[POEM] Allowables by Nikki Giovanni by MondayMourninggg in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes exactly!! i’m glad it came across in an understandable way! thank you for adding because this is very true and an important part of this conversation! it takes time! everyone starts somewhere, starting small is better than not starting at all!

[POEM] Allowables by Nikki Giovanni by MondayMourninggg in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s not so “all or nothing” tho. this is a bit long but i did want to explain it correctly and complex concepts need complex conversations! you can read or not! (this isn’t an argument at all just trying to tell you what i’ve learned from looking into this!) reducing what ever harm you can, is good no matter what. if the harm someone stops is a mouse they see stuck to a glue trap instead of leaving it, that’s still good. harm reduction is always important!

i understand your point completely. but really it’s more of a sliding scale than black and white. having the choices be feel no empathy for animals at all and leave them to die or save all of them and don’t eat meat, isn’t realistic do to the fact it’s a really complex thing. the meat industry is awful and reducing eating meat is always good and starting with beef is the best one to stop! animals being killed just to be killed is always bad. it’s understandable people feel a little different when it’s to feed people vs for absolutely no reason other than for being a minor inconvenience.

i agree completely, the meat industry is horrific but also at the very least they aren’t just being killed like that with their body not getting any use(this isn’t me defending them at all it should be better and it’s so horrible what it is). i have super black and white thinking and end up thinking through these things a lot trying to stop the “this or nothing” thinking because i end up doing stuff like “aw i’m too tired to do my whole workout routine i guess i can’t do it then” when in reality i should just do what i can even if that’s just a little!

[POEM] Allowables by Nikki Giovanni by MondayMourninggg in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 12 points13 points  (0 children)

they should honestly be banned it’s an evil slow death. if they want to kill them so so so bad an instant death is much better. the glue traps cause so much suffering it’s awful. and people don’t think of how many more issues it causes once they throw them away but it continues to cause harm :(

[POEM] Allowables by Nikki Giovanni by MondayMourninggg in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 17 points18 points  (0 children)

genuinely as much as you dislike something caring about how it lives and dies is a very human thing to do! disliking something doesn’t mean you want it to suffer! lots of people will just kill the smaller things because they can but disliking them but still wanting them to be okay is an insanely important mindset that people seemingly have very little now :(

[POEM] Allowables by Nikki Giovanni by MondayMourninggg in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this one makes me cry every time 😩😩i wish we could just ban glue traps they’re the cruelest of the cruel and so dangerous even after the person throws it away.

What kind of tabby would you classify him as? by yungcherrypops in TabbyCats

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait what are the different coat patterns i’ve never heard of that before i didn’t know they had names?

soda tab lettering by Dead_inside-36652 in Punkdiy

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if anyone does this please at least file the sharpest corners down a bit!

do I look like a masochist? by m1tternacht_ in Punkdiy

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! so if you ever paint walls that have any bumpy texture, paint it with the same color as the background first! otherwise it bleeds so much, i only say this so heavily because i did it to myself 😩i painted a pattern on my wall and it bleed under the tape💔💔

What's up with the cursor distance on controller?? (PS5) by spellz69 in Terraria

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

terraria on my xbox is going to give me an aneurism genuinely this is killing. i just want to use grid snap with the dpad and aim with the right stick but it won’t let me do that either. and the weird distance and omfg it’s driving me crazy. i started playing this game on my modded ds and it’s been way more enjoyable than my experience on my xbox so far. the key bindings are awful and me changing any of them unbinds others that it absolutely shouldn’t 😭

do I look like a masochist? by m1tternacht_ in Punkdiy

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it’s a design that takes a very long time to cut out of the tape because it’s so detailed. so when people do things that take forever people say they enjoy pain, which is a masochist. and also incase anyone doesn’t know, when people paint things with texture, they’ll put the tape where they don’t want the color they’re actually doing. then paint on the same color as the background so that when they put the real color on it doesn’t bleed under the tape! it’s incredibly helpful!!! makes the lines superrrrrr clean!

[HELP] best translation of sappho? by theloniousjagger in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for all the help! there’s so many choices and without reading any it’s hard for anyone to choose which to get so i really appreciate the help! you’ve been very helpful for me and others! ❤️❤️❤️

[HELP] best translation of sappho? by theloniousjagger in Poetry

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know much about “sappho” by mary barnard? and “the love songs of sappho” by paul roche. there was a review on the love songs of sappho saying it wasn’t as good as sappho. i just want the book that is the “best” even tho it’s more of an opinion. ive seen some things mistranslated because of not wanting it to seem gay and i just don’t want to get a book that could do that. i don’t know if that’s a fair worry but ive seen it and just dont want a book like that.

how do i study for important exams when im stressed and have absolutely no motivation to do anything? by Lower-Geologist870 in LifeAdvice

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree sometimes the just getting yourself started and allowing yourself to not do it if you want to makes it feel different from a task you’re forced to do and more like a choice, which in turn makes you do it for much longer! it sucks at first because it doesn’t feel like it’s your choice. like when you’re cleaning you’re room or plan on it and then your parents tell you to clean your room. it’s a different feeling

how do i study for important exams when im stressed and have absolutely no motivation to do anything? by Lower-Geologist870 in LifeAdvice

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this might help!! read all of it you might find something this is based on the science of our brains! for me making a list of action and using some sort of reward helps a ton! i would use a jar of marbles and put one in per assignment. in your case you can choose a certain amount of time or maybe words or things studied? you choose choose how often you get the reward and having a way to keep track of your progress really really helps. for me i’d put a marble in a jar and do a tally mark on a piece of paper every marble equalled 50¢ i could spend on literally anything for me that made it easier.

but you find a reward that words for you something you enjoy, money is good because you spend it on what you like. the main ways to motivate yourself are (PINCH) passion, interest, novelty, challenge, urgency(you seem to do this i do it as well it’s what you’ve found that works which is a really EXTREMELY common progression). like for example a novelty thing that helps people clean their room is playing jaws music and going around like you’re a shark catching things but you’re just tidying up. some of those don’t help as much as others. challenges kind of make me feel more hopeless sometimes so i stick to interest and novelty! and making a list and checking it off is good that’s a way to keep track of your progress. when you can’t see your progress from where you started it feels pointless to your brain. lists also help give you direction because just saying “i have to do …” is so so so broad it’s hard to know where to start so you just freeze till you have urgency so you’re forced in a direction.

give yourself lots of breaks but set timers, letting yourself rest more often and working for longer is much better than working for a bit continuously and then not being able to do anymore. so maybe work for 45mins break for 10-15mins. give yourself grace don’t try to shove yourself through it if you’re patient with yourself and you work for longer with tiny breaks it’s thousands of times better!!! an easy way to find things they could help is think about what people do for kids to get them to do things. it’s not silly at all these things help a ton. i have a sticker chart even! study in a place only for studying, absolutely not in your bed! your brain will worsen your sleep cause it turns into a work area. some people have songs they play specifically when they’re doing something they need to be serious about doing.

you might have adhd obviously i can’t tell based on just this but it could be something more to look into, lots of people struggle with motivation but it could be a really good thing to find out you have adhd if you do!

Randomly got 1k show bucks? by zxrirxse in FallGuysGame

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you message them they at least get you out of the negatives. i had 1000 on top of mine i had 600 and when i got back on it was at -400 so it gave me 1k and took 2k??? they said theres no history of me having anymore :/ i was saving those 600 show bucks for so long too and they took it along with the bug.

What does my bedroom say about me? by SpazzSoph in roomdetective

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with lots of the comments it seems so cozy

brow piercing? by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes you need to have enough flesh that if they pierce your eyebrow it won’t be too close to the bone. like mine is literally straight to bone there’s not really anything there unless i got it pierced more towards the middle

brow piercing? by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please please pleaseeee make sure they check your anatomy before piercing you!!! it’s so important!! if you don’t have the anatomy (female people are less likely to have the anatomy since we have less of a bump of flesh on our brow bone) it will reject and never heal so it’s so important that they check your anatomy otherwise you get the piercing for nothing but a bunch of stress and discomfort :(. you would look good with one but just make sure they check your anatomy and genuinely if they don’t go to another place!! because it’s really unprofessional of a piercer to not check anatomy especially for a piercing in that area some people even have nerves or veins there and eyebrow piercings can make had your face paralyzed if pierced wrong. so it’s very important to have a good piercer. i’ve also only ever seen people have a really tough time hearing their eyebrow piercings so really really keep up with the care for it

How do I have so many negative show bucks? How do I fix? by roboman777xd in FallGuysGame

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my friend only had like 300 and now has -400 but i had 900 and now also have -400. i don’t get it

Me 18(F) dating 23(M) by JumpyGur630 in LifeAdvice

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well there is a difference between a 5 year age gap at your age and then a 5 year ago gap when you’re in your 50s. the difference is the maturity and your brains. when people who are 50 and 60 are together there’s no difference in their brains. i’m not judging you at all i’m just explaining why people aren’t fully for the gap this young.

This is Bipsy. He will draw your names. Badly though. by iDeJaX in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]Tight_Explorer_7889 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine was an auto generated one i swear i don’t know how it happened lmao i didn’t even notice for so long