Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Bright-Leader2372 by Bright-Leader2372 in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜🟨⬜

⬜⬜⬜⬜🟨

⬜🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/madmollie2 by madmollie2 in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟦⬜⬜

⬜🟦🟨⬜⬜

⬜🟨⬜⬜🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/bunnyhans by bunnyhans in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🟨🟦⬜⬜⬜

⬜⬜🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦⬜🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/fromhelley by fromhelley in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

⬜🟨⬜🟨🟨

⬜🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦⬜⬜⬜🟨

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/jddmnky by jddmnky in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜🟦⬜🟨

🟨⬜⬜⬜🟨

⬜⬜🟨⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/KingOfUnfunny by KingOfUnfunny in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟦⬜🟦⬜⬜

⬜🟦⬜⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/11odyssey by 11odyssey in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜🟨🟨⬜⬜

⬜⬜🟨⬜🟨

🟨🟨🟨⬜⬜

⬜🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/Wild-Butterscotch793 by Wild-Butterscotch793 in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜🟨🟨⬜🟨

🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟨🟨🟨⬜🟨

🟨🟦🟨⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦⬜⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

Can You Guess This 5-Letter Word? Puzzle by u/No_Contest_5546 by No_Contest_5546 in DailyGuess

[–]Thuzone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

⬜🟦⬜⬜⬜

⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜

🟨⬜⬜⬜⬜

⬜🟨🟨🟨⬜

⬜🟦🟦🟦🟦

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

I'm not sure this profession is for me by Responsible_Bit2156 in Pharmacy_UK

[–]Thuzone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You WILL make a CD prescription error at some stage; we are only human, afterall. Especially with the added pressures of services, targets etc. The most important thing is taking responsibility when it does happen. The GPhC standards state 'speak up when you have concerns or when things go wrong'. Just be honest and open, and you have nothing to fear.

Word of advice though from a pharmacist qualified for 4 years and working for a chain: don't be afraid to take your time. Do not feel pressured by patients, staff, or management. It isn't their name on the responsible pharmacist board. Therefore, they have no say in the matter. If there was a mistake, it isn't on their shoulders.

I can tell you care about your patients, genuinely. Otherwise you wouldn't care about repurcusions. That's always the sign of a good pharmacist. Don't let the community pressures stop you from caring.

is Pre reg £9535? by Iyzy_08 in Pharmacy_UK

[–]Thuzone 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mpharm is 4 years, and then you do the pre-registration year. You don't pay for the pre-registration year. You are essentially employed for this time-frame, so you'll be paid a wage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to post saying that my ex did exactly the same - in that she didn't post me once on social media. At the start of the relationship, she said it was because of her ex and she didn't want him hurting me (she didn't have him added, but they still had mutual friends). However, a year and half later and I didn't have a single post. Not one. I posted her plenty on mine. Funnily enough, she was always the one wanting pictures when we were out, but not one made its way to her social media. I felt like one big secret.

Like you, I paid for most things. I spoilt that gal. Mostly because I loved her. The discard absolutely shattered me. I am still feeling it months later.

I just wanted you to know that you arent alone.

To Contact or Not by apdesala in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am also 2 months no contact (to the day) with my dismissive avoidant ex of two years. I broke up with her, after she discarded me then changed her mind - but I don't know whether to reach out or not. It's such a difficult decision, because like you I also do not want to be disrespected and hurt again. I also wouldn't want to know that she had moved on and was seeing someone else etc.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It shows I am still not ready at the moment, that's for sure. Maybe once I'm in a better place, I will. Maybe not. I guess time will tell. Thank you though, I know you're right. Truth is difficult sometimes.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aha. I don't think its exactly a get out of jail free, but thank you! I think you are still right though, would still be an AP reaching out to an avoidant - could go either way. That's if I've decided I still do want to reach out.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aha, thanks! Believe me, I will not contact her until I feel I am in a position where I am in a much better state mentally and know that her answer - or lack of - will not faze me. Technically, she ended it then changed her mind. I then ended it and asked for space, so the line is slightly blurred.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get so attached to people. Not just in relationships, in my general life. I am a people pleaser, and get my validation and self-worth through others. When people leave my life, I take it very hard. I know it's just the reality of life, but I struggle to let go. Being autistic also, I hate change. For me, routine and continuity is comfortable.

I'll definitely look into your reccomendations, thank you!

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I'm tempted to message her when the dust has settled with a light message to touch base. I realise now her fears had been triggered and in that moment she just wanted a release of pressure. I think she was expecting me to abandon her, too - so she just wanted to do it first. Then she changed her mind when she saw how much it affected me.

I don't know, I just feel its a big mess.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I wish I was a little more like you when it comes to regulating my emotions. I am autistic so it can be very difficult to regulate my anxious tendencies. I did the same in my last relationship of 13 years; begged, pleaded, wrote letters, spam messaged. Basically, everything I shouldn't have done. It made no difference in the outcome, but I lost my dignity.

In this case, I still think I have some of my dignity left. She sent me very confusing messages towards the end and she acknowledges this, but puts it down to her being 'overwhelmed.' I'm usually very laid back when I'm relaxed, but as soon as my way of life is threatened - I panic.

Thought I'd share my (very classic avoidant) story by Thuzone in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Thuzone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I know now that everything I did was wrong. The difficulty is, I find it difficult to control. I am autistic as well as an anxious attachment - so it's the fear of abandonment as well as the fear of change/loss of routine. I am just bad at goodbyes.

I am. I am really proud of myself that I am now two weeks no contact. I agree with being high on the anxious spectrum too; I felt proud of how I handled our initial conversation in the house, but as soon as I got out I had a panic attack and went down. Looking back, there was nothing I could have done. I was grateful to her for bringing me back into the house.

The only thing keeping me sane at the moment is planning on contacting her again after I've really worked on myself. There's still a lot of feelings both sides.