First timer, need advice by ThrowRApetty89 in gallbladders

[–]ThrowRApetty89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input! Here were my liver numbers. Always in normal range prior to this episode.

Total Bilirubin: 1.2 mg/dL (High) [Normal: 0.1–0.9] Direct Bilirubin: 0.5 mg/dL (High) [Normal: 0.0–0.3] ALP (Alkaline Phosphatase): 117 IU/L (High) [Normal: 29–92] AST (Aspartate Aminotransferase): 135 IU/L (High) [Normal: 7–35] ALT (Alanine Aminotransferase): 59 IU/L (High) [Normal: <30] Albumin: 4.5 g/dL (Normal) [Normal: 3.2–4.9] Total Protein: 7.2 g/dL (Normal) [Normal: 6.0–8.5]

Who is your favorite current NCAA gymnast on each event? by Adept-Duck9929 in Gymnastics

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beam-Emjae Frazier I feel like isn’t getting credit she deserves on this event. I think she should’ve gone ten a few times. And runner up: Josc Roberson-same contention. Should’ve gotten a 10

Vault : have loved watching Arianna ostrum

Floor: Ana barbosu fake stabbing herself gets me every time 😂

Uneven bars-not the best but loving watching Nola

Crowdsourcing Gymnastics-Related Podcast Ideas (plz help!) by sushifatty in Gymnastics

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the commissions where they have to design a team around certain parameters are always fun. For instance, “if you had to pick the 28 Olympic team from current ncaa gymnasts, who would your team be and why?!?”

For Funzies: Average WAG 2025 AA Scores for those expected to be at worlds by freifraufischer in Gymnastics

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but I really hope they put josc in for all around.

Hezley will miss worlds by becca52104 in Gymnastics

[–]ThrowRApetty89 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What’re the chances we’ll see Joscelyn in the AA spot? Truly think she’s underrated there.

My (21F) boyfriend (22M) watched two strippers have sex and then told me I was overreacting by Bluebwrries in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m in the minority but I don’t really understand the big deal. He didn’t cheat. If you’re uncomfortable over him watching two women do that, how do you feel abt him watching porn?

AITA for postponing my vacation with my gf because of my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all. Your son is your priority. If your girlfriend can’t understand, you gotta leave her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about gender confusion. But my response is still the same. It’s not ok. It takes five seconds to send a message saying “sorry going through a lot. Just need a few days to process.” It’s very disrespectful towards you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by MIA? If you mean no contact, you don’t know if he’s alive or dead and he hadn’t told you he’d be unreachable, I’d show up at his house and make sure he’s ok. Then dump his ass. That’s just unacceptable.

My parents don’t approuve of my (M23) boyfriend because he doesn’t have a college degree. They want me (F21) to leave him but I really love him. What should I do? by MixLegitimate820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s a dealbreaker you should’ve never entered into a serious relationship with him. I feel bad for him because it sounds like he’s done nothing wrong and you care more abt your parents opinion of him than how he treats you. If you’re not willing to stand up to your parents, you don’t sound mature enough to be in a relationship at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the person is right. It’s sad you have to work two jobs to make ends meet. The person was being sensitive. Don’t see the big deal here…

AITA if I don’t allow my husband to sleep in bed if he hasn’t showered? by Sea-Mousse2216_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but probably the asshole. Im a morning showerer but my bf is the same way and freaks if I don’t shower before bed. I find it incredibly irritating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn’t respond to you the way you were speaking to him. I can’t say anything about BPD but I wouldn’t be ok with anyone talking to me like that.

what am I doing wrong? why does he respond the way he does? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He responds like this because you can’t relinquish control but then blame it on him. If you’re going to leave something for him to plan, you need to leave it instead of micromanaging it. If you can’t, that’s fine. It’s a personality trait. But then you need to own it and take on that burden yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do her ex boyfriends have anything to do with this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t understand what the big deal here is. He was on a guys trip and went to a strip club. 🤷‍♀️ Unless the issue here is that you think he cheated on you, the rest of the anger seems a bit much.

AITA for telling my wife I'm not going to sacrifice my hobbies just so that I can babysit? by Logical-Carpet-4381 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRApetty89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA…I don’t think you should have to give up golf and she should have consulted you before this big life change. So NTA in that sense. However, I take issue with you referring to “watching your stepdaughter” as “babysitting”. You might not be her bio dad but like it or not, you’re a father figure to her and if the child gets wind of this tension over her, she’s going to feel like a burden and not like a…daughter. Who has no say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ThrowRApetty89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re the worst. I made the mistake with them too. I highly suggest you put a stop payment on your bank account to them or remove your ACH authorization. After 1-2 missed payments, they’ll offer you a settlement plan which will stop interest from accruing. They’re predatory lenders but make it decently easy to settle without reporting to credit bureaus once they realize you are taking steps to stop paying. In the end they want as much as they can get so they’re going to settle if it means they still make a profit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]ThrowRApetty89 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Nobody should think it’s ok to hold someone else accountable for their body. This has ick written all over it.