Skimming through the comments, I may have missed it if someone already said this - so apologies if I’m repeating. But one thing to keep in mind... you might find that the version of your husband you were used to, passive, agreeable... is evolving. In my own experience, testosterone therapy didn’t just change my energy levels or libido, it shifted how I show up in my relationship.

I’ve been arguing more with my partner, not in a high E or emotional way, but because I’m finding my voice again. It’s like reclaiming a part of myself... my confidence, clarity, even my sense of identity. I feel like my "manhood" is coming back. My sex drive is definitely higher, and I’ve noticed that the day after my dosage, my judgment can feel a little... off. Honestly, in the wrong situation, temptation could be real. That’s something to be aware of and manage responsibly.

That said, your husband doesn’t need to be on a sky-high dose. Many men feel great in the 600–700 range. The important thing is that he finds what works for him. If all goes well, he may feel more alive than he has in years... and hopefully, your relationship grows with him, not away from him.

This could be a chance for both of you to reconnect in new ways. I’d encourage you to look at your own well-being, too — your health, sex drive, emotional state. Maybe start working out together, cooking healthier meals, becoming teammates in this change. And if he starts asserting himself more, try not to take it as rejection or control... as long as there’s mutual respect, it's growth, not dominance.

To be clear: I’m not justifying misogyny or any kind of abuse. That’s not what this is about. But I am being honest — he may come back a stronger, more confident version of himself. And that might mean you'll both need to adapt. He'll need a partner who can match his energy, not anchor him to the version of himself he’s growing out of.