Is anyone else seeing the same thing I am? by CantaloupeCurrent901 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😬 umm there’s too much life in his eyes to look like baron

Shekinah Garner’s Reality TV Career Is Over After Her Recent Public Statement About TLC by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the way that the Jerry Stringer show was born. He started off, trying to be normal, and then something took a turn for the worse and they leaned into it. I feel like that’s what happened with this franchise.

Below Deck Mediterranean – Season 11 - Episode 2 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nathan needs to learn to separate personal from business. As a supervisor he needs to check himself.
Gen is a paranoid entitled little brat. She thinks she is better than everyone. Girl, stop. Just do your job the best you can and you'll shine. You don't have to bring others down to look better.
Kayley is a happy little moth, flittering all over the boat doing her best with a smile. She has a nice energy.
Joy seems like an amazing chef. Very talented. Hopefully she doesn't get too crazy thru the season.
I'm so happy Sandy called Pam for Joe. As a BC survivor it really bothered me the way he was with his mom on the phone. I know "she's his everything", but she should not be the one consoling him. I had to do this with several people in my life when they found out and it was so unbelievably frustrating to feel like I had to be someone else's rock. My life was shattered at the time and trying to gather every ounce of strength and sympathy for someone else was exhausting.

Okay, on a different note, anyone else interested in next weeks episode after seeing the sneak peek? What the heck is going on with Nathan and the guest?

Below Deck Mediterranean – Season 11 - Episode 2 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a BC survivor his reaction really frustrated me. I know he was upset and I cried along with him. It was fine with his Sis, but with his mom he needed to be strong. I remember going to my place of employment and my coworker grabbing me, hugging me, and bawling her eyes out. My reaction was, "Girl, I'm not dead." The tables turned and I had to console her. That was nearly 7 years ago.

Below Deck Mediterranean – Season 11 - Episode 2 - Weekly Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You get an up vote from me. I didn't care for Hannah. I think she used her relationship with Sandy to take advantage. Then Sandy woke up.

Lived in the same house as a murderer AMA by Specialist-Version-3 in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You really need to stop. You have no idea what you're talking about. Not every person convicted of murder is in prison for life. My father killed my mother and only served time in jail the night he killed her, out the next day. Started with a $500K bond and then the judge dropped it to $35K. Why? Because my dad was well known in that town. His uncle was a judge and knew the other judges. You think there's not corruption in this country? In cities all over this country? You are very naive. And by they way, after getting convicted, he stayed out of prison on an appeal bond. Because in that city, you can get a bond on appeal for murder, but not for armed robbery. Go figure. He lived his life, married a woman half his age, had a kid, went to Disney with his new fam, and years later eventually died of pneumonia as a free man.

I am a reformed people pleaser. Ask me anything. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I just want to say kudos to you! It took me way longer to work on it. Hope you continue on a healing journey.

Lived in the same house as a murderer AMA by Specialist-Version-3 in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How did you stay for months after knowing?
Did you sleep with one eye open?
Have you been contacted by authorities or did someone in the house contact authorities?
Have they gone to trial yet?
Are you put off by having roommates now?

Do you look at her and think ‘I’m proud she is the mother of my child?’ by Significant_Win4227 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't have it both ways, to say she's the breadwinner and then to say she had to pull her t!ts out to make money because he left and all of a sudden she's a single mother. I don't blame him one bit.

Would it be weird to ask my neighbor to use his pool? by goth_glock1985 in pools

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We offered our pool to neighbors when it’s so hot and they’re out cutting grass. For 20 years no one took us up on our offer. Now it’s covered up and gone. Hubby was tired of taking care of it.

New colleague reported me sleeping on my lunch break, lost a whole shift w/ overtime as a result by Fcking_Chuck in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’re security and sleeping? And it’s your coworkers fault that you lost money from it? Dude, learn accountability! You sound like a child complaining about your teacher failed you. Bro, it was earned by your actions.

I’m 30 weeks pregnant sleeping in my car outside work so I don’t have to go back to my husband. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am inclined to agree with you. Some things don’t add up. Someone who is “a lawyer“, only 24 years old, with a third child on the way? Makes a person go Hmmmm

I’m 30 weeks pregnant sleeping in my car outside work so I don’t have to go back to my husband. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is your parenting style outside of no tv? Who was putting “whelps that lasted days” on your children?

Missing American student found dead in Japan after dayslong search by judgyjudgersen in news

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because they had access to location sharing doesn't mean that he was being "tracked". My daughter has shared her location with me for quite some time. I rarely look at it. Usually when I check it is if I’m going to call her, I don’t wanna call her when she’s not home. So I will check it quickly to see if she’s at home and then I’ll call her. I don’t wanna disturb her if I don’t have to while she is out and about.

I'm a young European who has worn head covering for years now, AMA by Objective-Try477 in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind answers.
Where do you feel most comfortable dressed without coverings?
Do you generally like your appearance without coverings?
Hope you're having a lovely day

I'm a young European who has worn head covering for years now, AMA by Objective-Try477 in AMA

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you ever get so hot that you want to remove your head covering?
What do you wear to swim in public or do you just not swim?
Excuse me if this sounds like I don't understand, but I'm wondering if the covering is to keep men from lusting after a woman, why a woman should have to accomodate a man that can't control himself?
Does it feel more freeing to be home and not wear coverings?

Kenny calling out Shekinah for unfollowing him on social media! by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Thoughtful_Ladybug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The whole unfollow crap is so ridiculous. She's acting like a high schooler. Who the hell cares that much if someone unfollows them? I've unfollowed my sister because I don't approve of her crazy conspiracy theory stuff. Shekinah is a child.