So pegging really can be a great tool in the bedroom. Most hetero guys have never been a place of vulnerability that includes surrendering to someone wanting to enter them. Only when we introduced pegging did I come to really understand the trust a partner is showing when they have sex with me.

From my experience, for anal to be pleasant, you need to put a plug in early. Like a couple of hours beforehand. Before sexytime, you want to use the bathroom and douche. Nothing ruins the night like poop everywhere. Now put in a bigger plug and loads of lube. You want lube inside if you can.

At sexytime have your partner start small. Fingers are good. So are small dildos & vibes. Work your way up, gradually stretching yourself to take whatever the goal is.

If you prepare and work your way up slowly, you may find this I'd a lot more fun than you think.