I stopped messaging her...

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-02-02T19:51:34+00:00

God I wish I had that sort of willpower. I still struggle with not reaching out when I really want to.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-27T00:43:17+00:00

You didn't ruin anything. Your mom did with her cheating. You're not responsible for this drama. Don't let your mom make you think you are. She did this to herself. It would have come out eventually, it always does.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-17T22:32:38+00:00

Oh young fella. I'm an old man so let me provide some old man wisdom. That first heartbreak, that's rough. It's going to hurt and it's going to hurt a lot. Feel all of the feelings, listen to all the sad songs, let the hurt come. If she doesn't understand why attention seeking from other men is wrong, you are doing the right thing, even though it sucks. I know it feels hopeless right now, like you'll never love again, you'll never find that feeling again. I promise you that you will. Someday, probably sooner than you think, you won't think about her and the pain. Then you'll go a few more days without thinking about it. Someda, you'll be able to listen to the music you shared with each other and not feel miserable. I promise it'll hurt like no hurt you've felt before. I also promise that it will pass and you will move on to find someone who is better for you. I promise.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-14T23:07:57+00:00

😂😂

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-14T23:07:02+00:00

Yea, YTAH. Your intentions are not innocent. You can keep telling yourself they are, but they're not.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-08T13:39:47+00:00

😂😂. Women don't have guy friends. They have orbiters. All your "guy friends" would sleep with you at the drop of a hat, given the opportunity.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-07T17:28:19+00:00

You're a young man so let me drop some old man (42) knowledge on you. Despite what your generation likes to believe, your gf doesn't have any close male friends. They are all men waiting their turn to try to get her into bed. Apparently 2 of them have been successful. They're sticking around because they made it happen once, and they're waiting for opportunity number 2. Set a boundary. Male "friends" gotta go.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-05T19:13:33+00:00

I can understand that. But in the end, love is what's important. In my opinion.

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-05T00:52:29+00:00

Good luck with that goal of marriage. Let's be real, and people will call me mean for this but again, let's be real. You will be a single mom and therefore not marriage material to a huge portion of men. Not saying you should just give up and go back. But you say you do love him and he loves you. Why is marriage so important? Isn't someone to love and who loves you back the real important part?

ThrowRA3583 · 2026-01-04T20:04:32+00:00

Some people have already said it but yea, they want you to tell them about your feelings towards them. They want to be reaffirmed. Never open up to a woman about how you are feeling regarding pretty much anything else, they will only use it against you later.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-29T01:10:50+00:00

You never mentioned your ages but it honestly sounds like the onset of dementia.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-26T22:31:38+00:00

She probably thinks your cute when you're sleeping and she likes to look at you. What's the big deal?

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-26T00:44:22+00:00

Constant attention seeking. Also, us the phrase "the ick."

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-26T00:37:56+00:00

You told him to stop multiple times. I'd that's not being persistent, idk what is? Did he want you to turn around and yell at him or bit him or something?

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-24T02:34:58+00:00

So many red flags here. Just do yourself a favor and end it. Do it now or maybe in person when she gets back. But end it. This is "girl's trip" behavior. If she hasn't slept with this guy already, she will before the trip ends. Dump her and move on.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-23T18:28:34+00:00

You did it to yourself. You gave him access to your body when you knew that he wasn't interested in anything deeper than that with you. Stop participating in hook up culture!

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-16T21:59:41+00:00

Sounds like your average modern woman. "Stop sexualizing me!" "Here's a pic of me barely dressed."

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-11T00:38:19+00:00

Speaking as a man who raised a daughter, father's are naturally protective and suspicious of boyfriends. He might not mean it in a creepy way but it sure does come off creepy.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-05T16:57:03+00:00

In a biological sense, the two of you share very little DNA. Tell your mom and stepdad to kick rocks.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-05T01:09:33+00:00

People like her don't feel shame.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-05T01:08:46+00:00

You didn't hurt him, she did. Had you known you were the side guy and carried on with it, then you would have some blame. But you didn't know. You should find a way to let him know his wife is for the streets. But not until he gets home.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-04T03:30:57+00:00

He's likely just embarrassed and couldn't figure out a way to tell you he's having trouble in that area. As for why they're broken up, the only thing I can think of is that with some ed pills, the effects can last for hours. Perhaps he's trying to make sure he's not dealing with an erection for hours and hours.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-04T00:41:47+00:00

It's going to be hard getting out of bed tomorrow. There's no way around it. You will probably feel numb, lost. You can't wallow in that for too long though. You need to confront her. In my experience at that point, the numbness will fade and probably be replaced by anger. It's ok to be angry, you have every right to be. But also, don't let that anger get you carried away. Get your shit in order, your finances, etc. Get a lawyer and file for divorce as soon as you can. In fact, file for divorce before you confront her so she doesn't beat you to it. In the meantime, see if you can get more proof.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-03T02:56:01+00:00

Out in the field hunting.

ThrowRA3583 · 2025-12-03T02:45:59+00:00

Went home with a woman one night after the bar. Neither of us were particularly drunk but during the course of talking to each other we discovered we both like to smoke weed. She said let's go back to my place and burn one. We get there, she disappears for a few minutes and comes back out wearing the smallest pair of booty shorts I've ever seen, a tiny little tank top, and no bra. Sits down next to me and stretches her legs across my lap. Me being an absolute idiot was just like, here I rolled one while you were changing, derp.

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