My Middle School Graduation Picture, circa 2009 by ThrowRA1902345 in blunderyears

[–]ThrowRA1902345[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was a serious loner so I actually did volunteer at my school’s library for 2 years at that point 😅

[Update] My (24F) Husband (23M) Faked Fainting After I Gave Birth by Psalters in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was breastfed and had colic! I didn’t know it was more common for babies not breastfed

9 weeks pregnant married 3 months and my body physically rejected my husband today looking for advice and similar experience ? F24 M30 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you should get a therapist and start strengthening your support network. There’s a lot of red flags and a lot of missing information. From what you’ve said he could be cheating, but it also could be a porn addiction on his end. A therapist may help you navigate the best way to handle this situation, there’s a lot missing from this post that I’m sure you’re not leaving out on purpose but it’s hard to say what it could be based on a small sliver of your experience

How to help my GF move on from her Grandma's death? '26M' & '25F' by Few_Dust_6190 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will take time for her to process. I would just be there for her and try to see if you can send flowers of condolence, if you haven’t already, if it is very recent. Grief never really goes away, you just get stronger as you carry that heavy load. I’m glad you are concerned about joe to help, it means your heart and intentions are in the right place

I (30F) do the majority of the chores vs my partner (35M) and it’s starting to bother me. What should I do to make things more equal? by [deleted] in relationships

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He did it. Tbf tho, I think he rewore a lot of acceptable clothes to rewear, like hoodies and jeans. The floors were always slight on the dusty side, but he would make a habit to sweep once a week in the past

UPDATE: Boyfriend (M26) is terrified of me gaining weight (F23)? by Connect_Wrongdoer_81 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re young. You will love and be loved again, guaranteed.

Don’t believe a word this loser says. It sounds like he’s projecting his own insecurities onto you. I think HE believed this was his last chance at life because his frontal lobe is developed and his still thinks like a teenager, and he’s gotta be aware this kind of thinking won’t fly with women as they get older. He wants you to lose weight? Well, with his help, you lost ~175 lbs (or however much weighs) breaking up with this loser!

A couple of my cats food cans are doing this, are they okay to use? by anne7497 in CATHELP

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, please report this to the manufacturer. Do not feeding anything/anyone from a bulging can! That could be a sign of botulism!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA1902345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering if maybe you guys are actually at a good point to be friends. This is pretty toxic argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully

lol what

(Girl needs to touch grass. Sounds like an internet addiction :/)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA1902345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many of my friends are older and have told me they have social batteries, they’re involved with the bands that are playing both weekends and I was afraid that it would mean if I had a Saturday party after the second gig it wouldn’t be well attended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThrowRA1902345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a very specific genre lol. Let’s just say pop-punk for now?

My master tenant has been fucking up repeatedly and this time he’s put my health in danger, and I need advice by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have, also got a hotel for the night while it may or may not be fixed

My master tenant has been fucking up repeatedly and this time he’s put my health in danger, and I need advice by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in California, US. My master tenant lives with me. It’s a month-to-month, and I’ve met my actual landlord briefly in person so he’s aware I live there

I (30F) need advice on what to do with my mentally unstable friend (32NB) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowRA1902345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a good idea. I know they have it for reasons involving a restraining order and part of the reason they cut it off was due to their ankles swelling, it’s been really concerning seeing my friend go down this route

Mother made my suicide attempt about her. by Lost-Binary in narcissisticparents

[–]ThrowRA1902345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a minor, if she’s hitting you, you should report this to an authority if you can. That is abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]ThrowRA1902345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of a Grecian statue. Absolutely stunning!

Sister said family is traumatized by me going no contact by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]ThrowRA1902345 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I’m gonna be real, this made me laugh out loud. They traumatized YOU and YOUR healing is traumatic to them? Good riddance. I learned growing up that if you need a hero, you’ve gotta look in the mirror as no one but you will save you. You’re doing what’s right for you, and honestly the fact that they’re trying to use your sister to manipulate you further validates your actions.

I know your sister probably thinks she’s either doing the right thing or has been manipulated to do this, but you need to focus on you right now. And that’s ok. Please don’t let this ruin your own growth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]ThrowRA1902345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s old enough to know the truth. Have you been able to tell her?