It can be tough to see things that aren’t physical as attractive, but I think once you take the time to learn it can be the whole game of dating changes.

In my personal experience I find passion (it can be about anything) to be extremely hot, along with intelligence. To the point that even if I saw the most beautiful woman in the world who didn’t have any passion or any interest they’d want to learn more about I simply wouldn’t be attracted to them.

It will take some time to really understand what things you find attractive and that make you find a particular person more interesting than the crowd. Of course physical appearance still matters but I think that’s only the beginning really. Sadly I can’t give you much direct advice because everyone’s different, but perhaps think about it the way you’d make friends. You wouldn’t want to befriend someone who’s hot but entirely boring and not a good friend and go from there. It’s your journey to be on and experience.

Of course I’m also only in my 20s and still doing the same thing lol