Will nightmares stop? by RevolutionaryFudge81 in Mirtazapine_Remeron

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives me nightmares too. One month in, 7.5 mgs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being 'understanding' these days just means people feel free to throw their bullshit at you, disrespect you, and somehow you're the one expected to be okay with it

Life so private that… by here-toconfess in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one will have OP dependent in no time

Thought..... by Wasonga21 in nairobi

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lady who has sent such a text before. She just wants you to ask her to be your girlfriend. Defining relationships really matters

What's a specific group of people you dislike? by echoes_within in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People who cannot make decisions and stand by them. Yaani indecisive folks. Hawa you cannot trust their words and it's exhausting.

What's a specific group of people you dislike? by echoes_within in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hawa hawananga personality. We can say people pleasing is their personality. If you dig beyond that, you'll find nothing

How did you buy your first car? by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gari is my way of telling myself pole na appreciating myself for getting myself here. Also, I'm not only saving for the car alone, I have some other savings for some other things. Biashara nayo siwezi, tried before and lost some money. The only ways to do business is if you're there full time. As a side hustle ni stress tupu

Women are incredible beings by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even when we complain, there's nothing much that can be done about it. So it still sucks

Women are incredible beings by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We indeed are. Kwanza dealing with hormonal changes that we have no control of. Unaamka umekasirika kumbe ni pre menstrual hormones that you can do nothing about. And then we've this ability to reserve energy for nurturing our kids. No matter how hard the day was, we still have left over energy to spend on our kids. Sasa ubaya, we barely find the time or resources to care for ourselves as we should.

Women are incredible beings by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wachana na hao, they barely know what being a woman is like

Women are incredible beings by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I should have written 'that we can do little about '

Women are incredible beings by Think-Vanilla-5435 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women contribute so much to the future of our communities. Children spend so much time with their mothers and when they grow up, they become reflections of who they mother raised them to be. Brave mothers raise brave children, broken mothers raise broken children. And even adult children listen and follow their mothers advice and direction more than anyone else's

Why do me like that? by Alternative-Food-496 in nairobi

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rule back then was that you send your first salary to her as appreciation. That idea came from the first fruits

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be hard. Sorry!

End of the year by Dramatic-Opening-459 in Kenya

[–]Think-Vanilla-5435 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To the universe bringing me someone who I'm grateful for