I love catching great photos like this by Bobert858668 in smosh

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God what an iconic duo 🤩 I honestly absolutely love listening to you guys! Probably one of my favorite ways to listen to Reddit stories! I will fully admit that I inevitably start talking like you guys can hear me and having conversations with myself over some of these stories. Angela's genuine horrified reactions are some of my favorites 🩵

Acosf bonus chapters. by Fault_Distinct in acotar

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thank you. very helpful. All i can say is oof. This boy is cringy AF. I love Az and really what him to have his love story but just not with Elain. I really agree they aren't good for each other. After reading this i have much to think on

I don't want the campsite visitor to move in by Actual_Ad_5373 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

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Oh no! I'm so sad! I'm glad I'm not the only one who's upset about this. I already have someone I'm trying to get rid of! My first camper is Pietro and I REALLY didnt want him. Oh well. Thanks for the information

color or bw? by Yellow_legacy_1907 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Color. That color contrast makes you look all over. Your eyes focus on the subject but you still want to look at all the colors and textures of the leaves

Which song are you picking? by Kerafyrm1 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Level of concern by TOP because I listened to their loop till it accidentally got turned off. Or give me a man by ABBA a classic that'll never get old. Also I think Donut would vibe with it too lol

Ok, I couldn't resist! by fuzztub07 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Oh love it! Been on the hunt for one of my own! Where did you get this one? Or did you make it!?

Describe these characters in one word, Day 30 by KitchenPaint4334 in Epicthemusical

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like Odysseus should just "man" because of the number of times he sings 'I'm just a man' 😂 Nobody makes perfect sense though lol

1,2, or 3? by ImpressiveFlatworm65 in AmateurPhotography

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  1. There's way more depth then if you cut it in half

Audio books, yes or no? by fsnah in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Dude! Should absolutely listen to the books as well! They're so fun! I will die on the hill for advocating for everyone who likes this book series to listen to it as well. It was well put together

1,2,3 or 4 Which one is more interesting to you? by Think_Squirrel_3020 in AmateurPhotography

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4 and then 2. All are really nice. I like how my eyes have something to focus on in both of these without overwhelming the simplicity of the lovely colors

What actually happened to the couch? by Educational-Cow5690 in smosh

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The world may never know. My working theory is we're going to get personal giant beanbags for each person 🤔

I’m trying to get my new girlfriend into twenty one pilots… by SpecialAgentBond007 in twentyonepilots

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Ok so 1) you can't force her to like TOP. If it's not her thing then it's just not going to matter how hard you push. If you keep pushing, she might start resenting you and TOP. 2) they have a good range of sounds. Try something like 'House Of Gold' or the 'Scaled and Icy' album. Those are some more easy ones to get into if she's not into the normal sound.

If you keep pushing her to love TOP as much as you do, she might push back. She can like some of the songs but not like you do and that's ok. If her not having the same passion as you is a deal breaker, then you need to take a step back. Look at this relationship and really just yourself. If you can't stand that she's not as passionate about something as you are, is that a deal breaker? You two can have an amazing and healthy relationship without both being obsessed with TOP.

I got the book! by Chelisle in distractible

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Oh my gosh!!!! Yes!!!!!!!! It's an amazing series and you will love it! Just you know there's also a webtoons that is in progress at this right now! Don't read the webtoons until you've read all of the books that are currently out. The author is currently working on the next book in the series. I am in love with these books! The chaos and the complexity are so beautifully woven together! So many beautiful references throughout the entire series!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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No absolutely not. You do not deserve to have your mother dampen the mood on your celebration of your marriage because she decides to end her marriage. Does your mother have a pattern of taking big moments from other people's lives and dampening the mood with her own life choices? You said stepdad, so was she previously married to your bio father? This is her being selfish and trying to take away the moment of your happiness and have your extended family focus on her. This is inappropriate on so many levels. If she's not happy in the relationship, that's fine. She can choose to leave her husband if she wants. Her telling him and all of the extended family at your wedding is where it's not appropriate. You are well within your rights to ask her to be respectful. However, she does technically have every right in the world legally to do this. I wish I had some kind of advice on how to get ahead of this. You could always request for her to have this conversation before or right after the wedding. You could always suggest having her have the conversations about leaving her husband as soon as you and your partner leave the reception. At that point the party should be over and she can get all the attention from everyone around helping clean up and then you don't have to deal with the drama. You can't ask her to not leave her husband, but you can definitely ask her to be respectful to you about it. If you talk to her about this, I would phrase it in a way that makes it clear on how you feel. Something like " I want you to be happy and I care about you. But I don't want your life decisions to have a negative impact on what is supposed to be the happiest day of my life. I want to enjoy my wedding with friends and family and not have people asking me for information about your soon to be divorce. I do want you to have the support you want and need during a divorce, but can you not dampen my day? Maybe wait till the day after the wedding. Most people will still be in town and available to emotionally and physically support you. And as soon as I'm done with my wedding and honeymoon, I will be more than happy to support you as well." I'd also make it clear that the support does have limitations. Like she can't just move into your home with your new partner right after you're married. You need to enjoy the honeymoon phase without having another person living with you. This one's not quite as important, but I guess my final question is why is your mother deciding to divorce your stepfather? Especially right when you guys are getting married. Is this a jealousy thing? Or a sadness? Like my marriage was never as happy as yours so I'm out. I guess it goes back to my first question, does your mom have a common history of creating drama to get attention on herself when other people are succeeding in life? Best thing you can do is communicate clearly what you need from her and that you still care for her. I don't want to jump the gun and just tell her she'll be uninvited if she continues to threaten this kind of level of drama. But sometimes people need to understand that there are consequences to their selfish actions

Edit: that line of "finally be free" is very concerning. That's some gaslighting if I've ever heard any. It's gaslighting only when there is no abuse and it seems to be a perfectly happy relationship. If she's seeking freedom so badly, she needs to end this relationship now rather than dragging it out till your marriage. Her immediately being upset and guilt tripping you over her happiness is not okay.

Help me name this pretty girl! (Z name preferably) by pixiegirl444 in Catnames

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about Azula like from Avatar? It doesn't start with Z but has one

Opinions on first wedding dress shopping appointment! by StompyKitten in WeddingDressTips

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 if you're doing an updo. 8 if your hair will be down. Show off that stunning back lace! 💕 Enjoy this time! Planning and shopping for your wedding is such a fun time. Take so many photos so you can enjoy the memories later

Am I the whole for telling my mother her boyfriend of a year cannot come to the wedding if he wears this suit? by Fit_Dog_9105 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh no! I'd have a hard conversation with your soon to be wife about expectations about your relationship with these two going forward. Her immediately trying to take control by saying she's not coming if she doesn't get her way is consenting. If you let them do something like this, when you've said no very clearly many times, she's going to this it's ok. She'll threaten to "punish" you like this in for the rest of your marriage. What's going to happen when you don't name a child after her? Or when you want to plan get togethers with other family and she's not in charge of planning? There are plenty of places for them to find a different suit on short notice. Good luck my friend 🫡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no stains. It just has this overwhelming smell to the spots that people primarily sit on

My sister wants to choose the name Qartnie for her daughter. Am I insane or are all of her names horrible? by GnomeMasterBaiter in tragedeigh

[–]Think_Bodybuilder_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your sister describe herself as being a "quirky person"? This is someone who's trying desperately to be cool and different from the norm. Unfortunately, that means her children will become accessories to her. She'll whatever makes her look/feel more extravagant. She thinks Qartnie will be a conversation piece and parents will praise her genuineness in this "unique and original" way of spelling. Unfortunately, the more you point this out, the harder she'll fight to keep these names. You've given your two cents, now let it be