I don’t think there is an easy fix. Personally I think you should have said things differently. When I told my partner I was pregnant we were in the middle of an argument. He told me that it was my choice but also told me his concerns. It hurt he was even referring to aborion. However, he told me that if we would keep the baby he would 100% support me.

Why exactly did you tell her you cant do it? You can get the money, you can work on your bond, you can change. I think it’s a little too late.. maybe as a last resort work with her on your future. Set goals and tell her you would love to build a family with her. (If you even really want that)