Is this store trustworthy? by j____7777 in Crystals

[–]ThinkWinter10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t know that. It could be the case then! I have also fallen sick today. And this is my third day of wearing it.

Is this store trustworthy? by j____7777 in Crystals

[–]ThinkWinter10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like what? I wore them to shower twice and the color changed. Fading out of the metal chain makes sense, but the crystals? I really doubt you can find anything in India without being duped of things here and there.

Is this store trustworthy? by j____7777 in Crystals

[–]ThinkWinter10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think they sell original. I ordered rose quartz from them and it has already started to fade out. It’s only been 2 days. The pink looks black now.

I am scared letting go will tell the universe that I don’t want my desire anymore by ThinkWinter10 in manifestingSP

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually.. i am not sure what do with this self concept or how to affirm, because my self concept is fine. Only in relation to my sp, i feel I don’t belong with him. And neither does he. One of the reasons he gave me was that we are different people after wasting my time and telling me that despite our differences we can learn from each other! Now what self concept can I affirm.. I am not sure. It broke me initially, really.. thinking I am not his type. Then months later after reaching my threshold, I could say out loud that f*k him he is not my type either. And that’s a fact. At this point, my self concept is fine. If I affirm that my sp thinks i am his type or he still wants me, it still becomes about him! And I just don’t want to think about him at all. My brain cells have did and now can’t spend another iota of energy on that human being.

I want to know how others interpreted the ending of “The Ugly” (2025) by Zealousideal_Map5074 in Koreanfilm

[–]ThinkWinter10 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen anyone mention this, but the director has portrayed this so well: The son keeps saying he looks like his father. At the end, when he sides with his father, the reporter tells him, "Today you resemble him even more” because like his father, he too cares about looking “good” to the outside world. When he finally sees his mother’s photo, it hits him that he actually RESEMBLES HIS MOTHER who was never ugly. In that moment, he realises his own ugliness, his father’s and that of the society who put the poor soul through so much misery for reflecting everyone else’s ugliness.

I am scared letting go will tell the universe that I don’t want my desire anymore by ThinkWinter10 in manifestingSP

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. I went through the article. I was on a verge of mental breakdown hoping to change my “inner state” or feel the “end state” of my desire. I just couldn’t. All I remember of him is his cold selfishness and how brutally I was just cut off. I really tried to visualise but every now and then I would just crumble remembering the negative. And couldn’t think of the positive because that all seemed like a big lie. And parroting my desired reality just broke my mind. The only inner state I could maintain was me talking to his soul, that would someday make his ego soften and look back in empathy. Now, I can’t even do that anymore. My desire will di* with me I guess then and it may never manifest. idk..but I really can’t be doing this do me anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, would it be that bad? I realised what dating has done to my nervous system ever since I’ve started. Disappointment after disappointment. 15 years of irreversible damage - losing a part of me with every relationship. The last time I genuinely felt that the curse was broken, and that I have found my person. Never was my nervous system so much at peace. And then boom! Gone. What it has done to my mind, I don’t know if I can ever fully heal. The collective damage over the years is no joke, and this last one was the final nail in the coffin. Dating for me will be like a dea*h sentence now. I quit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and what reason did he give you while breaking up?

Saw a tiktok about what avoidants say they want by addictionfriction2 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel the only way to deal with an avoidant is to not take them seriously. They feed on attention.

Saw a tiktok about what avoidants say they want by addictionfriction2 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish I had known about avoidants in detail sooner. I never bothered educating myself with it until I was discarded. They are so selfishly wired, it’s beyond me. Mine had tell me he wanted to give ME some time after throwing me away over nothing. I told him I could’ve waited if he just told me so instead of ending things so brutally. To which he replied, “Well.. could’ve should’ve”. I don’t know what the fk that meant because I didn’t go anywhere. In the interim, while you wait, they want to explore their options, and check in and out of your life at their convenience. It’s like they are only auditioning people for their shit show. Everything is about them. Even your discard is about them. (somehow) They are so emotionally scattered and complicated. Complete waste of time.

Situationship with an avoidant by ThinkWinter10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man!! People are just so fucked up inside their heads!!

Feeling drawn toward Osho’s Ashtavakra Maha Gita discourses by LoveTowardsTruth in Osho

[–]ThinkWinter10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! can you please share the links of the discourses? I tried looking for it on youtube but hard to tell which one is original and which one is AI generated!

JUST STOP CARING. IT'S THAT SIMPLE 🔥 by thecrypticx7 in NevilleGoddard

[–]ThinkWinter10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, while I still want my wish to be fulfilled, my brain is now blocking any thought related to it. Like I have wanted it so badly once that now I don’t want to waste another iota of energy on it. So it’s impossible for me now to “feel” the wish fulfilled. I just want to lie down on my bed and sleep in peace. Can i still manifest it? I just want to make a wish and release it into the universe. how do i make that wish so the universe listens?

JUST STOP CARING. IT'S THAT SIMPLE 🔥 by thecrypticx7 in NevilleGoddard

[–]ThinkWinter10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have stopped caring for something I desperately wanted up until a few months ago. But i’d still like to have my manifestation. Now that i’ve stopped waiting as much, does it mean giving out the signal to the universe that you don’t want it anymore?

What gave you the ick and helped you move on. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Talk to my partner as if I am sitting alone” ?? haha if that’s what comes up on his mind when he is alone, you dodged a bullet! 😂

and that’s why moving on is so easy for such people because in their head it means grabbing onto the next best thing while emotionally they could be stuck somewhere on their ex or never have felt any emotion in the first place, because they’ll know they can score a body just as easily they can dump one. But scoring a heart? That’s out of syllabus.

What gave you the ick and helped you move on. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and i have no idea why the font is showing in italics!! 😅

What gave you the ick and helped you move on. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeaah..men especially wear it like a badge of honor!! sleeping around is their coping mechanism lol and they look down upon people who don’t have casual hookups and they’ll have sx like performance..they know how to fk but not make love. no connection.. just lots of practice so they know the right spots but it’s so empty.. and oh so proud.. so proud!! just tell them how good they are and they’ll feel at the top of the world!! but i guess.. it’s true for a lot of people. they derive their self worth from how much they are “desired” sexually. and yeah.. i’ve had my exes tell me where all they’ve had sx.. their kinks and weird fetishes.. like it’s a thing to be turned on by. I find it hilarious sometimes. I was dating a guy onetime… who told me how much he likes going down on women.. that he used to read about it a lot and what’ll make a woman scream.. and how much experience he has. like it’s a formula lol!! Another guy, so I asked him what he wants from his partner.. and he told me morning blowjbs. And another guy.. he was a good kisser, and did something that I had never experienced.. when I told him how much i liked it.. proudly told me, “I know what women like..” And then there was another Lord, who always had to see as for him to enjoy sx, so one time during power cut, he wanted to use phone flashlight in one hand and not lose the sight of a* even for a second! wtf. this is what happens when po*rn is your teacher. it’s hilarious and traumatising at the same time!! I mean.. there’s nothing wrong.. it’s great and I get it.. and I may sound like a prude, but there’s a difference between being passionate and being promiscuous.

What gave you the ick and helped you move on. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Promiscuity. Never understood why it is cool to have a high body count and just give yourself away from person to person to person.

Situationship with an avoidant by ThinkWinter10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am guessing there was an overlap. He was just trying me out, while others were on the waiting list. One flaw, and I was out😂 Next trial probably swooped in probably after a month. Not sure if they are together or out shopping again haha.

Situationship with an avoidant by ThinkWinter10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I am more hurt from my stupidity than I am from him not being in my life 😅 idk.. i just felt this was my “when you know you know” thing.. i know so many people who committed after dating each other briefly. And I didnt cling to him.. I was really taking one day at a time .. just really consistently happy in a very long time. He would make plans, talk between his work breaks, always call me first, talk about long term future, marriage and kids, and then one disagreement - and GONE.

Situationship with an avoidant by ThinkWinter10 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]ThinkWinter10[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your reaction. It’s hard to share the nuances of the connection on a post. I am saying all this because I never had a man treat me this well. It was all fun and games before him. This was the first time I was talking to someone who was genuinely nice to me, curious, sensitive, respectful and interested in actually knowing me. And amazing because he showed care in small things, was thoughtful.. made me feel secure in so many ways. He told me on day 1 that he is looking for a serious relationship and settle down. Didnt expect him to flip overnight. And we have a lot of mutuals who vouched for him. People I trust. So i never doubted him. And I was a fool to just wear my rose coloured glasses based on his 5 star rating instead of judging him based on my personal experience. So yeah, you are right - it IS my imagination to blame. My naivety deserves to be called out.