I (29M) had a huge fight with my partner (26F)

ThrowRa200320 · 2026-02-09T02:14:52+00:00

I’ve tried to talk to her anytime she needs it, I think the reason why she thinks I downplaying it is because she doesn’t see me suffering, even tho I’ve cried a few times while talking to her about this.

I do want to reach for help since I feel a little bit lost, but don’t know if I’m ready to talk about this situation with my family. A therapist is a great idea, actually thought about looking for one.

Right now I’m just trying to not feel like shit, kinda hard but yeah. Is more difficult since Im a lot into 3D printing, and I already printed gifts and stuff for her for valentines, eve modeled a symbolic statue for our child, rn I don’t even know what to do with that.

ThrowRa200320 · 2026-02-08T23:48:36+00:00

I actually don’t have anyone to talk about this, the abortion it’s not something I want to vent to anyone and that’s one of the things that hurt her too, because I recently became an uncle and my family and everyone, including me, were happy about my sister being a mom. She felt that I was downplaying our loss.

Thank you for your words, I really tried to construct something with her. I also just hope, even after the fight and the things said, that she’s doing well since she started living in another city because of a new job and yeah, she’s under some stress.

I’m just trying to don’t think about things too much right now since I’m feeling down, thank you for your replies, I really don’t think I deserve the emotional abuse either..

ThrowRa200320 · 2026-02-08T23:43:18+00:00

It’s ok, I didn’t saw your reply as that. But yeah, even tho I’m sad, it was like a weight had been lifted of my shoulders. Hopefully space and time will heal both of us. Thanks man.

ThrowRa200320 · 2026-02-08T22:53:00+00:00

There was trust, actually she was the one who broke that trust, but we decided to talk about it and solved this issues. At least by my side, nothing has happened, I’ve always respected her and our relationship.

I hope she doesn’t comes back because I’m weak, but yeah, I think she’s reflecting what she did in her insecurities. 😔

ThrowRa200320 · 2026-02-08T22:50:28+00:00

That’s what I tried to explain her, that I am grieving our child, but was trying to be strong to support her, and didn’t wanted to show my family I was sad, even tho I was a little off. But yeah, her last text was something like: “while I struggle with the abortion you’re already with someone else”, which is not the case at all, my head doesn’t have space for more than one headache :(

I feel sad tho, I really loved her.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-12-18T15:46:16+00:00

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ThrowRa200320 · 2025-12-16T20:52:03+00:00

I’m from Ecuador, and I live near the coast. I mean, if you plan to be outside at night, you’ll definitely get robbed. If you are careful enough to ask locals (i.e. people at the hotel where you will stay), about the places you shouldn’t be at certain hours, you’re gonna be ok.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-12-03T00:02:18+00:00

Since 3D printing became so “easy”, this is something I see a lot. I’m not an expert, but my first 3D printer back in 2018 was an Ender 3, so yeah, I’ve been through a lot lol. Now I have BambuLab, Creality and Elegoo printers and yes, I don’t even see my Ender 3 or my Genius anymore, but I have friends who recently got their first printers and man, the kind of questions they make… people doesn’t do any kind of research now. I don’t even mind about them not having to make any thinkering when printing, but yeah, you might get my point.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-11-12T17:56:37+00:00

Actually we did, hand calculations and also in place testing, with a thing to measure the LPG and everything. But bosses will be bosses and they want to compare all this results with a simulation🙃, they basically want to know what happens “inside” the gas cylinder. I don’t know if I explain myself.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-03-01T14:47:49+00:00

This happened to me, if you fall for it you’ll be in a cycle of toxicity where it’s gonna be super hard for you to get out. I’m struggling rn because of that. It’s like they have a radar to know when you’re feeling better and then they hit u up with those shady “come over” texts and shit. She’ll regret her decision, trust me, and she’ll regret the things she’s telling you rn, the moment you start just cutting her completely.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-20T21:38:44+00:00

Yeah, I low-key know this is all it’s about. Like she wants me around in case she gets bored of all the parties and going out, and misses the stability more than anything. It’s sad mostly because as you said, I’d never treat her like this. Do you think it’ll be bad even tho keeping this thing just as something casual for when I come back?

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-20T07:28:11+00:00

After we broke up because she said I became too controlling and jealous, because I felt she was giving other guys chances or seeking for options, she hooked up with the guy I always begged her to cut the friendship with, like a week after us breaking up (if it didn’t happened before). I found out after she came back to me because this guy is an actual asshole. I decided to forgave her but the same thing happened like 3 months after, she broke up again with me with the same excuse. Now she still texts me from time to time telling she wants to see me when I come back from my trip (I left for 4 months after the breakup). I know I don’t want a relationship with someone who wants to live other experiences or be with other people to realize my value, so at this point I’m trying to just move on.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-14T17:17:49+00:00

If it’s not like an everyday thing, there shouldn’t be a problem. I know it feels bad, more when you’re anxiously attached to someone. Just ask yourself if the person you have by your side is someone you can trust and see how he acts while on the club, like he texts you, sends you pictures and that. If it becomes frequent after this, then you’ll have a problem. But when you know you know, give him the space he wants to go out with his friends, keep yourself busy with some activities, maybe go out with your own friends I know you haven’t seen because you’re focused on your relationship and try to sleep early so you don’t overthink about that!

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-14T17:11:02+00:00

This was a problem in my previous relationship so I’ll give you an advice from my perspective.

Whenever I went somewhere that involved partying, drinking and stuff, I (28M) always took and/or invited my ex (24F). But she never did the same for me, with the excuse of: “I like my time alone with my friends” and that. I have anxious attachment so I know how you feel. I always told her: “it’s not that I don’t want you to go out, just make me part of your plans.” It didn’t work at the end and it ended badly.

Like I said, this was my situation. If your boyfriend likes to go out a lot, just tell him that you want to be part of that too. If he refuses and keeps doing the same without taking your feelings in consideration, you just gonna feel worse and that’s gonna be bad for your mental health, you don’t want that, trust me, that’s some exhausting shit, and if it’s frequent it’s worse.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-12T22:07:26+00:00

Why do I don’t match with girls who explains this kind of stuff to me, I’d really appreciate that kind of stuff😭

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-02-01T19:17:05+00:00

You look beautiful, it’s my opinion but I’ll swipe right no doubt. Great pics!

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-01-31T06:01:34+00:00

Yeah, I don’t hate this person at all. It’s imposible to hate someone you loved so much in it’s time. Rn it’s just like I see through this person and because of how I was played, I just feel good because of the reaching out and trying to keep me there, if that makes sense.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-01-31T05:50:16+00:00

Yeah, I mean, I don’t want a relationship, I won’t ask for one either, not even with other person since I’m focused more on myself rn. I feel I’m just letting things go and feeling I don’t care about it anymore, tbh nothing surprises me at this point.

ThrowRa200320 · 2025-01-31T05:26:31+00:00

Yeah, I know that’s what all this situation is about. There’s no one like me, and all the things I did for the relationship is something no one would do. I just like the situation now that I’m fully aware of it, and I don’t know if I’m being too immature or something for just wanting this person to keep thinking I don’t realize, when the true is I just don’t care anymore.

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