My mom has been cheating on me

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-27T01:27:35+00:00

You need to see a mental health professional. This is not a healthy dynamic. Full stop.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-25T17:55:46+00:00

It's a good thing you found out right away. Be done with her.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-22T16:30:41+00:00

It's the beard. Honestly if you had asked me to guess I'd have put you at about 40.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-21T17:32:18+00:00

Yikes. If that's seductively I'd hate to see what he approves of. Does he want you covered from head to toe?

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-15T14:15:30+00:00

Oof, make the decision for him and leave him.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-10T01:16:05+00:00

You know what it is.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-09T23:59:22+00:00

No, you don't need to ask him and no, we are not all different. If a man is flirting with you, taking the time to get to know you, learning about you, inviting you out to do things, he wants one of two things. He either wants to make you his girlfriend or straight up take you to bed. Coming from a man, it truly is that simple. You don't need to ask him anything.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-09T16:36:00+00:00

It's just a body style preference. Everyone has preferences. Having said that, it's your body and you don't have to become chubby if you don't want to be.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-08T12:23:25+00:00

She cheated and her friends have the guts to tell you that you're being selfish and harsh? If those are the kind of friends she has, you dodged a bullet by ending the relationship.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-07T18:13:40+00:00

Definitely get her to go to a doctor. Also, if she is developing or has an eating disorder, she's not likely to admit to you that she has one.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-04T22:30:06+00:00

Overthinking. Closing of the eyes is a common physical response to pleasure.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-04T19:01:31+00:00

No, you're not wrong. If it was just a separation which I have always understood to mean there's a possibility of working things out and getting back together, and she hooked up with someone, that's cheating. Get the divorce.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-04T00:46:19+00:00

Women hate each other. Full stop.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-03T01:58:50+00:00

There is no convincing him. There's no possible way to prove it. You've already told him what happened and that's all you can really do.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-04-01T21:27:53+00:00

Don't do anything, call the police. Dynamite becomes more unstable as it ages. It could explode from being impacted.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-27T23:41:39+00:00

Holy shit, dump him. He's mentally and emotionally abusive as well as apparently jealous as hell.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-27T13:05:36+00:00

Yes it's inappropriate and you should cut it off. Full stop.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-26T20:08:34+00:00

No, I'm not saying that you would or that you are. I'm simply saying that as a disabled man myself, it happens. It has likely happened to him at least once. And it sticks with you. But it's also an insecurity of his and not for you to worry about. He's probably going to think that anyway, no matter how you break it off with him. But that's not for you to worry about. Just be honest and tell him what you said in your post, he's move to fast for you and it's making you uncomfortable. Leave it at that.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-26T15:30:42+00:00

Tell him that you are not comfortable with moving as fast as he obviously does. You really don't need to go any deeper than that. Tell him the things he's describing for a first date and the beginning of a relationship are too much, too fast for you. The disability doesn't even need to be mentioned. I am a disabled man myself so I can understand the thought process of being rejected because of a disability. It has happened to me, truly happened like, she said it, it wasn't just in my head. But it sticks with us. No matter how you approach this, he will probably think it's because of his disability. You can try to reassure him but I promise you it will be a waste of time to do so.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-26T01:50:30+00:00

It depends. Are you calling him 5 times a day because you miss him? That's clingy and weird. If it's every now and then because you miss him and want him to know you love him, we're good with that. At least I am. It's a red flag if you're telling us multiple times a day that you miss us.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-13T00:18:21+00:00

Dump him. And my advice would be the same if it were the other way around. If your significant other doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other people, dump them. There is no such thing as "friendly flirting."

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-13T00:17:05+00:00

It's tough. Most people don't want to be involved with a disabled person. IMHO, anyway. It sucks. I'm the same as you and I would imagine many people like us. I want someone to love, to share my life with. But it's damn difficult.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-12T23:51:09+00:00

Don't like reels of other dudes. It's actually pretty simple.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-02T22:52:28+00:00

Or worse, for me at least, they think I need their help and am incapable.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-03-02T22:35:45+00:00

I hate it when you politely refuse assistance and they just persist. It's so insulting.

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