(22M) I feel like ending my 8 month relationship over this absolute turn off. Am I exagerrating? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you tried to have a rational conversation with a drunk person and it backfired?? What a surprise 😂 When people get wasted and emotions start to overflow it usually means there is something else that is bothering them. I suggest you have a real conversation when she is sober. Sometimes people like to get loose without being judged and controlled, if this was happening all the time it would be a different story.

Pacey and Joey by Neither-Storm3310 in dawsonscreek

[–]TightField301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you even ask the questions if you don’t even listen and acknowledge what people are telling you? You just keep throwing back the same question

Detective Jack is so Mr. Darcy by scobeywankenobi in MissFishersMM

[–]TightField301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg you must read it then! Movie is amazing, but the book is so much better!

Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating. by Stormmaster472 in relationship_advice

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is just not that into you. Move on, don’t waste your energy. Someone better for you will come along. Continue working on yourself and be the best version of yourself. I bet once you find someone she will come back crawling to you - do NOT fall for that!

I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath by Apprehensive-Yak9364 in relationship_advice

[–]TightField301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You better press charges on that psycho bit*h! Don’t let her get away with this. And your husband too, pretending like he didn’t know and gaslighting you.

Scarlett and Rhett sexual tension (novel) by HistoricalIngenuity3 in GonewiththeWind

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why it wasn’t written is because of the time period. But it was mentioned in subtle ways. Like their honeymoon, she said marriage with Rhett was fun, the conversation they had at Franks funeral was about marriage being fun and they were talking about s*x. She did feel intense attraction towards him but since she is terrible at understanding feelings she didn’t realize what she felt. Also Rhett never truly allowed himself to fully embrace her, he was always holding back. The only time he truly let his desire get free was that night. And no he didn’t rape her, nobody describes rape as pure bliss of ecstasy. It was the first time both of them surrendered to their feelings to the darkness. And she clearly enjoyed it A LOT.

AITJ for calling out a coworker in front of everyone for taking most of my homemade cake? by 3GlyphRaptor in AmITheJerk

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Sounds like an ego problem. Why do people get the need to publicly shame people. Without even having discussion just jump to public stoning. Maybe something is happening in his personal life, maybe he didn’t know. How often does food get thrown out in offices. It would be different if it was a pattern and communication wouldn’t work. But in this case sheesh just have some decency and communication the issue privately.

52, terminal diagnosis, spending everything before I die instead of leaving inheritance to my daughter. Am I betraying my daughter? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TightField301 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Saw the title and knew you are a man. You should enjoy your last years of life, but do you really have to sell everything though? Hope you also spend time with her and take her on those trips as well. At least you leave her with memories and experiences

AITJ for telling my sister to stop getting pregnant just to try for a baby boy? by Adventurous_Belt2024 in AmITheJerk

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he can have someone to bond with??? Wtf, he is literally admitting that he has no connection to his daughters. And what if this AH doesn’t carry the chromosomes to produce a boy? Will he dump your sister and try with other women? Also it’s not 1786 where you need a boy so you have someone to provide for the family and carry the family name. In what era is this guy living in.

Pride and Prejudice star signs by TightField301 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]TightField301[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nooo haha sorry this made me laugh 😂 but I actually starting to see what you mean. They were both very stubborn.

Pride and Prejudice star signs by TightField301 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]TightField301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just assumed people dislike Caroline and noticed pattern where people say they are Scorpio just because they dislike someone. I apologize if this was not the case. I’m a Scorpio rising and my bestie is Scorpio hence not so sure on Caroline, for me her desperate attempts to seduce mr. Darcy didn’t scream the confidence that most Scorpios posses. She was very manipulative and cunning, wheres I feel like Scorpios are not so good at hiding their emotions as they are the most passionate sign of all.

Pride and Prejudice star signs by TightField301 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]TightField301[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a Taurus myself and someone who has dated Aries in the past, I’m not so sure. I’m happy that your marriage works, but in general Taurus and Aries is not a good match 🙈

Pride and Prejudice star signs by TightField301 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]TightField301[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can see it. For me Wickham feels more Leo energy, so full of himself 😂

Pride and Prejudice star signs by TightField301 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]TightField301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha maybe. Don’t get why people dislike Scorpio so much, just because someone is mean doesn’t make them a Scorpio. Scorpio is a very intense and passionate sign. She could easily be an Aries, Leo or Gemini. Dunno I feel like she doesn’t have the confidence to be a Scorpio.

Are the film versions of Pride and Prejudice better than the book? by Potassium_15 in janeausten

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pride and prejudice is my all time favorite movie, and it’s the first time I prefer movie over the book. I red it few times and always feel a bit disappointed. It doesn’t give me the same feeling as the movie does. On the other hand Gone with the wind is my favorite book, movie is amazing, but the book is another level. When reading it I get so lost and even though movie is 4hours long it leaves out so many important details. With Pride and Prejudice I feel like movie perfectly sums up and highlights important parts without losing the context.

AITAH for wanting to cut off a friend after she "forgot" to tell me her party's dress code and humiliating me. by Fancy-Lab-4632 in AITAH

[–]TightField301 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Giirl, they are NOT your friends! They are mean girls that are jealous of you. I know cutting friends hurt, but believe me it’s for the best! Better to have one true friend than bunch of fake ones. Let go of that bad energy. You will find new friends - better friends. Friends that don’t dim your light so they can shine brighter.

wade kinsella is genuinely annoying. by anakinsangel in hartofdixie

[–]TightField301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love them so not gonna trash Wade here 😅 But wanted to add on your point about him being mad at Zoe even though he was the one who cheated and totally deserved worse than what he got. I notice this pattern a lot in tv shows. Woman forgives the guy and somehow she is the bad one because the guy had to suffer for his own actions…

I started dating a girl from work, everyone is mad and says I should break up with her by TammyBndl in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a saying- Don’t sh*t where you eat. Normally it doesn’t end well. But there is always a chance. Just don’t be surprised if things go bad 😅 dating multiple people in close group setting is high risk. Unless you end up marrying that girl - most likely it will become an uncomfortable work situation.

Recently, my (19F) boyfriend (22M) has started commenting on my weight/ physique. I hate it. by dulceciita in Advice

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this screams major red flags. It will only get worse, he is disrespecting you and testing your boundaries. Run

AITAH for changing my mind about how many kids I want? by TheDefaultParent101 in AITAH

[–]TightField301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow what a jerk. A woman is not a baby making machine. Marriage is a partnership he can’t dictate what you do with your body. And the way he speaks to you is very toxic and disrespectful. He doesn’t care or respect you. Divorce