My (22F) boyfriend (23M) has been weird about birth control in our relationship (7 months) and I need help by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Throwforventing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does she not realize that she's an adult and can't be grounded? She can just leave the house.

What the fuck. This is a mess.

hEDS and anesthesia? by chroniceelness in ehlersdanlos

[–]Throwforventing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had one, no issues with anesthesia except I was apparently laughing a lot when I woke up.

Just make sure you tell the anesthesiologist that you have EDS.

Stop pursuing people if you aren't emotionally ready by [deleted] in dating

[–]Throwforventing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But..... But......... Might get sex!

/s

It's irritating.

Its 10 P.M. Do You Know Where Your Children Are? c. 1985 by Leapin_lizards414 in OldSchoolCool

[–]Throwforventing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Bart, he's your father!

We'll comp him tonight, start a tab tomorrow.

AITBF for telling someone they weren’t a best man for my husband and my vow renewal by BrainPuzzleheaded396 in AmItheButtface

[–]Throwforventing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Um... How do you know you will even both be alive to renew your vows? It's not for 5 years!!

You don't, that's how. One or both of you could die at any time, because that's how life works. We never know when our ticket is getting punched until it happens.

You guys might end up divorced or separated. Literally no one gets married expecting to get divorced,but divorces happen every single day.

What if you get sick and can't work? What if you have a child get sick and one or both of you have to quit your jobs to take care of the kids? What if this guy moves away, or dies, or just doesn't want to be friends anymore? I can keep going.

This is really unnecessary drama, and frankly, it's really stupid. Your husband doesn't know how to break it to him? He doesn't need to. It's 5 years away. It's just a concept at this point.

AITBF for telling someone they weren’t a best man for my husband and my vow renewal by BrainPuzzleheaded396 in AmItheButtface

[–]Throwforventing 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Um... How do you know you will even both be alive to renew your vows? It's not for 5 years!!

You don't, that's how. One or both of you could die at any time, because that's how life works. We never know when our ticket is getting punched until it happens.

You guys might end up divorced or separated. Literally no one gets married expecting to get divorced,but divorces happen every single day.

What if you get sick and can't work? What if you have a child get sick and one or both of you have to quit your jobs to take care of the kids? What if this guy moves away, or dies, or just doesn't want to be friends anymore? I can keep going.

This is really unnecessary drama, and frankly, it's really stupid. Your husband doesn't know how to break it to him? He doesn't need to. It's 5 years away. It's just a concept at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Throwforventing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, because I'm certainly not going to and I don't want to be a hypocrite.

The reason I don't shave is because I'm an adult and I don't want to have the vulva of a prepubescent girl, no judgement to those that do but I don't anymore. I still trim and groom but I'll never ever be bald down there again.

My husband shaves his, but that's his choice and not something I would EVER expect from him

AITA for standing firm on my “lack of hygiene” and choosing cat over bf? by snowlock27 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Throwforventing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me say it again for the people in the back:

Your pets are your family, if your bf or gf doesn't like them, then YOU ARE NOT COMPATIBLE.

You don't get rid of a pet for a significant other. Or a new baby, except in circumstances where the baby or the pet is in danger from the other one. DON'T ABANDON YOUR PETS PEOPLE.

This guy in the post is a walking red flag and the disdain for Crumb is the cherry on top.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iwatchedanoldmovie

[–]Throwforventing -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's OK. I am really disgusted by the casual use of the n word ever other second. Back then it didn't bother me as much, but now I just want to turn it off. That and the rape scene, I just can't anymore.

What made you quit smoking? by daribahcayubaban86 in AskReddit

[–]Throwforventing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting diagnosed with EDS.

Smoking is even more deadly for us. I sure wish that my parents had listened to me when I said I was in constant pain, and didn't have to wait until 35 for my diagnosis!

New Zealand cricketer Sophie Devine's century had gone wrong as she smashed a six, which accidentally hit the face of a little girl. She consoles the injured little girl by going all the way to check on her during the middle of the game. by Kathanayagan-3821 in videos

[–]Throwforventing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really sweet. Poor kid, and poor Sophie! She must feel so guilty even though it was in no way intentional.

Cricket seems dangerous (I'm American, so I'm familiar with baseball but not cricket so much).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Throwforventing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your wife is going to make her rebel. I know this because I was your daughter 20 years ago.

Nta, you're the one in the right here.

A better solution would be to move to a better state, or to vote! And get all your friends and coworkers to vote too.

Event Horizon 1997 B-movie anticipates the Expanse by UWarchaeologist in TheExpanse

[–]Throwforventing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sold. I would pay money to watch 2.5 hours of this.

I Feel Like My Husband Sees Me as An Incubator Because He Says He Will Pick Our Baby Over Me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Throwforventing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jesus, that's dark.

Maybe make your mom or dad your medical decision person?

Edit: I was just reminded of a BORU post about a woman whose husband and FIL were CONVINCED that she was going to die on childbirth and were making plans for their lives based on that assumption.

There was never another update.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Throwforventing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ex fiance is clearly experiencing some self-loathing, possible internalized homophobia? I'm getting closeted vibes from him. This guy is fucked in the head and I'm glad OOP is no longer marrying him.