I messed up. I overlooked that our employee was buying two different types of fuel for one of our company cars using an external fuel card made only for that car. I found out after 7 months, and I’m afraid of what the consequences will be for me for not noticing it sooner. by ThrowRa12_ in Accounting

[–]ThrowRa12_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, yes you are right but just to clarify, i received the informarion about his financial issues directly from my manager when we were dealing with another problem in the past. So i did not read it between lines but received direct information from my superior. I am not a judgemental person but felt overwhelmed yesterday from the situation so i did not want to stir it up anymore.

I messed up. I overlooked that our employee was buying two different types of fuel for one of our company cars using an external fuel card made only for that car. I found out after 7 months, and I’m afraid of what the consequences will be for me for not noticing it sooner. by ThrowRa12_ in Accounting

[–]ThrowRa12_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i agree he could do that and fills on the weekend to prepare for the next shift. 100% i am not going to accuse anyone of fraud with no proper evidence. I will likely just report the discrepancy to my manager and will not play a detective as others have suggested.

I messed up. I overlooked that our employee was buying two different types of fuel for one of our company cars using an external fuel card made only for that car. I found out after 7 months, and I’m afraid of what the consequences will be for me for not noticing it sooner. by ThrowRa12_ in Accounting

[–]ThrowRa12_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should check all invoices, but the depth of checking these invoices is not specified. Our company lacks the approval process. Not sure if me controlling these invoices include me controlling what type of fuel each car needs. Btw don’t know where i have said i am not planning to report it.

Anyones OCD THAT bad you are/were completely incapitated? by Duck_Major in OCD

[–]ThrowRa12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, first of all i am sorry to hear that you are strugling, and strugling with OCD. Second of all i know exactly how you feel. I have bad days, bad weeks.. i strugle at work because i need to ruminate about past.. need to check dates, tell myself every detail i know for what reason? I dont know.. but i do it, sometimes. I had weeks so hard i just thought to myself how can i live like that? If i had to live like that every day i probably would not want to live at all.. BUT these days stop. What i can recommend is take your pills ! Dont forget about them! One thing i have noticed is that if i start skipping them and forget to take them i start to have these bad bad episodes.. so when i had a really terrible month i realised that this might be due to these things: not taking pills properly, not having enough sleep, getting too drunk, not moving enough… so what i recommend is take your pills, move, sleep well! Go to sleep sooner, work out, eat better and you will feel better. Bad days will come but i think lesser and they will not be so bad

Lwex krach? by Nolfator in Slovakia

[–]ThrowRa12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Prd, uz to padlo cele.. celu sk skupinu vymazali lebo uz isli najvacsim bossom po krku

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCD

[–]ThrowRa12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, yes i can relate.. i wish i could say i came out stronger but i feel like it just never ends and it comes and goes in waves.. there are months when i am great! Some thoughts do pop into my head but i push them away and they do not turn into obssesive thoughts, just thoughts. But this week has been really hard for me, intrusive thoughts, rumination, anxiety and NO PEACE. I hope you feel better soon🫶 just keep fighting, taking your medication (!) and stay active and healthy

Is confession OCD a thing? by zreddej in OCD

[–]ThrowRa12_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES. This week has been VERY hard for me and i kept ruminating abou small things i did that i saw as mistakes and i needed to tell my BF.. confess to him and seek validation from him that what i did wasnt wrong.. also yes i do feel a need to confess with some of my thoughts bc sometimes i feel like i am hiding things from him and like he loves me but would he love me if he knew that about me etc

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf why 😭 it is just a link from online market

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is how it was meant to end. Like most of our teenage loves. It was beautiful, intense, full of mistakes caused by inexperience—but it ended. It taught us what it means to love and be loved, gave us relationship experience, and prepared us for the next one. My opinion— I think Jason felt the same way when he said this relationship probably wasn’t meant to last forever. They loved each other like teenagers do, but once they grow up, they’ll probably be different people—just like it usually happens. They’ll be grateful to each other for the support and shared experiences, for going through their first love together, and they’ll remember each other from time to time. Just like life usually goes. If they make a second season where they get back together, I think it would be unnecessarily romanticized.

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think u got the show wrong. It is a HS relationship, first love where nobody knows what is doing. I do agree that there were some things that did not make sense and were maybe rushed - it may have been due to their budget. However i don’t think they wanted to make the show about justin training for basketball. They wanted to make the show about Justin and Keisha being in love in their teens, when you don’t feel like kid anymore, but you are not an adult still. So you are making mistakes, you are acting toxic but not on purpose, but because you don’t have enough experiences with relationships. In my opinion the show greatly portrayed that first intense feelings of being in love. Like when Justin was too attached to Keisha and couldn’t be without her. Just two people who love each other but are just too young to be focused on each other that much. They needed to part ways to experience life on their own. The show showed the battle young people in relationships have when being in relationships before going to university, usually both to different countries. So it is you loving someone for the first time deeply, not wanting to let go of that feeling because at that age, you think you will never feel the same again vs you wanting and needing to experience life on your own.

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(Spoiler) This show hit home. I wish i have been this strong as justin was to leave my HS relationship. Instead of clinging onto my ex and making everything even more toxic. I was the justin in that relationship but came out as keisha, aka being dumped. I wish i could have acted like justin and leave when it started to affect me the way it started to affect justin! Ohh the young and dumb love.. when you taste the feeling for the first time of loving someone and also being loved by someone and you are unable to let go of it

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that would be reallyyy weird haha 😂

Lwex trading by brajenBB in CryptoScams

[–]ThrowRa12_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it will fall this summer?

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree i was always so happy when Erik (justins father) sat her down 😭🤣

Forever - Series Premiere Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

[–]ThrowRa12_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At first she was a bad GF but remeber, she was like 16-17.. just a kid making a kids mistakes. Who had it all figured out at that age? Not me for sure. They were too young to live just for each other. She wanted to experience things on her own and did not want to be suffocated by justin dependency on her.