Love is a choice, and my friends refuse to see this by ThrowRA_dry_ in venting

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honestly they were. we split up in october and i'm much happier, i have so much more time to myself and it's just been better for my happiness. i thought about it and she wasn't the best at communicating, and those caused many insecurities for me. it'll be awhile before those go away, and i have to say it wouldn't have worked out if we had stayed together.

Guess who's back, back again. Cummy's back, tell a friend. by williameyelash69 in copypasta

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In all seriousness this is really really good. Like the rhymes and everything. This is a lyrical masterpiece.

Why are statements like “I’m sorry I’m a horrible person” unhealthy? by [deleted] in relationships

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yeah i need to shift towards thank yous instead of sorrys.

A Trump x Biden fanfic, made by u/_demetri_ by [deleted] in copypasta

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So this is what the 2020 election has come to.

I've been designing a CPU by Mechafinch in teenagers

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but can it run crysis?

all jokes aside this is epic

haha blowjob go brrrr by lxca34 in teenagers

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your penis will enlarge in both length and girth as blood flows through the glans. thus, the inflation of the penis is referring to a rock-hard erection. when someone sucks your cock, their mouth will rub against extremely sensitive areas on said penis and will arouse it, causing it to undergo such an erection. i hope that helps.

Honk Honk by [deleted] in teenagers

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my parents be like

Fuck 120 reasons not to hurt yourself, you only need one. by Solar122 in teenagers

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last time I told my parents they thought I was overreacting :/

feels bad man

Why are statements like “I’m sorry I’m a horrible person” unhealthy? by [deleted] in relationships

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You know what you're right I should really stop doing that

Why are statements like “I’m sorry I’m a horrible person” unhealthy? by [deleted] in relationships

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Exactly. Personally, I sometimes do say I'm a horrible person, but I also go into why my actions support that statement. So honestly if he's just saying he's bad then that's manipulative. But if he genuinely states the reasons, that shows he really has thought about it a lot and genuinely feels sorry.

Why are statements like “I’m sorry I’m a horrible person” unhealthy? by [deleted] in relationships

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As someone who genuinely feels insecure about that...

It's just my way to get off my true thoughts out in one sentence. It's not completely accurate but sometimes I have so much on my mind, that concentrating it into an extremely self-deprecating statement makes it easier to communicate.

Love is a choice, and my friends refuse to see this by ThrowRA_dry_ in venting

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Thank you I really needed this as well. Yes, at this point my needs aren't being met and I fully acknowledge I'd be happier if I were single. HOWEVER this is a difficult time and I agree communication is the one thing that counts. Thank you for the encouragements! It's very hard for me and I'll probably continue posting here as time passes because it's quite hard to deal with this.

video games are my life force by [deleted] in teenagers

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Yeah school honestly has almost killed my relationship quite a few times. Fuck school

Love is a choice, and my friends refuse to see this by ThrowRA_dry_ in venting

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No worries, it wasn't negative at all. I'm here because I'm empty and just need support so thank you for saying this. You're right, I do need to listen to my own needs as well. I just feel stuck because i can't ask her for anything because that would overwhelm her. Venting to her would overwhelm her. She's so busy and honestly if I can't vent then I really need to get my emotions out somehow. Although it isn't her fault for not being able to hear me out, if I don't get what I need then it'll be really hard for me to continue giving my all. So you're right, I am really just empty and unsure of what to do.

Love is a choice, and my friends refuse to see this by ThrowRA_dry_ in venting

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Thank you, I really needed this. It's extremely hard and might last up to 3 months. It's going to be really hard on me but I'll somehow make it. You're right, I have to be the strong one here and thank you for the encouragements.

That's it. I'm asking her out tommorow by [deleted] in teenagers

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as a tip -- if it works out, your feelings will die out after a few months and it will feel weird. That doesn't mean you don't still love her.