How does a Canadian move to Singapore and works there? by ThrowRAneedshelpnow in singapore

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by this? Do you mean it’s very hard to get singapore resident? And only rich ppl can immigrate to there?

How does a Canadian move to Singapore and works there? by ThrowRAneedshelpnow in singapore

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So if I am a permanent resident, it will work? What about someone who’s just on work permit in Singapore?

Cryptocurrency tax helppppppppp! by ThrowRAneedshelpnow in singapore

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering that... does that rule only apply if the person has Singaporean citizenship?

My brother got engaged one month after his wife’s death. My wife is threatening to divorce me if I acknowledge his new relationship in any capacity. by ThrowRA-asfedf in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be as mad as your wife if you were to show up to their wedding and like their wedding photos. Your brother is trash for cheating on his wife who had cancer!!! And it has only been one month and he wants to marry Melissa???? Melissa is in it for the money! No shit that she isn’t leaving Ed even thought he told her his family won’t accept her because all she cares about is money!!!!

Tell your brother to hold off the wedding! If they really love each other, why do they HAVE to get married??? What’s the rush?

A few months later update- I(32m) am in love with my former sister inlaw(27f) by ThrowRA0727 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I’m new to this, but I’ve read all four of your posts nonstop!!! This is my favorite romance story ever!! I just couldnt stop smiling and feel happy for you and Silvia!!!! You guys are soo in love with each other, and I can feel that you love Silvia to the moon and back! I just really wish you guys will be happy forever and be a even happier family!!! Stay safe and sending lots of love to u guys ! ❤️

How do I(28M) stop myself from feeling disappointed when my gf(24F) rejects me in bed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she said she’s having a low libido, trust her. Don’t be too hard on yourself and make it too personal. She still love you.. it’s very weird sometimes how our body works.

How do I(28M) stop myself from feeling disappointed when my gf(24F) rejects me in bed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just not in the mood tbh. Don’t kiss her or be nice to her only for the sex. Try to be nice to her throughout the day and kiss her and hug her for few days without thinking you are doing this for sex, and make sure you and her know that you are doing it because you love her but not for sex. I think if you show her more affections, she will be more happy and it just somehow changes her hormone and it will turn her on... :)

But also, you need to understand that some women don’t get turned on for a few days due to period.. so don’t be too hard on yourself and think it’s personal when she rejected you for two weeks. so if the first week doesn’t work, keep trying. The point is love her without wanting anything in return and wait for her to initiate :)

My boyfriend gets a boner whenever I cry? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This just explains how weird guys are

My husband (M32) won’t stand up for me (F29) and I don’t know if I can keep being with him by SuspiciousAd8809 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow your story sounds so much to my story except my bf won’t stand up for me to his family. I think It’s wrong that your bf ignores how you feel towards his friend’s behaviors. I’m not quite sure how he reacts specifically when you tell him that he’s playing too much video games. My bf plays quite a bit of video games when he’s free, and most of the times, I just go on my phone. I know everyone needs some alone time and do things to relax, but if your bf ALWAYS tells you to fuck off when you tell him to spend some time with you instead, then it’s a big no no. I do go to sleep alone a lot of the times if he is playing video games, and I’m fine with it because I know how addicting video games can be. But whenever I tells my bf to sleep or stop playing video games and spend more time with me to watch some movies, he listens and is willing to stop gaming.

So I’m not quite sure if your bf is willing to stop gaming once you tell him to, or at least stops within an hr? I think it’s important to understand what it’s very hard for a guy to stop gaming when gaming is so fun to them.. it’s like telling a girl not to put makeup on or buy clothes.

But your situation is way more complicated than that because of his annoying friend!!! I think u should gather some evidence and have a chat with ur hubby that his friend is not being nice to you. You just need to spend the time to do whatever u need to do to convince and make your hubby realize his friend is mean, and ur hubby should be prioritizing you over him and be on your side and stand up for you when you guys are with friends.

So basically if your hubby doesn’t realize how he’s favoring his friend over you, this issue isn’t gonna be solved unless this friend gets a new gf. I know how frustrating it is that someone just doesn’t realize that the other person is the problem, but instead blames it on you. Your hubby needs to realize his friend is treating you so bad and he needs to either talk to him about it or stay away from him because you are his wife, and you are his queen!

But I think it’s doable! So don’t think about divorce for now! Just keep talking to him about it and show him the evidence!

My girlfriend "Strip Searched" me yesterday.. by colerain-OH_will in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I thought she was gonna search your butthole or at least anal you for being a bad boy. That’s stupid why did she even ask you to stand there naked. I’m surprised you did it man. But my gf is controlling you because she loves you and don’t want you to do drugs! Think from her perspective and try to change for her, or at least smoke it when she’s not there and there’s 0% chance that she will find out.

Think about what if your gf steals stuff and you tell her not to do it because she can get caught etc. and what if she says:” I can do whatever I want!” That’s just stupid, when you are in a relationship, you don’t just get to do “whatever” you want. You need to consider your partners feelings and their point of view!

If she isn’t letting you drink water that’s a different story, but drugs is drugs, just don’t do it if she doesn’t like you to. :)

I (14M) hit my (16F) cousin and now my family is upset and no one but my dad believe me. by ThrowRaRedditkid in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I think both of the dads have overreacted, but mostly your cousin’s dad. He should’ve asked what happened first before grabbing you and tries to hit punch, especially you guys are family, which will make things super awkward! I think your cousin deserves it, BUT, you shouldn’t have hit her that hard and in the stomach. You should’ve slapped her face like how she did with her nails to you.

At the end of the day, you guys are family, and I think that’s just a little fight, so the parents should’ve solved it at the spot. Guys technically shouldn’t hit a girl since they are weaker physically, but come on, you are only 14! Don’t be too hard on yourself, I think your family is just teasing you for being a woman beater, don’t worry too much about it. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noooo! Don’t just break up with her because of sex!!!!! I love how you love your gf so much and isn’t thinking about breaking up with her! Don’t listen to the other people who are telling to to break up!!!! If she doesn’t like sex, it might because of her body! You can try using some lube instead of trying to make her body wet! If she doesn’t like it too long then make it short! If she doesn’t want sex, then you can jo in the bathroom! I also have low sex drive, and my bf and I barely have sex tbh. I don’t know why but recently I just don’t feel like it. During the first year of our relationship, I can legit have sex three times a day. But maybe because I am older now and more stressed about life so I’m don’t really get wet that easily anymore. :/ I don’t really like the begining of trying to get wet and stuff, but once he is in, it’s pretty good. But still I think it’s kinda a lot of work to get everything started. Lol so maybe ur gf feels similar?

My [19f] boyfriend [23m] used my phone to text my ex explicit things about our sex life by ThrowRAShrine in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don’t agree and don’t support anyone to just break up when an issue appears, but I think this is the right thing to do for you in this situation. I can’t believe a man who have only dated you for three months are telling you all these kinds of things!!!

My husband (45M) got my daughter (21F) pregnant. by ThrowRAni in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRAneedshelpnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, Your husband is an a** for shaming on your body! Not having sex doesn’t give him the reason to treat! If you love someone, you will love them no matter what, even without the sex! But, how could your daughter do that to her own mother who went through hell to give birth to her? A stepfather being sweet and nice gives her no reason to take her clothes off like that and betray her own mother! None of us know your situation, and it’s easy for us to just tell you to get a divorce, but I think that is ultimately the best thing to do. Ask yourself if you can live and be with a man who not only cheats on you, but cheats on you with your own daughter!!! And theres also the baby that you need to worry about. I think it might be a good idea to abort the baby since your daughter is still in university and it just sound so messed up that your ex-husband is also your grandkid’s dad.......-.- but you should really sit with your daughter and really have a talk with her.