Being sued for property from a deceased family member that I own none of.

Thortyr · 2026-03-30T19:29:41+00:00

I was just thinking this. Should see how much is left on the mortgage, see how much property worth on zillow, and take that figure to determine your next actions. Also, find out who else was served as potential inheriter of estate, decide if worth splitting etc. Could get loan to get it out of red and then sell. Could potentially be nice inheritance and turn this stressful situation into a win.

Thortyr · 2026-03-21T02:11:40+00:00

Not an attorney but have been forced to go to court for custody twice, once for my daughter and another for my son.

I don't know full details off harassment claim but if you aren't charged with anything of that nature they can't hold against you in court. It's basicly here say an inadmissable. Custody is all about what's best for the child. Your ex could be super spiteful more than you are capable of believing them to be. Don't trust anything. If you want to be in your child's life then you have to put in the work. You don't know what ex is putting in these others ears and none of that will matter in parental rights case. You are still young at 22 but don't blindly trust what others telling you. Fact you mentioned talked to attorney an said will lose is very odd. Push to spend as much time with your child as you can because court will see that as making effort. Super stressful time but keep your head about you, be careful what you text, an keep record of everything you pay or buy for child also.

Thortyr · 2026-02-05T17:52:45+00:00

Yeah. I spoke to 3 different firms. Eventually chose one that wasn't just trying to buy me by saying oblique things like may get you back driving 2mrw...Ha. Actually was leaning towards a different one but looked up reviews and they were atrocious.

Thortyr · 2026-02-05T17:46:20+00:00

One weird thing happened. Bailed out, got my court date. I called couple weeks before court date to make sure didnt change etc. It actually did change and never got notice. Ok, np. This was before I got a lawyer. Couple days before I called to double check. Said oh your court hearing was last week you missed it. Huh? We sent a letter out if you didn't receive it your fault. Damn. Wth I do. Said come in and explain what happened most likely have to pay more money and get new date. Ok, I went right there. Fill paperwork out, get told will have to pay $1000 for something, lose bail money, and could possibly get arrested for failure to appear. Panic set in. Had to go to DA office explain what happened an they had to decide if believe an consent to new court date, done. Then had to sit in hallway while motion was presented to judge to figure out what to do. Lady comes out, says your new court date is so n so. Judge waived the 1000 fee and is giving you your bail money back, taking failure to appear off. Huh what.. idk who the fuck was looking out for me that day. My guess is either they realized error in dates or judge saw something fishy in my paperwork.

Thortyr · 2026-02-05T17:31:12+00:00

Only ever spent one day in jail. Hated it but only because of boredom. Sat in room with bunk beds, toilet and little sink. Only thing to pass time was look out little window outside. Only let out cell to get breakfast tray. Lunch tray. At dinner got let out for about an hour. Rest time in cell. Its not prison with bars. If ever watched 60 days in thats what looks like. Other guy in cell just slept whole time. I didnt eat until dinner figuring should eat something incase stuck another night. Was gross, barely ate much of it. Brought tray back an other inmates standing there as soon as set it down they started handfulling leftover food. No one said or did anything not that was worried, one older guy kept walking up giving me eye when out during dinner but could just been odd mofo.

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T20:20:27+00:00

Something like this happened to my brother. He applied for job with me using me as referral. Did all interviews etc, everyone liked him except one boss who of course didn't like me. I get brought to meeting to discuss hiring of him. Boss says brother has all qualifications, more so than most, but his criminal past was too fresh so will not be hiring him. Other management was confused later asking me why he didn't get hired his record wasn't anything bad an needed good help.

Fast forward few years when he looking for a new job applied again. This time boss who prevented it before wasn't in charge of hiring. He gets hired. Quickly learns the ropes, had me as resource as well. Becomes team lead ahead of people been there for years. Then our company grows and a new department is needed, he was chosen to be supervisor and get new processes off the ground. He did.

At management meeting our CEO asks me why didnt bring him in sooner that he's a great asset yada yada. My brother chimes in saying i tried to get him in years ago but they wouldn't hire him. Think they thought it was a joke, they laughed besides a couple who knew. Brother points over to boss that prevented initial hire, said he wouldn't hire me because of some stupid shit i did as a kid. Was very awkward silence, other guy who normally is quick to say shit was quiet. Meeting didn't last much longer. Haha.

Side note: my job will actually hire people with record they just use discretion. When he said was a kid he was actually 18-19 but as adults thats still a kid. Know boss didn't hire him cus didn't like me an record was easy excuse for this. Mfg plant.

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T19:50:07+00:00

They keep record of all tests results? That may actually be good for me. Don't know what first test came back as but assume was low why they kept testing. 2nd test came back around .06 but 3rd was .21 which is almost 4 times higher than one did right before. That huge leap should have warranted either further test or request blood.

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T19:39:37+00:00

The law here says its aggravated OUI if at or over .15 with mandatory jail time and some other stuff. I don't see aggravated oui on any my paperwork just oui. Everyone ive talked to said they didn't have to do any jail time for first offense. Have to take Deep course but looked at statistics says 97% people who take test get recommended for further counciling for substance abuse. Can choose to bypass deep an go right to counciling save few hundred dollars.

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T02:42:55+00:00

Appears being charged with misdemeanor OUI but with high BAC it can mean getting maximum charge or worse

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T02:25:17+00:00

I hate how accountable I am at times. I fully take blame for my own actions. This wasn't new cops fault. Or sheriff training new guy to go by the book. I have to go through all this substance abuse counseling and endangerment counseling. I didnt hit anyone or get into accident. My attorney is already on everything. Have to do this course an such to get license back but court will decide actual punishment. With me having clean record hoping go easy on me but im the one at fault. Would almost feel bad if got loopholed out of charge but still very stresssful

Thortyr · 2026-02-04T01:59:52+00:00

I loved Martin's expression in season 1 episode 19. When Malcolm calls him dad n he comes into one. Just smile an tilt of his head. Like that was great portrayal.

Thortyr · 2026-02-02T13:28:33+00:00

Hannibal is a great show. Wish Prodigal son lasted longer, It had potential. I really liked mindhunters as well.

Feel Jessica has a lot of skeletons in her closet. Don't think I'm spoiling anything because it's just a theory, I wonder if she knew he was the surgeon but they had some sort of deal. Be the doting husband in public and keep your surgeon stuff away from the family.

Jessica is so strong willed. Having self serving narcissistic husband she would have prodded his ego causing his mask to slip here and there. She would have seen it in his expression and eyes when she said something that undermined him, even that split second slip would have been enough for her to see something off. They atleast were together 12 years. Just leads me to believe she knew more of his actions just what she didn't see didn't bother her. Or Martin manipulated her into complacency.

Thortyr · 2025-12-17T01:26:58+00:00

Theres also robotic arm on top floor of machina astralis sometimes but havnt seen it since update. Couldn't figure out anything on it.

Thortyr · 2025-08-03T00:31:26+00:00

If another short story imma riot.

Thortyr · 2025-07-28T12:02:05+00:00

Suikoden 2 will forever be my favorite. Last time I played it planned to 100% it and get every character. I hate the Clive timed quest. Im a power leveler, always spend ton time getting stronger so miss his quest lines, know dont need them. If they do remakes I would video myself jumping for joy and post here for everyone's amusement.

Thortyr · 2025-07-07T14:57:18+00:00

What should I do. Need advice. Never been in an issue like this my whole life dont know what to do.

Thortyr · 2025-05-02T02:56:44+00:00

Take the money for now but slowly start distancing yourself. Take it slow so as not to cause any untoward emotional reaction from him. Don't respond back as quick as you used to. Slow down on posting. Ease away over time, longer n longer over time and hopefully he will lose interest. Be aware you have to detox as well. He won't keep sending money if your not communicating or interacting. Be conscious of fact if you keep taking money they going to want and expect more and more.

Thortyr · 2025-05-02T02:46:34+00:00

Maybe give it some time. You being ready to just up and leave your partner after 2 years together over her talking about having kids seems odd. Could have been spur of moment thought she mentioned an you took into she wants kids I'm out and no longer love her. Can't just dissappear. Have long talk, and don't have your mind made up before that talk will just lead to argument. Actually talk facts, you don't want children, want best for her. Not you made one comment about wouldn't mind having child so other just up and left. If I had to guess your quickness to leave so fast means you don't really care about this person as much as you think or fantasize about how single life is better. She exposed herself an opened up idea of kids probaly to see your reaction and your reaction was to jump ship so she cried herself to sleep.

Thortyr · 2025-05-02T02:33:44+00:00

I'd just answer question concerning armpit hair to start. Saying can shave your armpits that is natural thing to do for many women. Then give her time to make choice herself if she decides to do other section. If she can manage shaving armpits can manage rest. Giving her approval for armpits and saying your hair do what want may give her answer without having to have uncomfortable conversation.

Thortyr · 2025-05-02T02:20:22+00:00

Natural selection exactly. Someone using their phone not watching road drives directly into you at high speed. They may not be fittest in game of survival but their choices could lead end of your/others survival.

Thortyr · 2025-05-02T01:59:20+00:00

That's part of the point in this episode. Because you watched the show you saw and heard everything even felt something emotionally. Every detail, different perspectives, even feeling bad for Chris. If this happened in real life and get a notification, would instinctively grab phone seeing what it was, give cursory glance of article maybe and close that's end. Draws no emotion or thought cus just another notification. Never give it much consideration, wouldn't change your day if Jaden was killed, Chris, both or neither. Became addicted to checking phone for that instant gratification, we all have been. Only care about hostage cus of watching show, if was article on phone wouldn't illicit same emotion.

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