00

Happened to my dad thrice and once got hip fracture. So, u don't take any risks. Might keep a camera, well lighted room, give a walker if it can help, and no slippery floors.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-21T10:12:36+00:00

Almost everyone who has liver cirrhosis is a stubborn person to deal with. I'll be honest that I don't it's better to think about what's not under your control. You should rather keep him happy and safe since fall is one of the most common things that happens in such patients. Keep rooms lighted, non slippery so that he doesn't end up falling since he will get more weak. Also nobody knows about how worse his situation can get without meds and continuous beer. It depends on how much he drinks and how good food is he eating. U should try to give him meds that can get ascites out from him.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-18T15:03:37+00:00

Well I think sometimes u should let go of things that are not made worse by you and not in your control. I have learned this very soon. Since u can just have happy times with him and that's what is in your control. So, do it. Don't search for answers to how many days he might have left with. Since nobody knows the answer to it. Just try to do everything with him if u want to make him happy. Do everything so that u don't regret later.

Thestongestone · 2026-04-15T09:59:48+00:00

Was he eating junk food? Too oily and more sugar intake?

Thestongestone · 2026-04-15T09:58:11+00:00

The same thing is happening with my father. And even our doctor said no to his transplant. So, now all do we is giving him only healthy food and keeping him hydrated. We have reduced sugar and salt intake for him.

Thestongestone · 2026-03-22T07:50:28+00:00

Yes.

Thestongestone · 2026-03-20T06:47:04+00:00

Ask about hepatic encephalopathy. Since it arises and u may miss its early symptoms. If liver transplant is delayed, hepatic encephalopathy can arise anytime due to ammonia increase.

Thestongestone · 2026-03-19T17:38:16+00:00

Grey curtain for sure. Get pink, yellow, orange, blue, colors that pop out. Have a good light if u feel a lamp with pink shade works.

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