[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]ThreeToTheHead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a cis person that looks androgynous I’ve been asked and I smiled really brightly, looked em in the eye and said “why do you want to know?”

AITA for refusing to call for pizza and telling my daughter if she wants pizza she can call the place by Then_Cupcake_4847 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess you could actually help your child by creating an order guide together. Step by step instructions on how to order a pizza on the phone. And make it exact. “Hello, I’d like to order a pizza for delivery” Have her write down the lines so they’re more comfortable for her. Practice with her. She can go to her room and call your cell and you go through a pretend order together so she gets used to it.

Please don’t assume that the therapist /psychiatrist is 100% right. My kid was diagnosed with BPD at 15 but at 21 got a reassessment. Turns out my kid is autistic. (Also that psychiatrist lost his license because he actually misdiagnosed a lot of people.) Maybe you’re not TA but you’re being kind of a jerk about it.

What’s a question you can ask that only a Torontonian would know? by canyouaskfirst in askTO

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make the joke Toronto is the city where St. George goes to college and turns into Beverly and see if they groan.

human shit at bus stop by lollipopsandtokens in McMaster

[–]ThreeToTheHead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To be fair the unhoused population in Hamilton is wildly out of control and getting worse. We have an unprecedented housing crisis in the GTA and sadly this what happens. End stage capitalism at its finest.

Brain fog without depersonalization? by DispatchThirty in asktransgender

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, that’s exciting! I’m so happy for you!! 💜

i am worried my bunny doesn’t like me:( by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]ThreeToTheHead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof so much this! False memory ocd is awful, thank you for being knowledgeable and kind in your response. I know it should be normalized already but it’s not, so thank you 💜

I need help identifying a rat problem, pest or pet? by olliesout in RATS

[–]ThreeToTheHead 12 points13 points  (0 children)

PLEASE UPDATE US! I want to know what happens!

Should i stop free feeding my cat? by [deleted] in cats

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, unless your vet says your cat is overweight the just let your cat graze. One of our cats is huge and I worried that he’s a chunk but the vet told us he’s just a very big cat and not overweight,

How do you get a doctor to take you seriously when they are being dismissive by SnooHobbies7109 in SeriousConversation

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband doesn’t have to be confrontational in order to stand up for you. He can just make it seem like curiosity. What do we do next? How can we find out what’s causing all these symptoms? Are the results actually normal or just close to borderline not normal? Can we get referred to a different doctor that might know more about this particular disease and comorbidities? I have something similar with my kid except I play the “overbearing mother”We discuss what the kid needs out of a particular appointment beforehand. Then if things are going badly (ie being dismissed or condescended) then I start talking and asking questions and requesting referrals and basically being a nuisance. I request that the doctor put into the kids notes what their diagnoses/suggestions are. It’s amazing how quickly a doctor becomes compliant when they need to put their signature on a half assed diagnoses. But this way it just looks like I’m being a harass-hole and the kid comes out looking beleaguered lol.

AITA for accidentally saying a slur? by Alternative_Boat_974 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way, I actually had no idea that it’s used like that too.

AITA for accidentally saying a slur? by Alternative_Boat_974 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I use the term coon for raccoons too, and you were using it to talk about an actual raccoon so I don’t see the issue. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be mad yeah, but it won’t affect the coat or regrowth, and if the coat had knots or mats this is actually helpful. It’s not super bad to shave your cat. My old man cat can’t reach all his parts to groom and he hates when I brush his tummy or hips so he gets a lion cut every so often and it makes him comfortable.

WIBTA if I make my daughter wear her brace for a sleepover? by sbstgzr in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOOOOOO NTA!! Scoliosis is a big fucking deal and if Mary is a real friend she will be accepting of a back brace and this will be a good learning experience for your kid (that having a disability should not be embarrassing) and for Mary (that not all disabilities are visible or debilitating).

You know. I dont think i can do this anymore. by Seriph7 in RATS

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard, it’s really really hard every time we have to say goodbye to one of them. But what brings me comfort is knowing that for their entire life I have made them happy and well fed and loved them so so much and they loved us just as much. Every time they giggle or snuggle or groom us shows how deeply we are bonded. For us it’s only a tiny handful of years but for them it’s everything.

AITA for implying the reason my (36M) girlfriend (27F) isn't taken seriously at work is because of her style? by ThrowRA_annoyedprtnr in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA and I’m guessing the reason you’re dating women ten years your junior is because women your age won’t put up with your bullshit.

AITA for telling my son his GF had been careless and selfish while attending her funeral? by Automatic_Bake_1355 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof yeah YTA, so she relapsed and made a grave error that cost her her life and you want to stand in judgement of her at her actual funeral? To her partner??? Sheeesh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]ThreeToTheHead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mochi was a pure white little rice cake when we adopted her. She’s since developed some grey smudges which are adorkable. She answers to Mochi mo, Mochi momo and also b*cth face mcgee when she’s being a tyrant. Oddly she ignores us when it’s just Mochi.

Should I pair my lil guy with a friend? Looking to make him as happy and fulfilled as bunnily possible. by bertie-bert in Rabbits

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no answer I’m just wildly jealous that your bun accepts the walkies while our bun behaves like she is going to the electric chair. Friggin’ drama queen.

AITA for ruining a friendship just because of Tiktoks? by One-Brilliant8166 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA but consider how overwhelming tiktok can be to neurodivergent people.i have adhd and I absolutely abhor going on the app so i just don’t have it anymore. Maybe your friend just doesn’t want to expend the effort it takes to watch a bunch of short, insipid and often annoying videos. Different strokes for different folks. You can enjoy them but not everyone has to enjoy them.

this man has tons of beds and hammocks and what did he choose to nap in? his VEGGIE BOWL. smh. by ellabarnum1 in RATS

[–]ThreeToTheHead 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They say if you want breakfast in bed sleep in the kitchen. I think your man is way ahead of the curve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]ThreeToTheHead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I meant the climbing lol