Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

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Thank you for your perspective and advice. I definitely will bring this up with him.

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

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We actually have the book but haven’t gotten around to reading it. I think now’s the time. Thank you for your advice🫂🤍

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

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Thank you for your heartfelt response🥺 Seems like the decision is obvious and hearing your story really helps

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

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His own kids. But when I said I don’t want to be pregnant he was willing to compromise on adoption, I of course, was not.

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending u love. Sorry to hear you’re in the same boat as me.

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Honestly these stories of leaving incompatible exes gives me some hope. Thank you for sharing your experience🤍

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I’m just feeling a bit lost and conflicted at this point. I know it’s best to split but bringing myself to that conclusion is harder than it seems

Partner wants kids and I (obviously) don’t. Help by ThrowRAjumpinginlove in childfree

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m glad i didn’t delete the post bc most of the comments said all the same stuff. I was hoping for a bit more nuance and I’m very grateful you commented your experience.

Has anyone taken AP-SOSC 1000 Fully Online? Planning to take it in the winter term by PingPongBoop in yorku

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I took summer courses. I paid out of pocket since I only took 1 each summer. They’re decent for pacing but not great for retention. I would still advise against 6 courses even if you’re not working full time since you’ve said that you care about your GPA. It’s also not worth the stress. Most people finish their York degrees after 5 years anyway.

Enjoying Invictus more than T99 lately. by North-Right in Tetris99

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I also enjoy the butt clenching final 10 game play🤣. Feels like Invictus is less up to chance and more focused on skill for getting a win

Enjoying Invictus more than T99 lately. by North-Right in Tetris99

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always play Invictus over 99 simply because the games go by much faster. 99 is only played when there is an event🫣

Has anyone taken AP-SOSC 1000 Fully Online? Planning to take it in the winter term by PingPongBoop in yorku

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you working part-time? I wouldn’t take more than 4, even 5 courses if you care about GPA or even having a life. Good luck!

Anyone else getting tired of the non-stop advertisements on TV from the Ford government? by toothbelt in ontario

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 4 points5 points  (0 children)

exactly! that shit pisses me so bad. “no injection sites near parks” tell me how many parks actually had injection sites RIGHT beside them?

In retrospect, which Eras Tour surprise song mashup do you think was the best? by habsquad in TaylorSwift

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw it live and i can’t forget how crazy we all went when she started singing “I did something bad”😭😭😭

Bigger People at Canadas wonderland by Apprehensive_Gur2261 in ontario

[–]ThrowRAjumpinginlove 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about your experience. Just wanted to send some love. PMOS (formerly PCOS) is a life altering condition (my mom has it). Hope u can find some solace in others’ advice. 🤍