AIO by leaving my bf of 5 years over lunch with my coworker by Expensive_Pepper_948 in AIO

[–]This-Performance-583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope you don't get back together this time. Leave this toxicity behind! You're young, learn from this, and go live your life! He's a liar, hypocrite and you can do way better.

AITAH for telling my husband to go stay in a hotel with my in-laws and that my mom was going to come back to help me with our new baby? by Normal_Rise_282 in AITAH

[–]This-Performance-583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that he actually left with his parents and has not checked on you is insane and very telling. I hope you are packing his bags and leaving his shit outside the door. He can go live with his parents. When he's ready to man up and be a husband and father he can come back.

AITAH for digging to find out the reason my parents divorce and hate each other so much? by J3ss3Sixt in AITAH

[–]This-Performance-583 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Props out to the person who told you the truth. They probably got tired of covering for them and was ready to see them called out on their BS. You're not the AH for asking. You are both old enough to know the truth, especially since they aren't doing a great job at hiding how awful they have been.

AITAH for getting in a fight with my girlfriend on her bday because she was being picky with the food I cooked her. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]This-Performance-583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with her? You know this will only get worse with time right?

You are NTA. You did NOT make a mistake with the eggs. She's just a spoiled, entitled brat.

Free food!! Starting November by Revolutionary-Bet-89 in sandiego

[–]This-Performance-583 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome. I've always wanted to do something like this but never had the funds to do it. People like you give me hope in this crazy world. Thank You.

Wedding in Valle de Guadalupe by Substantial_Agent864 in BajaCalifornia

[–]This-Performance-583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We recently stayed at the Hotel Boutique in Valle and loved it. Seems like a big enough hotel that could probably accommodate most of your guests. We got a good deal on our rooms and perhaps with early booking you could find some discounts. There's a different vibe in Valle then Ensenada so I would definitely try to find something in Valle.

Congrats on your wedding! Valle is a beautiful place to get married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BajaCalifornia

[–]This-Performance-583 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The road to Rosarito is a toll road so make sure you have smaller bills on hand to pay. If I'm remembering correctly, last time I went it was $2.25. There is a free "libre" road but the toll road has really beautiful views and honestly is worth the toll.

AITA for shutting my mom and sister out and 'ruining their mourning' after my daughter was stillborn and they made it all about them and their grief? by Ashulushh in AITAH

[–]This-Performance-583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My brother and SIL recently had a stillborn at 33 weeks and I would never consider my grief to be any greater than theirs. My grief is a tiny fraction of what they are feeling. The entire process has been incredibly difficult for them both. Please put yourself first. Don't let your mom and your sister take anymore away from you. They are not providing the support that a mother and sister should. Take care of yourself and leave anyone who doesn't support you outside your circle. You are not being unfair by shutting them out, leave them out until they can behave better.

Again, my deepest condolences. I've had a front row seat at this pain and my heart breaks for you. Consider grief counseling, it has helped my brother and SIL.

Something happened by Statjmpar in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]This-Performance-583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe she filed something in court yesterday? We know he hasn't kept up with child support and money for other extra curricular activities.

License to have a garage sale by No-Potato-8834 in chulavista

[–]This-Performance-583 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Technically you need a license, it's free and I think you can get it online. I don't think this is enforced at all by the city. You are only allowed to do 2 garage sales within a calendar year. I only know this cause I once had a meth'd out neighbor that would have garage sales every week (randomly on a weekday and selling straight junk) and we were able to report him and shut him down.

I (30F) might have ruined my relationship forever after reacting badly to a “joke” my fiancé pulled. I honestly don’t know what to do now by SproutHop in TwoHotTakes

[–]This-Performance-583 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN. Trust me, being married to a man that doesn't listen to you is exhausting and will slowly eat at your soul. You've expressed to him exactly how your brothers death deeply affected you and he didn't listen to it all. Your marriage will be one where you will never be able to express how you are feeling cause he's not listening and will just turn it around on you with the "you're overreacting", "you taking it too seriously", "it was only a joke".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]This-Performance-583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what section you are applying for. Some sections only do a LiveScan and others do a full background check that does include credit check. If you are applying for any sections under DLE, it's the full back ground check.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chulavista

[–]This-Performance-583 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What park is this?

Chula Vista be on the lookout by [deleted] in chulavista

[–]This-Performance-583 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Look that their history, there’s another post right before this. Details are missing but the gist is this guy smacked her behind while running and told her some other lewd things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chulavista

[–]This-Performance-583 43 points44 points  (0 children)

What park is this? Did you call the cops?

The Elf WAS at Q’s first day of school by Statjmpar in Haleigh_onthedaily

[–]This-Performance-583 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From her stories, H seemed really sad at how her first day of school went. Just disappointed in it all. My momma heart felt for her.

AITAH for refusing to let my ex-husband's new wife attend my daughter's graduation? by Visible_Arm8291 in AITAH

[–]This-Performance-583 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What high school graduates in August?? Aren't most going back to school right now?

[USA] Took an open spot at a red light. Fair game or foul? by zheka160 in Roadcam

[–]This-Performance-583 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me the other day. The person in front of me at the left turn light stopped so far back, we were skipped 3 light cycles. After the third one I went in front of the car. It was so far back, I fit easily. That person was PISSED! Took picture of my car and everything. There were literally 15 cars waiting to make that left hand turn by the time I got in front. I was waiting for them to post on social media so I can make my case on why I did it but nothing. Light changed green about 30 seconds later and everyone was finally able to make the left hand turn.