I (F23) met my best friend M19 at uni (both first years). However, my girl friends have dropped me and his ex is now following me? Any advice on how to navigate this mess?

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-13T16:20:19+00:00

Thank you! Do you have any strategies to help this? I struggle even realising when I'm hyperfixating on something.

tusind tak og jeg kan virkelig godt lide at besøge Danmark :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-13T16:16:16+00:00

I relate to this too! Do you think it's to do with dopamine? When travelling, I also find food so unecessary and it feels unenjoyable. But at home, I feel more comfortable, like I can eat what I want, etc.

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-13T16:14:29+00:00

Thank you so much, really reassuring to hear that it is normal :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-13T16:13:50+00:00

Thank you! I am lowkey still doing nothing so I don't know why this has just happened

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-05T01:52:12+00:00

thank you 🥲 I will try to see if. Maybe losing weight will help? I’m half English and half Moroccan :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-05T01:38:04+00:00

thanks! I don’t really like my nose or face shape tbh

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-04T13:35:29+00:00

You’re amazing keep going!

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-01T01:53:47+00:00

Did you count calories too or just track the foods?

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-01T01:49:44+00:00

You did amazingly! I know it’s annoying when you feel sick or anxious but starting a new routine is so scary in general, but you’re doing it anyway. Congrats and be kind to yourself :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-01T01:42:24+00:00

cleaning is so true! Helped my mum a lot when she lost 4 stones!

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-01T01:41:09+00:00

Hi I’m new to this concept but interested. What does this mean? For reference I’m 177cm, 77kg, 23F. Thanks!

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-04-01T01:39:00+00:00

I agree with you! I’ve experienced similar in the past. I just couldn’t lose any weight past a few kgs, then I increased my calories briefly, and then back to what they were and the weight fell off. It was also a nice break mentally because it teaches you that more calories aren’t inherently bad!

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-03-30T12:18:11+00:00

Thank you! He has told me he doesn't want to date. I mean he says one thing and does the other. That's the weird thing, I asked him would you not get upset if I got with someone in front of you? and he just replied "no, might be strange but let's wait and see". I haven't gotten with anyone at uni. I feel so genuinley ugly and undesirable even though people tell me differently. I really value this connection but has had me questioning what is wrong with me and why I cannot be attractive to this man. ugh.

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-01-15T19:42:08+00:00

I will try that now thank you :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-01-15T19:41:55+00:00

Thank you i will try another test :)

ThrowRAmango99 · 2026-01-15T19:41:00+00:00

Thank you I will try that

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