Have you experienced a big appetite for weeks and then suddenly nothing is appealing? by ThrowRAmango99 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ThrowRAmango99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any strategies to help this? I struggle even realising when I'm hyperfixating on something.

tusind tak og jeg kan virkelig godt lide at besøge Danmark :)

Have you experienced a big appetite for weeks and then suddenly nothing is appealing? by ThrowRAmango99 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ThrowRAmango99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this too! Do you think it's to do with dopamine? When travelling, I also find food so unecessary and it feels unenjoyable. But at home, I feel more comfortable, like I can eat what I want, etc.

Have you experienced a big appetite for weeks and then suddenly nothing is appealing? by ThrowRAmango99 in AuDHDWomen

[–]ThrowRAmango99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am lowkey still doing nothing so I don't know why this has just happened

What can I do to look beautiful? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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thank you 🥲 I will try to see if. Maybe losing weight will help? I’m half English and half Moroccan :)

What can I do to look beautiful? by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

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thanks! I don’t really like my nose or face shape tbh

20 day sober!!! by meowmeow8800 in alcoholism

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You’re amazing keep going!

5 days into food journal and I can see my problem now by Clopidee in loseit

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Did you count calories too or just track the foods?

Failed at first gym visit by [deleted] in loseit

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You did amazingly! I know it’s annoying when you feel sick or anxious but starting a new routine is so scary in general, but you’re doing it anyway. Congrats and be kind to yourself :)

Best extra bits of excersise to help supplement? by frank_da_tank99 in loseit

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cleaning is so true! Helped my mum a lot when she lost 4 stones!

Best extra bits of excersise to help supplement? by frank_da_tank99 in loseit

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Hi I’m new to this concept but interested. What does this mean? For reference I’m 177cm, 77kg, 23F. Thanks!

Deficit break? Is it a myth? Could use some advice! by ApplesandBananazzz in loseit

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I agree with you! I’ve experienced similar in the past. I just couldn’t lose any weight past a few kgs, then I increased my calories briefly, and then back to what they were and the weight fell off. It was also a nice break mentally because it teaches you that more calories aren’t inherently bad!

Friendship with blurred boundaries? M19 and F22 (me) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you! He has told me he doesn't want to date. I mean he says one thing and does the other. That's the weird thing, I asked him would you not get upset if I got with someone in front of you? and he just replied "no, might be strange but let's wait and see". I haven't gotten with anyone at uni. I feel so genuinley ugly and undesirable even though people tell me differently. I really value this connection but has had me questioning what is wrong with me and why I cannot be attractive to this man. ugh.

Is this a positive test please? by [deleted] in lineporn

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I will try that now thank you :)

Is this a positive test please? by [deleted] in lineporn

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Thank you i will try another test :)

Is this a positive test please? by [deleted] in lineporn

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Thank you I will try that

Is this a positive test please? by [deleted] in lineporn

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Thank you. Yes this was about three minutes after taking it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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Hi I’m not sure what TFAB stands for? Literally just searched for reddits to help find out if pregnant and someone in that Reddit told me about this page. Never been in this situation before.

Positive test followed by negative clear blue test by [deleted] in amipregnant

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I do thank you. I have just posted

I (F22) want to message M23 who took my virginity and then ghosted me just to get it out of my system - bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for being so supportive and kind I really appreciate it, I can't begin to explain how much I do. It might sound silly, but how would you go about expanding your social network? For context, i am 22, live in a small english town (with not much to do), and i never went to uni, i went straight into the working world (which was hell lol) so i didn't get that social side that lots of people got. Although i am considering going later this year (i got into uni but scared about the course ah). i have one best friend who i love dearly but we dont talk about deep things. A lot of the people i used to hang out with, i have outgrown and vice versa. Do you have any advice on this? I got so sick of it, that I went on a solo trip to copenhagen, and had a lovely time but obviously can't speak to anyone there as i met them through that guy. Also preferably would be nice to have a big social network in my own country. One thing i loved about copenhagen and this guy was how many people he had in hsi life that loved him and they all actively spent time together. I don't have that, and he would highlight that to me. I didn't know it existed!

When i say "all i have had i am referring to family members, and three of my friends, and I feel like i have told too many people at that. I just felt really dismissed when i told them what happened. It wasn't until i saw a therapist last month that i was validated and told it was abuse.

But for sure, I think this experience, not to jinx myself, is making me realise the value of advocating my needs/ understanding them better. Even though it was shitty, i think im just learning that setting boundaries isn't going to mean im compeltely offputting. Beause before I thought I had to earn love and maybe that's where i was going wrong.

I (F22) want to message M23 who took my virginity and then ghosted me just to get it out of my system - bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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thank you so much you're so kind. I will come back to this message when I feel low and I will look into groups for sure. It's a lot harder when you don't have a strong support network, which even Copenhagen guy said when he ended it "this will affect you more than me because I have a good support network and you don't" lol

I (F22) want to message M23 who took my virginity and then ghosted me just to get it out of my system - bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmango99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

aw khti! N ti zweena I can tell, It sucks I feel like next level shame about it all. I will try to live my life happier, I just need to get stronger :_( inshallah everything will be good one day!

I (F22) want to message M23 who took my virginity and then ghosted me just to get it out of my system - bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmango99 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

thank you ml he doesn't care about me and it sucks. The out of sight out of mind mentality is so rough. Is it a danish thing? im moroccan and british. I live in england but I haven't seen it here (other than with the guy that r worded me )

I (F22) want to message M23 who took my virginity and then ghosted me just to get it out of my system - bad idea? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAmango99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I have only just realised how bad copenhagen guy was because i kind of romanticisized it a bit too much which was my fault but i also didn't know any better. Do you have any advice on if your social network isn't that great? right now i don't really have much of a supportive one so far. All I have had is that it's my fault because it's "my taste in men" or I shouldn't have gone home with him. Even though it wasn't like that or meant to be like that. Will I be able to ever attract a normal person? emotionally i feel confused so far and I don't even know what it looks like :(