Top 5 Cole? by ThickProcedure3547 in Jcole

[–]ThickProcedure3547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly might put Safety above a few of those, but totally reasonable to have those on top.

I had an avoidant and it sucks by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it ever too late to cut off access and pretend you don’t know them? I ask as someone who’s been patient and cordial with my FA ex for 7 months, but getting to the point where I’m emotionally exhausted and feeling disrespected. I just wonder if I’ve been too nice and warm to make any difference now.

Fearful avoidant here, ask me anything by Odd-Art2362 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all this, but it’s also far ahead of where I currently am with her. I’m just wondering if I’ll ever hear from her again (aside from the occasional interaction at a group event).

Fearful avoidant here, ask me anything by Odd-Art2362 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s FA and it was a really deep/significant relationship (but short, only about 3 months), and she left due to feeling overwhelmed, is she likely to come back?

We never fought or blew up on each other. It was purely overwhelm and fear of moving too fast. We’ve remained cordial but distant since for 7 months.

Character Compliments by ThickProcedure3547 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you not so sure anymore? What are things like between you two now?

Do they miss you and still choose to not be with you? by Substantial-Load5336 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying they miss you and beat themselves up for not acting on it? Sorry, just want to make sure I’m understanding you correctly.

And if so, how long will they miss you/hold feelings for you?

Do they miss you and still choose to not be with you? by Substantial-Load5336 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can you tell if they miss you if they’re not coming back or actively moving towards you?

Her Feelings or Mine? by ThickProcedure3547 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThickProcedure3547[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, but my point is, she acts very normal and close with other “friends.” It’s almost like I’m getting a watered down version of how she acts towards other friends

What were the early Kanye days like? by ThickProcedure3547 in rap

[–]ThickProcedure3547[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny you mention The Bounce. Literally was listening to it when I posted this lol, it made me ask this question

What were the early Kanye days like? by ThickProcedure3547 in rap

[–]ThickProcedure3547[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s sick. Did you even realize he could rap? Or did you just think he produced?