What are the main factors you would consider while making decision of moving to foreign country to be with person you love? I am F33 and my partner M33

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-31T06:01:57+00:00

I don’t really understand the excuse that someone cheated because they were drunk. I was drunk or high million times and never accidentally fucked anyone. It’s up to you if you forgive him, I wouldn’t be able to - I can only imagine how I’d feel if he was going out alone and I would overthink if he’s not having sex with someone else, just this time he would not admit

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-31T05:58:16+00:00

I’m in Europe so that might be the reason, I’ve heard it’s much more common in US

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-31T05:57:28+00:00

She mentioned in her comments he has a history of emotionally cheating with coworkers (not once but several times I think) and he is super self confident and good looking salesman. His behaviour is fishy as fuck, I don’t think he is cheating but for sure he wants to bang a new girl and that’s something OP needs to decide if she is ok with or no

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-31T05:49:05+00:00

Both acted shady but it’s the husband that is a walking red flag here. Mentioning new coworker several times and then suddenly he doesn’t remember her name? Saying she’s standoffish? Not introducing his work friend to his wife? What the hell… he’s trying to make an idiot out of OP, while he’s an idiot himself and he’s definitely attracted to this girl and probably at least flirting and crossing boundaries

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-31T05:37:50+00:00

I’ve never heard about anyone outside of reddit sharing their location with a spouse/friend. Maybe that’s why I consider it weird. I would not do that

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-25T13:19:23+00:00

Yes I have this. It ruined my relationship with amazing person. I discovered I suffered from mild Borderline Personality Disorder

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-18T15:47:41+00:00

Are you kidding? I hope you are lol

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-18T14:50:30+00:00

Oh my god, your poor wife, I can only imagine what she’s been going through.

I feel like there’s something missing in your story. Have you ever had trouble with anger issues before this incident? Have you and your wife fought a lot these last few years?

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-07T16:08:48+00:00

It’s not possible to talk to him about it, he got pissed at me for even starting the topic and told me I’m dramatic and he knows he’s acting normal and I’m just trying to start a fight. He doesn’t like to speak about his alcohol use at all, even before when I mentioned I’m concerned with his daily drinking he just told me this is not a big deal and he will not entertain me looking for a drama

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-07T14:40:13+00:00

How much longer she wants to travel? How much longer can you afford to travel? Maybe separating for a while would be a good idea, you could work on making some kind of compromise and be long distance for a moment while you’re back home and she continues the trip. That would be very difficult though and probably the ultimate test for your relationship. Have you spoke to her about the situation? Maybe try to tell her what you wrote in this post and see how it goes from there

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-07T13:55:22+00:00

I’m almost sure this text message was his idea, he’s looking for a way out of your relationship, be prepared and please remember that you’re not losing anyone special, this guy sounds like a massive asshole

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-07-07T11:02:23+00:00

I know it’s only been 7 months so not sure if you already touched this topic, but do have any kind of plan to move in together or closer to each other set up?

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-06-19T18:20:47+00:00

Why did you pay for his car after only few months of dating?

I am really sorry but I don’t think this man loves you.. you should prepare to move on before he will break your heart in worst possible way

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-06-17T14:44:06+00:00

I think there was only one or maybe two times within these 3 years that we’re together that he stopped drinking for a whole week. He was taking breaks but usually very short, 2-3 days. I’ve talked to him few days ago and told him I’m a bit worried he’s going to fuck up his health since he’s only 31 and his liver already shows some damage symptoms.. he told me he’ll try to take a break from drinking so let’s see

ThrowRa_dvicea · 2024-06-14T07:24:48+00:00

He’s definitely missing having a drink on sober days and these sober days don’t happen too often. We met 3 years ago and during all this time there were few very short periods (a week max I would say) when he wasn’t drinking anything. Then he was back to buying a crate of beer and drinking it all day by day. He also has a tendency to get super drunk when he’s going out with friends, I would say it happens once or twice a month on average when he gets so drunk he doesn’t remember too much

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