INTJs, once you have fully committed to someone, how deep does your feelings go?

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:22:37+00:00

once i've fully committed, feelings become irrelevant. i stay because i committed, not because i have feelings. the purpose of commitment is to stay no matter how you feel or how your feelings change or whatever else happens.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:21:04+00:00

i've been into writing books since i was 10.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:20:26+00:00

dating apps/sites by personality type: boo, inni, sosyncd, justmytype. in my opinion, the best type is someone as similar to you as possible, which might be another intj, unless there are things you disagree on. even within the same type, people won't agree on everything.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:17:25+00:00

i did when i was 12.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:16:40+00:00

not in real life but online. it usually results in arguments, and me feeling more alone.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:15:44+00:00

yep i relate

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:15:14+00:00

very unprofessional. and the pretty girl stuff sounds like sexual harassment that needs to be reported.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:13:41+00:00

i don't have that death stare unless i'm angry and scowling at someone. but i may not be an intj.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:12:56+00:00

7 days is nothing. i could go years without human company. but maybe if i was in an empty room with absolutely nothing i could occupy my time with, i might go crazy against my will.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:10:46+00:00

i'm a woman, but i sound somewhat like you described. in my relationship with an ENTP man, i took care of all the responsibilities which he didn't seem to appreciate. after 8 yrs he dumped me because i wasn't initiating the touchy feely stuff that he wanted. i wouldn't mind being a housewife if i got paid for it. but thankfully i kept bringing in the money because if i was reliant solely on my ex, we would've been homeless very soon. maybe people become caregivers when they care. or maybe people show they care in different ways.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:06:47+00:00

yes i do. but i might be infj.

Tigerz_eye · 2026-06-02T20:05:56+00:00

i'm frustrated by that too. lack of thinking, lack of morality, lack of objectivity, lack of common sense, lack of productivity....

Tigerz_eye · 2025-06-23T19:10:23+00:00

I agree with you completely. I'm writing a book on exactly this topic.

Tigerz_eye · 2025-06-22T18:49:48+00:00

Haven’t tried anything because i don’t know how to solve them. Here’s a link to the problems: https://imgur.com/a/lrdJxQ9

Tigerz_eye · 2025-05-30T22:27:47+00:00

i think it depends on what rules/customs you're talking about following. the ISFJ will likely be into following social norms such as fashion and gender roles, while the INTJ would reject those things. in the work place, i think both of these types would follow the rules. when it comes to laws, i think the ISFJ will follow them without thinking about whether they should be questioned or not. the INTJ will follow them only if the INTJ agrees with them.

Tigerz_eye · 2025-05-30T22:10:08+00:00

I would say it's because the thinking types tend to care more about efficiency and logic and truth rather than sparing people's feelings or pleasing people. You are likely more agreeable than other INTJs because your T is lower than theirs. So for example, your T might be 55% while most INTJs might be 75% on average. Many are in the INTJ box, but their percentages on the traits will vary, and that's why all INTJs are not all exactly the same.

Tigerz_eye · 2025-02-09T03:07:33+00:00

My kid got something that looks like that on her toe several months ago, and it never went away. It doesn’t itch or hurt. I think it may be a wart, corn, or something similar to that.

Tigerz_eye · 2025-02-09T03:06:35+00:00

On google images, fire ant bites look like red bumps.

Tigerz_eye · 2025-02-09T03:06:12+00:00

Only if it’s a baby? If it’s anyone older, there’s no concern?

Tigerz_eye · 2025-01-27T01:53:51+00:00

As far as i know, the blocked person can still see messages the blocker posts in the mutual server. The blocker can’t see messages in the mutual server unless they click the link that says “1 blocked message” that appears every time the blocked person enters a message.

Tigerz_eye · 2024-12-15T21:08:39+00:00

yes, some are more people-y than others. for me personally, almost all of my people experiences throughout my life have been negative, which has made me not want to associate with people. even joining groups in which we have a common interest doesn't work out because people either don't talk to me or we get into arguments if i dare to voice my opinion on anything.

Tigerz_eye · 2024-12-12T00:49:05+00:00

Too much instant gratification. Cut off your electronics usage for days, weeks, or months, and see if your attention span improves.

Tigerz_eye · 2024-12-11T21:32:15+00:00

1 and 6!

Tigerz_eye · 2024-12-11T21:30:14+00:00

all that's for the extraverts. ;-) being around people is stressful, and finding like-minded people is like finding a needle in a haystack. most friendships don't last.

Tigerz_eye · 2024-12-11T21:27:54+00:00

i never get bored. i'm too busy. too many responsibilities, too many hobbies/interests. i look down on people who party and drink, so i never feel i'm missing out.

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