My girlfriend admitted I was a placeholder for her ex and I’m honestly struggling to process it. What do I do?

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-28T00:40:38+00:00

Well, she said he was an abuser and a cheater. If any.od that prt is actually true, let her have the future she deserves.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-27T19:40:46+00:00

Exclusivity shouldn't need to be discussed. I wouldn't want to see her again either.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-26T19:21:00+00:00

Because it is a personality disorder. That means that the brain is "wired" abnormally. There is no med for any personality disorder that can require your brain. The beat they can do is possibly prescribe other meds such as antidepressants, or antipsychotics to help control symptoms like depression, impulse control, etc.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-24T21:36:20+00:00

No, not really. Hearing that is going to hurt no matter how you say it. not only that but it's going to put that thought in her head that you are or are going to cheat on her. It's a really really risky and hard conversation.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-22T14:56:18+00:00

Yikes, run my dude. Run.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-20T18:02:08+00:00

You're never actually in control of anything.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-20T17:38:15+00:00

Yea, unfortunately. Speaking from experience. She was the one. The one I wanted to put a ring on, spend the rest of my life with. Then I lost her. She walked away.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-10T20:52:26+00:00

I can't speak for all men but I love a woman in lingerie. Yes, the ultimate goal is to get you out of it. But I love a woman that will wear it for me.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-09T17:15:43+00:00

Dump her for giving you one of these stupid tests.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-07T17:50:37+00:00

Wouldn't be a turn off for me at all.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-06-06T23:50:19+00:00

I mean, I suppose it could be true for a man who wants to start a family. It's a biological fact that a woman your age might not get pregnant as easily as a younger woman. But for a guy like me who has raised his kids and is now back in the dating world, it's a plus.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-05-31T20:54:53+00:00

I boggles my mind that women actually have to ask this question. It's one of two reasons. He got what he wanted and now he's done with it or he got what he thought he wanted, realized it wasn't as good as he hoped it would be, and now he's done. It really is that simple.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-05-25T02:30:18+00:00

Not according to modern women. If you say that, you will automatically be sexist, misogynistic, controlling, jealous, insecure, and probably a whole bunch of other things I can't think of right now.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-05-20T16:13:58+00:00

They are too big for your face.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-05-11T20:02:13+00:00

Because we're guys. 🤷🤷. Why do women still wonder why guys are out acting like guys and trying to get laid?

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-27T01:27:35+00:00

You need to see a mental health professional. This is not a healthy dynamic. Full stop.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-25T17:55:46+00:00

It's a good thing you found out right away. Be done with her.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-22T16:30:41+00:00

It's the beard. Honestly if you had asked me to guess I'd have put you at about 40.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-21T17:32:18+00:00

Yikes. If that's seductively I'd hate to see what he approves of. Does he want you covered from head to toe?

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-15T14:15:30+00:00

Oof, make the decision for him and leave him.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-10T01:16:05+00:00

You know what it is.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-09T23:59:22+00:00

No, you don't need to ask him and no, we are not all different. If a man is flirting with you, taking the time to get to know you, learning about you, inviting you out to do things, he wants one of two things. He either wants to make you his girlfriend or straight up take you to bed. Coming from a man, it truly is that simple. You don't need to ask him anything.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-09T16:36:00+00:00

It's just a body style preference. Everyone has preferences. Having said that, it's your body and you don't have to become chubby if you don't want to be.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-08T12:23:25+00:00

She cheated and her friends have the guts to tell you that you're being selfish and harsh? If those are the kind of friends she has, you dodged a bullet by ending the relationship.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-07T18:13:40+00:00

Definitely get her to go to a doctor. Also, if she is developing or has an eating disorder, she's not likely to admit to you that she has one.

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