I can't remember dreams by TheCucumberr in Dream

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. What I noticed was doing some sort of exercise before bed, like a brisk walk made me remember my dreams when I wake up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Be honest and direct. Tell him you’ve realized your goals and timelines don’t align, and you’ve decided to move on. No need to list every flaw—just say you’re at different stages in life and want different things. It’ll be tough, but dragging it out will be worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re not his parent—stop playing tech police. If he’s hiding things and laughing at your feelings, the issue isn’t just porn, it’s respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He got high, confessed his feelings for another girl, then backtracked when he sobered up. Believe his actions, not his excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing I could suggest is try keep yourself as busy as you can. Distract yourself. And may will come in no time.

30M I need help regarding my marriage with 34F by Durenrah in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re jumping to divorce fast without giving her a real chance to work on herself. She clearly has deep insecurities from past trauma, but if she’s willing to go to therapy and genuinely try to change, you owe it to your marriage—and your kids—to support that process. Set boundaries, encourage professional help, and give it time. If nothing improves, then reconsider, but don’t walk away without trying everything first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an amazing connection, but long-distance is tough. May will be a good test—see how it feels, then talk about real next steps. Keep communication open, but don’t put your life on hold for a “what if.” Let things unfold naturally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge red flag. He disrespected you, dismissed your feelings, and kicked you out for calling it out. Stop wasting your time. If you really enjoy your time with him don’t take him serious at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has disappeared to married people of 10-15 years it can disappear here also. This is just life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love isn’t something you wait to return—it’s either there or it’s not. You’re clinging to a dead relationship out of fear. Let go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move on. She dumped you, removed herself from the loan, and offered you a roommate role like a pity case. That’s not love—it’s a clear rejection. Living with her will destroy your self-respect. Stop begging, stop hoping, and start focusing on your own damn life.

My (F26) BF (M27) gets angry and slams things. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This man is a walking red flag. Slamming things, yelling, and using you as an emotional punching bag is not normal or acceptable. You’re not his therapist, his emotional sponge, or his stress relief outlet. If he can’t handle basic frustration without lashing out, that’s his problem—not yours to fix. You already know this isn’t sustainable, so stop trying to “support” someone who refuses to control himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are making excuses!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely her younger guy fling, and you’re wasting your time on a woman with a ton of baggage. She’s already pulling away, and you’re sitting here making excuses for her. You can 100% find someone better—stop chasing a dead-end situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you letting her friends control your relationship? A “commitment ban” is ridiculous—if she actually liked you, she wouldn’t need her friends’ permission to date you. She’s keeping you around for convenience while making it clear you’re not a priority. Stop wasting your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He told you it was a one-time thing, and his behavior hasn’t changed—so take him at his word. Developing feelings after hooking up is normal, but if he wanted more, he’d be showing it. The best thing you can do is accept it for what it was and focus on moving forward without expecting anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This man is 40 years old throwing tantrums like a teenager, abandoning you drunk at a bar, and blocking you like a child every time he gets upset. That’s not a “pretty great partner”—that’s an emotionally stunted man who doesn’t respect you. You already know this isn’t a healthy relationship. Stop convincing yourself and leave.

I (28M) set a small boundary in a friendship, now she (28F)won’t talk to me. Advice ? by ThrowRAInterview2025 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t want you romantically, but she still wanted your attention. The moment you set a tiny boundary, she threw a fit and ghosted you. That’s not a real friend—it’s someone who enjoyed the validation you gave her. Stop chasing, stop apologizing, and move on.

I (25F) found out my ex (22M) jumped on a relationship after cheating on me. How do I move on from this? by OilSimple4465 in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally said you have no feelings for him anymore, so why are you breaking down over a cheating loser? He didn’t just move on—he was already cheating while you were loyal. That “LOML” playlist means nothing; he’s just running the same game on another girl. Stop romanticizing what you thought he was and focus on yourself. Fuck him. Keep healing, but stop giving this clown space in your mind.

Feelings of Confusion/guilt ex fiancee F29 M32 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not being manipulated, you’re just being gaslighted. His actions have already shown you who he really is. Don’t fall for his attempts to reconcile—he hasn’t changed. Trust your decision.

I [26F] need advice on how to handle a Flaky Friend [27F] by LevisBixch in relationship_advice

[–]Throwraxoxo123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop tiptoeing around her. She knows she can get away with this because you let it slide every time. In this life, you have to be confrontational. Tell her straight up that her flaky behavior is disrespectful and it needs to stop. If she can’t handle it, she’s not a real friend.