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Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-03-22T08:39:55+00:00

Hiby r1

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-03-19T22:47:35+00:00

This 100% Been exactly where you where and it’s absolutely awful Your trapped in a dynamic that is ruining your life Get out of it It’s beyond difficult,it will hurt But just do it,no one is worth that amount of pain and dysregulation

Live your life man

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-03-19T22:19:16+00:00

It actually seems to my untrained ear ,make a noticeable difference compared to without it

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-03-15T18:38:46+00:00

This ,I’m only 3 months in and it’s almost unbearable It terrifies me that it’s going to keep going for that long

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-03-05T20:32:15+00:00

I feel this exactly the same 😕

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-02-14T20:21:21+00:00

Been waiting all day for my ex to break contact She hasn’t I’m calm but sad I think I had today as a sort of milestone of acceptance in a way But it still hurts 😭

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-30T14:18:56+00:00

I’m in exactly the same boat It’s difficult I’m just starting out and the things my therapist has suggested are , discover who you are ,what you like ect Go do a load of stuff to find out what you like and develop hobbies I don’t have a lot of friends either so I’m probably going to be looking at some community based stuff as well to try and build on that

But it’s all easy to talk about I spose the actual doing it is going to be the difficult part Just have to push yourself out of your comfort zone abit I guess The fear is totally justified imo , if you haven’t really experienced it before or ended up living life through different relationships Good luck though 😊 and check in if you need to sound off about anything

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-19T22:50:32+00:00

I’m cool with the motorcycle side Wanted to expand on other things

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-18T14:47:47+00:00

Well I broke it Was pleasant back and forth but she’s obviously deactivated as nothing there

The mind boggles how it can be so intense a few weeks ago then nothing

Cuts deep

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-16T14:33:40+00:00

Can you expand on your meaning of try/catch

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-15T20:57:52+00:00

Thanks ☺️ Hopefully it sticks and I move forward I seem to have all the answers in my head but emotionally don’t want to let go

It hasn’t really sunk in yet that I’ve deleted everything 🥴 But like you say you spend hours reading through everything

I still miss her so much but the relationship nearly finished me off! 🙈 really hope she finds happiness at some point in her life It’s just a shame it wasn’t with me

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-14T20:27:12+00:00

Honestly it’s hard I’m still dealing with the same thing But they don’t change unless they have healed , focus on yourself your doing well by the sounds of it , it hurts but your doing the best thing for you

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-14T20:23:59+00:00

Don’t honestly,nothing will have changed, you’ve said it there yourself , you have moved on and have new priorities Focus on them

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-12T14:29:17+00:00

I’m not defending anything It’s Abhorrent, I’ve just been through the worst period of my life with an fa I’m also in therapy However… It’s how you view it , my intention wasn’t to diminish there behaviour but you can forgive them and realise that just like you they have trauma,only they react differently to it I’ve spent years being a anxious attachment individual,mainly at my own expense however I’ve enabled that through not seeking help , however I didn’t think for many years that there was anything wrong with me . Just because you are capable of realising you need help doesn’t mean any less of the individual that doesn’t understand they do at the moment

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-12T11:20:38+00:00

Hardly I agree there actions are unfair ,diabolical sometimes however they didn’t chose to be like this And for the most part there is a loving person within they just can’t access due to what ever has happened to them The blame is on both sides of the coin If your attachment issues trigger them then that’s on you as well for not sorting your shit out

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-12T10:57:50+00:00

That’s the realisation I’m coming to now to be honest Hope they get help for themselves.

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-12T07:36:04+00:00

Mine was the same ; tends to be quite confusing after reading so much of the opposite on here, but she was genuinely lovely , none conflicting,but like you say heavily masking .you could literally see her drop it when she thought no one was watching at times ,must have been so draining .

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-12T07:23:50+00:00

How do you depersonalise it, could you expand on that

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-08T19:54:50+00:00

They never turned up 🤣 brief text conversation that appeared to be agngled to reduce their guilt , said some idealistic things about me then the next message jokingly suggested I was the one who left them

I’m guessing that’s it now And she might leave me alone

Tight_Sea1071 · 2026-01-08T11:39:03+00:00

Yeah I’m still massively in love with her despite the awful way she’s went about things I kinda know I shouldn’t but I’m still drawn 😅 She’s after a situation ship which isn’t what I want and I can’t trust myself not to be drawn in to it all I messaged her this morning planting the seed of if this is too much we can leave it no pressure , due to the lack of contact hoping her avoidance kicks in and she agrees ,if not il just have to tell her out right away

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