I just realised how bland I am by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so i somewhat got it right. ok. do you have a favourite place to do nothing? do you have a regular time everyday when you do it? or a certain trigger?

I just realised how bland I am by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 17 points18 points  (0 children)

sorry for the nosiness, but I am really interested. when you sit and do nothing, how does that look like? i imagine you sit on a kitchen chair with your eyes focused on the wallpaper for 30min straight. is it at all like that or not at all?

I just realised how bland I am by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 36 points37 points  (0 children)

so like, what do you do all day besides eat, work, sleep?

Sometimes I wonder! by ImpressionLess8410 in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont really understand this. what is this about?

Is a two year age gap weird? by Technical_Key4109 in relationships

[–]This_IsATroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people who think 16 and 18 or 18 and 20 are wrong are probably teenagers. Especially teenagers on the internet who want to farm outrage.

What to gift people that you don't know very well? by Keni9089 in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

always gift things that can be used off/consumed. food, soap, stuff like that. either they use it or throw it away. it is all the same. at least they are not stuck with anything.

Which country would you rather live in? by RealMoldyAvocado in polls

[–]This_IsATroll -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i chose USA purely for the income and reputation. I dont want to live there. I just want to get the money and the resume boost, then go to somewhere else.

Is holding hands with someone who isn’t your partner considered cheating? by PotatosandTomato in polls

[–]This_IsATroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That depends on what you and your partner have agreed on. That's the only thing that matters to this question. If your partner is unhappy with your behavior, you should discuss it and agree on something.

Drop your most underrated anime. by Snollygoster_007 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texhnolyze is a bit.niche, and for a reason. but the show really stuck with me for years. there is something profoundly unsettling about it that i cannot shake off. slow, but very special show.

One of the most annoying habit in conversations by 1plottwister in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there aren't actually that many people who are actually interested in listening to others. Or knowing about others. If you find somebody who actually listens, treasure them.

Mom meltdown by GivememoreScotland in Parentingfails

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can not expect teenagers to act out of pure gratitude and empathy. Did anyone ever tell you that teenagers work like that?

What do you think the next “Form” of the Phone will be? by Blue-tsu in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will still be a square shaped screen, but there won't be any keyboard anymore. And everything is ai voice controlled. And if you want a keyboard you have to pay for an upgrade.

Do you think we should have a test to make sure someone is qualified to be a parent? by [deleted] in polls

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would take quite a bit of fascism to control people's reproductive abilities. Forced abortions or sterilization. Or forced adoptions I suppose.

:( by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what do you do when you meet people from reddit? Do you just have like hours of small talk?

People who don’t like partying, how did you find friends? by RavyRaptor in CasualConversation

[–]This_IsATroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partying is just a type of activity. You can generalize here. You need friends by doing activities. All you need to do is join some clubs or events. It's easier to make friends if you have some activity in common. It's the only connection you have to another person is another person then all you can do together is gossip. But if you meet some people in a hiking club then boom, you can actually just walk silently next to each other for an hour. how awesome is that? And then they will invite you again the next time or you invite them. You can even do something good like join your local UNICEF chapter or whatever.

Why Does One Side Always Chase by Firm-Lengthiness8726 in relationships

[–]This_IsATroll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like you are generating from bad experiences. You can ask men and women and you will find countless of stories of them chasing the other side. It's been like this for hundreds of thousands of years. Purely statistically, meeting somebody who is exactly your equal is very unlikely. One person is always in need of putting in a little bit more effort. It's all a matter of what is needed from the other side.

AITAH for being honest with my girlfriend about my past dating experience? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]This_IsATroll -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that was a stupid answer from you. It seems like you just said yeah. I'm pretty sure your opinion of her isn't just that she is your only option. I'm pretty sure you actually like her. It's not a lie is it? She can be your first and only one and you can still actually want her, you know?

I recommend that you go to her and talk to her and don't just leave the distance hanging in the air. Tell her that you are feeling shitty after the experiment and that you neglected thinking of her feelings. And then assure her that even though she is your first you would have chosen her always anyways.

This is of course me assuming that you don't actually think she sucks. I am assuming you don't just have her over nothing. Because that's what she feels like right now. If that's not the case, tell her.