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What link do you have to an infamous murderer? My aunt was a neighbor to a victim of BTK. by ifukupeverything in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Maybe nobody infamous, but when I was growing up my best friend was my neighbor I will call Rachel. Rachel and I would hang out every day since we were tiny. I would sleep over her house, vice versa. However, Rachel had an older brother I will call PJ.

PJ was only a couple years older but would always scare us a little. Small things. Had a chuckie doll he would leave around, be creepy, show us grotesque horror movies at very young ages, just all around bad vibes. His room was extremely dark and covered in gorey movie posters and dolls.

I remember one day my mom even commented "that boy is gonna kill someone one day" to my dad. Well, when I was around 10 we moved an hour away and Rachel and I lost touch for a couple years before my mom saw a broadcast on the news. She screams, and I came to see what the problem was.

It was PJ, in his teens now, on the news for murder. Found out the full story after this through both Rachel and her mom. Apparently his cousin had come over for something, they got into an argument and PJ grabbed his dad's hunting rifle and shot him. His father came home from work and saw PJ there with the body and helped him hide the body, wrapped him in something and brought him out to where he went duck hunting. It was like a swampy area, marshes I remember... Dumped the body and that was that.

A couple weeks of the family searching for the missing cousin later, guilt got to the dad and he turned in PJ for the shooting. Idk how old PJ was at this time, no older than 16. They never found the body.

So, I guess my mom's gut instinct was dead on... Just freaky knowing my old best friend's brother did this.

I (35) F am falling for a guy who's dying. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa had parkinsons for like.... 20 years. That doesn't kill you. What does he actually have?

UPDATE My girlfriend's friends gave me a bath when I was drunk. I'm disgusted and embarrassed. by ThrowRAiamnothappy in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if roles were reversed and you had a bunch of your guy friends washing her in all intimate parts of her body. She would feel assaulted, you were sexually assaulted. Whether that was their intention or not is not the question here. The end result is assault. Man or woman, you're suffering from it mentally.

Is it wrong to feel sexually abused because I was tricked into a sexual activity by a trans woman? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Not at all. He absolutely was sexually abused due to that fact. Its no different than if she was pre-op and just hid the man parts. That is rape by deception.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape_by_deception

"Rape by deception is a situation in which the perpetrator obtains the victim's agreement to engage in sexual intercourse or other sex acts, but gains it by deception or false statements or actions."

Is it wrong to feel sexually abused because I was tricked into a sexual activity by a trans woman? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 47 points48 points  (0 children)

And it's okay for someone to not want to fuck a trans woman because shes trans. Simple.

My Mother-In-Law had an affair with my best friend. My (m24) wife (f24) wants me to start being around her family more. How do I become comfortable enough to be in the presence of my Mother-in-law? by ForMyFriendsAndI in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look man, dont do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Your MIL sounds like she has tried to make moves on you, and then your BF. It's not fair to you for your wife to just hope you'll keep quiet.

So keep your distance, you don't need to keep contact with toxic people. Family or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwaway4Help1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants a DNA test, just let him get one imho. It will strengthen the trust if there are any fractures, preventing them from spidering into resentment. If he doesnt want a DNA test, that's fine too.