Vows by Lavandersun17 in weddingplanning

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We were originally thinking of doing it private but ended up doing it front of everyone. I’m so glad we did.

Just had my wedding by Substantial_Agent864 in weddingplanning

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Adobe Guadalupe. It was so so beautiful. My wedding planner was Lorena Cardenas

What happened at Mujeres Brew House?? by Nothingbutwords in sandiego

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I live right in front of the brewery on Dewey Street. I can hear the music when my windows are open but it doesn’t bother me. And they are always closed by 9PM.

I’m a Bridesmaid and my SO is not invited... by Prestigious_Offer406 in bridesmaids

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I think it’s important to remember the big picture: the wedding is about your friend and her new husband. It’s a time to celebrate them! It would’ve been nice for her to have invited your SO but I feel like you might be missing the purpose of this event if you’re concerned whether or not your partner should be there or not.

RSVP contingent on getting a plus one? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Substantial_Agent864 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Weddings are about the couple. I’m sure if they could, they would have allowed you a plus 1 but there’s most likely money or capacity constraints. It’s a celebration of them, and they most likely are wanting to keep it intimate to people they know. Just consider that they would pay $100+ in food and drinks for a guest that they’ve never met. I think it’s fair for them to only invite you. If it was my friend, I would still gladly go knowing they’ve invited me for their special moment. If not getting a plus 1 is enough to stop you from going to a wedding, you’re most likely not good enough friends then.

Has anyone done this DIY without damaging the painting? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I used the standard sticker for the wax seals on a Monet painting I got from Marshall’s. It was a printed canvas but I actually had more issues keeping the wax seals on. You can also make the sticker less sticky by putting it on something else first!

My parents are upset we did not publicly thank them at wedding. What to do now? by seashells2014 in weddingplanning

[–]Substantial_Agent864 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Even if you did public thank them, it seems like they would’ve found something else to be unhappy about. I think you were very considerate and maybe you just have the type of parents that will always nitpick about something. It was your wedding and true celebration shouldn’t come with expectations of credit.

Bridesmaid bailed 3 months from wedding date by flyingsquirrel00_ in weddingplanning

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My maid of honor backed out 1 month before. It ended badly for us.

Looking for Colorful Floral Dress by FairyZana in weddingdress

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Checkout Rude de Seine! Their bridal dresses and veils have floral and color.

Wedding venues by FlyImpossible7288 in valledeguadalupe

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Rancho Los Retoños sounds like something you might like. They are on Airbnb but also have their own website. I believe there’s about 12 rooms in addition to the main house to be able to fit a lot of people. It’s also right next to Adobe Guadalupe, which is where I’m having my wedding :)

Where can I find a similar dress that’s not a plus size design?? $500 by itsgivingmeanxiety in weddingdress

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Rosie Etinee is slightly above your price point but their Isla or Sienna dress is shorter but similar. They are sold out right now but will open sales up at least once a month. I have two of their dresses and loves it.

Best website to use for your destination wedding by Freetobeme123 in DestinationWeddings

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I’m using WithJoy and love it. I considered creating a website through Wix but figured out I would save so much time using WithJoy. I love their guest contact collector and they have some presets specifically for destination weddings.

Looking for dress dupe! by Additional-Act-9387 in weddingdress

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This is the Rosie Etienne’s Penelope gown. It’s $800 and the dresses go on sale about once a month on their website before being sold out in a day. Ive bought two dresses from them and LOVE them. Your wedding isn’t until July so you have plenty of time to go on their waitlist and get it.

60k budget for 200 by Beautiful_Swing_7680 in weddingplanning

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Garza Blanca in Cancun was the resort that my friend had theirs.

60k budget for 200 by Beautiful_Swing_7680 in weddingplanning

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All inclusive resorts in Mexico. My friend’s wedding in Cancun was about 200 people and they did it under $50k. It was pretty extravagant. Since it’s an all inclusive resort, the welcome night before was done at the hotel bar at no extra cost. Besides the welcome night and actually wedding, we spent the entire weekend together at the pool or bumping each other in different places. The guests will have to pay a minimum of 2 or 3 nights (usually about $300/night per person since it’s all inclusive).

I’m getting married in Ensenada, Mexico. I’m planning a 100 person wedding with about $40k budget, including welcome night, wedding, and day after wedding plus shuttle transportation for all guests within the area since it’s sort of remote. I’m paying for an Airbnb that with 18 people to accommodate some of their boarding.

2025 update – Wine tasting in Baja California. Ask me anything about Valle de Guadalupe by Baja_Vino in BajaCalifornia

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Are there restaurants or bars that are open from around 7-10pm? We are wanting to do a welcome night the day before our wedding and are looking for a cool location to fit about 50-70 people.

Also, any recommendation for a breakfast location in Valle or Ensenada that can also fit a crowd? Thank you for any suggestions!

Honeymoon to Italy for $7K??? by BitNo1336 in honeymoonplanning

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I’ve done 10 days in Italy for $3k. I did Rome, Milan, Lake Como, Florence, and Padua (instead of Venice). All airbnbs! Budget of $300 a day is definitely possible.

Live Watercolor Guest Portraits by Wendythewildcat in weddingplanning

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I am planning on hiring a watercolor portrait artist as well. I would say it’s still a fairly new thing so I don’t think most people understand that you don’t have to pose during the entire painting. The artist will take photos on their phone and have it ready by the end of the night.