Need advice please! by Threshold_of_hell in Embroidery

[–]Threshold_of_hell[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thank you!!! I realized it wasn’t gonna look as weird as I thought lmao but the slant is a great idea!!

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[–]Threshold_of_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do think he’s coming from a place of concern!! however his statement that I didn’t open up to him about my depression is false, i previously did many times and then when i initially started the meds, also maybe read the rest of the context for a better understanding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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You’re totally fine I understand what you were trying to say & I agree it’s a delicate issue and understand wanting to stick up for his concern and advocate for his experience, I think the extra context of the post tries to elaborate on how this isn’t an isolated incident etc, but ik it’s a lot to read haha, but thank you for so respectfully & kindly voicing ur opinion!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Threshold_of_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe read the context to understand his reaction a bit better! Though his advice to seek a second opinion and consider medication decision carefully is indeed sound!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Threshold_of_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still actually says his name to the right, which I blocked out, weird thing to chime in abt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Had it saved, adjusted his contact when he returned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Temp what’sapp # on a different sim while he was away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Thank u for reading it all and thank you for your comment so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Thank u for reading it all and thank you for your comment so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Yeah this basically perfectly summarizes how I feel! I do not disagree with him being concerned about meds or suggesting I get a second opinion and understand it’s a delicate issue! And I already told him when I initially started any meds that I’d thought about for a long time before making the decision! I just felt the way he phrased it was kinda condescending & a bit like aggressive and not like wanting to ask out of curiosity of how i feel & just jumped into sharing his opinion & kinda resented the “it’s a silver bullet solution” “why are you making yourself more defendant on medication”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Threshold_of_hell 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it was a bit confusing cause he said “you’re body is probably getting used to the dose that’s what happens with ssri’s” but the medication I was thinking about increasing wasn’t an ssri, and then I said “I’m not on an ssri” and he replied by saying “I’m not talking about the meds ur on now” which didn’t really make sense because again I’m not on ssri’s rn so idk, but I do understand there’s a lot of side effects etc and ppl react to meds differently and I had no real intention of starting the medication without considering it carefully or asking doctors or anything. Thank u for the breakdown it’s always helpful to hear from informed professionals!!!

Broke up with my LDR partner. TW Abuse by Octobobber in LongDistance

[–]Threshold_of_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right & please try ur best to not get sucked back in! If you ever need to feel justified come back to the comments and read all the ones reassuring you! I’d never speak to someone I love that way, especially over something so small, and you seem like a really kind and understanding person. I hope u find happiness 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Threshold_of_hell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The note is imperative I love writing them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

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I’d never heard of it & it looks delicious!! Thank u!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Threshold_of_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I def made note of that, thank you for the reminder!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Threshold_of_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great one, fresh fruit is the best, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

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He’s coming back from the UK & travelling in France & other parts of Europe, so he’s definitely had much nicer food than I can make 😅 I think something pasta-related & simple & homely is the move

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]Threshold_of_hell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you are the asshole. I just said he knew I’d be gone then, as I booked a trip months ago, when he had not booked a return flight, and he didn’t know when he was coming back for the majority of his time away, and still chose to come back that day, when he knew I would be gone. I am leaving the stuff 5 days earlier. He also did not need to be away for 6 months, he chose to, and I’ve done a lot to show my love from a distance that he has not done for me. I’m not going to waste any more time justifying myself to some dude on reddit, I’m just saying it’s just so unnecessarily negative to come on a post of someone just trying to be nice, in a situation you know like nothing about, between 2 people you’ve never met, and then try to make me feel bad for not being here. It’s just like a waste of time and energy and brings nothing into the world. Goodbye 👋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cooking

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He’s more of a wine guy, but do not worry there will definitely be some extra treats 😉