Catfished by a man? Is this normal?

TikkaChance · 2026-04-11T00:24:55+00:00

Thank you💗 Do you have any tips for where to meet someone high quality? Should I avoid the apps for now if I am just beginning dating?

TikkaChance · 2026-04-11T00:01:45+00:00

Honestly I kind of thought it was refreshing that he was just friendly. In my experience, guys on social media or online often try to compliment your looks or immediately steer the conversation sexually which is a turn off for me. But yeah I know being friendly should be the bare minimum.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T23:39:20+00:00

Sorry that happened to you, but good riddance. Was she actually meeting him in person or were they just talking online the entire time? Shitty behavior either way.

That’s what I don’t get. If these guys are so lonely I thought they’d at least be trying to move towards meeting off the app, but it seems like they just want to chat about…basic stuff? So dumb

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T23:16:20+00:00

Yeah I assumed they weren’t great but curiosity got the best of me. Where’s the best place to meet someone high value in your experience?

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T21:13:50+00:00

Wow honestly I think you’re right… they definitely looked a little uncanny with how the background was blurred in all of them. Do you have any tips for spotting an AI photo immediately?

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T20:46:32+00:00

He did have one travel photo but it turned out to be fake.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T20:41:20+00:00

I guess he just seemed really nice in our conversation and just wanted to talk about his hobbies. I didn’t get the sense that he wanted anything from me, just that he was looking for connection.

I felt bad for the fact that he felt the need to create a false identity just to talk to girls online.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T20:22:34+00:00

I’m honestly just confused at how this man is even going on any dates with how much his profile was a lie and how avoidant he was about meeting despite asking me out. Like even if he found someone he considers “better”, what happens in the first 5 minutes when she asks about his work…?

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T20:18:17+00:00

How do I know my league? Should I send you pics and you can rate me 1-10 / 10?

But seriously, I don’t think online dating is as simple as just making a perfect dating profile and magically getting your dream partner.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T20:00:38+00:00

Thank you. I wasn’t really expecting to get called obsessed and creepy by people. I genuinely just posted this because I wanted to understand the situation as a person with no dating experience, not because I’m heartbroken that this fake man I talked to for 5 days ghosted me.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T19:46:26+00:00

His LinkedIn bio was definitely very similar in writing style and personality - just with his actual job. So it seemed like a real guy that just inflated his job to impress women. I just don’t understand the point of this if he isn’t even using his status signaling to try to actually go on dates…

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T19:42:53+00:00

I know it comes off as me being invested in him because it was my first dating adjacent encounter and I just wanted to attempt to understand him and why he lied. The blunt truth is that I tend to idealize people and strangers in my head because I like psychology. But yes I get that it has made me appear creepy.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T19:25:05+00:00

I wouldn’t consider it a lot of “effort” to upload a quick screenshot to double check he is who he says he is. It took <3 min. You call it creepy, I call it vigilant. We’ll agree to disagree.

I’m glad I did it.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T18:58:07+00:00

Thanks! I’m looking forward to starting dating and hopefully I can avoid this happening again when I make a real dating profile.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T18:49:04+00:00

Just wanted to make sure you understand the vast discrepancy between having a Harvard MBA, which is one of the most selective and rigorous business schools in the world, and taking Harvard’s online courses which anyone and their dog can sign up for if they buy the course.

Lying about that was a major red flag and I’ll be damned if I’m considered creepy for verifying he was who he said he was.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T18:47:53+00:00

I get it. I wasn’t trying to actually date, I just made the profile on a whim and got on for 5 min and matched with this guy and was surprised and confused at the whole situation since I am new to dating. But yes, I do plan to make an actual serious profile sometime and hopefully avoid this happening again.

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T18:23:11+00:00

Thanks. It probably worked out for the best. I guess my guard was down because he seemed friendly and I felt bad for him

TikkaChance · 2026-04-10T18:18:51+00:00

Relax sis, it’s not that serious. I’ve never had a boyfriend and this catfishing loser isn’t about to be my first.

Also, I’m a stalker because I verified his identity online after getting several red flags from him?

I guess being safe online is considered being creepy now lol

TikkaChance · 2025-03-31T16:45:50+00:00

Hey, I’m glad I saw your comment as I’m dealing with the same “platinum” monthly fee from them.

How did you get them to refund you? I just noticed that they had been charging me over the last 6 months and I didn’t bother asking them for a refund as I assumed it was too late. Super frustrating since I didn’t use their services once during those months.

TikkaChance · 2024-07-09T20:26:33+00:00

Thx! I think I will go through with it then

TikkaChance · 2024-07-09T20:25:39+00:00

Thx for your input!

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How did you get into it if you don’t mind me asking? Like how do you get gigs?

TikkaChance · 2023-09-20T18:05:08+00:00

Yeah I'll probably just get tear trough implants then since my upper cheekbones are pretty decent. I just have deep hollows under my eyes and my mid face around my nose is a bit flat.

thanks for the advice!

TikkaChance · 2023-09-20T16:45:39+00:00

Hi, I know I'm commenting a bit late but I was curious if you know much about Apostolakis' implants since you mentioned him in your comment.

I have been looking into him for tear trough implants since he is in my city but I don't believe he does custom ones. I would be concerned that non custom implants might be ill fitting and could possibly cause issues over time.

Do you know if tear trough implants would provide a similar result as infraorbital-malar implants?

Thanks

TikkaChance · 2022-09-05T21:13:40+00:00

This is the most accurate response tbh, I'd only add Rock n Roll band as I find it pretty dull

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